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What is the best way to leave a 12 week old puppy alone?

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ProofBy1nduction · 10/04/2021 08:13

Hello. I have recently picked up our first family dog, a Labrador puppy. He is now 10 weeks old and is gorgeous. He has been ridiculously easy to house train and although he has his expected puppy crazy times, the whole process has been tiring but brilliant. We have followed the advice in 'Easy Peasy Puppy Squeezy' by Steve Mann and it has worked for us (so far, we are only 2 weeks in!).

Dh and I organised it so between us we would have 3 weeks off work to settle in new puppy. I am a teacher and go back to work on 19th April. We then have 6 weeks before my DD who is in Year 11 finishes school, and she will be at home with him then. I break up early July so will have 2 months off until September.

Anyway, there are 2 weeks before he is fully vaccinated and can go to daycare, so he will be left in the house between 8:30 and 3:30 when my DC come back from school.

I bought a crate and he does go in it to sleep, but I haven't ruthlessly done crate training. He has been left alone in the crate a few times for about an hour when we have popped out and has been fine. DD stayed in the house two of the times upstairs and said he barked a couple of times but then was quiet.

We have a play pen too but haven't put it up. I am worried about leaving him over the two weeks.

I have arranged a puppy visits twice a day at 10am and 1:30pm and my SIL who is on maternity leave is going to see him at 12 every day.
I feel bad leaving him in the crate, and especially him being out of the crate for the visits but having to go back in after half an hour of freedom.

Do you think the play pen would be better for him than the crate? The crate is extra large and he is happy in it, but I don't like the idea of him being locked up repeatedly. He is not used to the playpen but I still have all next week to get him happy with it.

It is only 2 weeks but I am massively over thinking it all. Any advice or experience would be very much appreciated.

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sunflowersandbuttercups · 10/04/2021 09:39

Can you find a local dog walker who can come and pop-in on him, as well as your SIL doing her hour visit?

You can't leave a 12 week old puppy on it's own for 7 hours with just one break. I know you have daycare set up for later but you risk creating a seriously anxious puppy (and you risk the pup escaping the den and causing havoc). I also suspect you'll return home to a fairly distressed puppy and a fair amount of wee/poo everywhere.

sunflowersandbuttercups · 10/04/2021 09:39

Oh and yes, what PP said - you need to get him properly socialised before you even consider sending him to daycare all day.

PollyRoulson · 10/04/2021 09:40

The BEST way to manage these two weeks is to get a pet sitter in your house.

Mollymalone123 · 10/04/2021 09:44

My daughter had similar predicament so I popped in and puppysat and made sure that any gaps ( not v long ones-prob an hour) that radio or tv was on too

ProofBy1nduction · 10/04/2021 10:02

Veterinari - yes we are socialising him. He had visits from two Basset Hounds this week and next week another Labrador is visiting. I am arranging more for next week too. He has been to my sisters garden too.
He absolutely loves other dogs. The daycare people have met him too. He is confident with visitors at the moment and loves people and animals.

Thanks everyone for your advice. It is much appeciated.

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Helenluvsrob · 10/04/2021 10:45

Have you contacted “ at home “ dog minders ? You might find someone who will take a partially vaccinated puppy. They can , of course , be with fully vac Dogs

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