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Devastated, but can't avoid it - need to PTS our dog.

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RoseyOldCrow · 22/02/2021 14:25

It's finally come to the point where our 10yo dog has to leave us, simply because of aggression.

He has a history of anxiety (triggered we believe by a violent event as a puppy) & has always been very protective & noise sensitive; unfortunately he has worsened over the last two years, with the anxiety seguing into aggression.

We have tried everything, from specialist behavioural trainers to medications, with the support of our wonderful vet practice. Believe me when I say that we have exhausted every option. The vet agrees that we have reached the point where there is no option.

Today, he attacked me twice in the vet's waiting room as I tried to soft-muzzle him before a routine appt - we even have to sedate him for that, he is so anxious. He drew blood.

I hate what we are having to do, but morally I know it's the right thing - we can't risk any more injuries. But I am heartbroken.

Does anyone understand?

OP posts:
Logoplanter · 01/03/2021 17:36

So sorry for your loss and the pain you must be feeling 💐

longtompot · 01/03/2021 17:44

Flowers for you and your family. An incredibly difficult decision at any time.

Pumpkintopf · 01/03/2021 17:46

Bless you op, it sounds like you tried really hard and put the dog's interests first throughout, including making the final decision. Thanks

Forestcantrun · 01/03/2021 22:09

Your dog is no longer in pain, anxious or scared. What a difficult and brave decision you had to make but you did it for your dog.
I am so sorry for your loss x

RandomMess · 01/03/2021 22:13
Thanks
RhymesWithOrange · 01/03/2021 22:21

Thanks my sister has had to make the same decision about her dog. The whole family is devastated but their dog is beyond rehabilitation (intensive training etc. for three years) and is dangerous to anyone outside of the family. It's awful but it's the right thing to do.

TheSpottedZebra · 01/03/2021 22:24

Poor you, OP. It all sounds incredibly sad.
Take care.

RoseyOldCrow · 02/03/2021 14:30

Thank you all so much for your kind & reassuring words. Him being out of physical & mental pain, at peace, is more important than anything else.

My thoughts before I eventually fell asleep last night were of him joyfully meeting my grandparents (they never met in life).

Today has been tough, I knew it would be - they fill so much of the house with their personality, noise, mess & love. Going about my routines without him leading the way & sniffing everything (well there may be hidden food!) will take some getting used to.

(By 8pm last night, DD said "I miss having a dog around, when can we get another?" Her optimism & enthusiasm for the future cheered me up no end!)

OP posts:
Snowymcsnowsony · 02/03/2021 15:31

Are you maybe ready to share a pic op?
Our girl sadly gone a year..

Devastated, but can't avoid it - need to PTS our dog.
Anordinarymum · 02/03/2021 15:32

@RoseyOldCrow

It's finally come to the point where our 10yo dog has to leave us, simply because of aggression.

He has a history of anxiety (triggered we believe by a violent event as a puppy) & has always been very protective & noise sensitive; unfortunately he has worsened over the last two years, with the anxiety seguing into aggression.

We have tried everything, from specialist behavioural trainers to medications, with the support of our wonderful vet practice. Believe me when I say that we have exhausted every option. The vet agrees that we have reached the point where there is no option.

Today, he attacked me twice in the vet's waiting room as I tried to soft-muzzle him before a routine appt - we even have to sedate him for that, he is so anxious. He drew blood.

I hate what we are having to do, but morally I know it's the right thing - we can't risk any more injuries. But I am heartbroken.

Does anyone understand?

Yes I understand. Do you think your dog may have dementia?
Anordinarymum · 02/03/2021 15:33

Oh sorry.. my bad. Your doggy is at peace now x

Forestcantrun · 02/03/2021 19:57

@Snowymcsnowsony that is a lovely pic of a beautiful dog😍

Bellablahhole · 02/03/2021 20:04

So sorry for your loss, OP. Flowers

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