Hi, I am asking for help here about my labrador Barney who is 10 and a half.
He has had arthritis since he was a puppy. At 18 months he had arthroscopy and bone fragments removed from his elbow and we were told then he would develop more pain and joint problems as he ages. He has. He limps and often just lies down rather than walks, presumably because of pain. He also licks his legs and feet a lot which we believe is to soothe pain. For a few years he has been prescribed both Metacam and Tramadol to help manage his pain. The vet said that another drug, Amandine, would add to the pain neutralising effect but unfortunately when we tried it Barney began falling over and just felt as if he was on another planet so on vet’s advice we discontinued it.
In our main life we live in a London flat with stairs up to the front door and stairs down to back garden.
During lockdown we went to live with my MIL in the countryside with a garden and a ground floor. MIL had cancer and sadly died last autumn. We work from home at the moment and have for the last year and a bit.
In the country Barney can go outside to the garden to toilet without a step and he sleeps in the kitchen and most of the day. It’s clear that he’s gone down in the last year, his head fur is now white and he gives the air of being an old fella. But he is still alert, loves his treats, eats his dinner with gusto and the vet tells us that his heart, lungs and other organs are good. He does seem to be getting a bit blind though, his eyes are milky and we have to put his food bowl right in front of his face. Every now and again we come down to poop on the living room carpet and we just clear it up.
I’d say that Barney could go on for another year or more and just get a bit frailer.
BUT…..we reluctantly have to leave the countryside and resume our work in London in September.
I am in despair. I know Barney cannot manage the stairs any more because he no longer comes upstairs here.
I just do not know what to do. We plan to return to London in September.
Should we have him put to sleep at the end of the summer? Try to board him out with someone who lives on the ground floor? Or what? As our return gets closer I can’t sleep for worrying about Barney.
Any thoughts/ideas/solutions will be very gratefully received.