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Puppies and cats - will this all settle down eventually?

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Puppypuppypuppy · 15/02/2021 17:51

My puppy is six months and I also have two cats, The cats are teenagers and mostly live upstairs during the day sleeping and come down for meals, the puppy is crated still at night so cats have the run of the house between around 10pm and 8 pm Our downstairs is open plan so we have stairgates in place to separate cats from the dog during the day.

I had anticipated the cats being interested in the puppy but mostly steering clear and this is what happened for the first few months. But now our boy cat keeps coming into the spaces the puppy is in in what feels like a territorial way. He can easily jump over the gates we have in place, following the puppy around into whatever room he is in. If I move the puppy to a different space the cat follows. The cat will sit in the middle of the space, sometimes lying on his back and swiping at the puppy as he goes past. Or he will sometimes sit and endure having his face licked, sometimes he will hiss or swipe at the puppy if he is too boisterous . Neither of them have hurt each other at all and obviously I want to avoid this.

The puppy is increasingly getting hyper at these encounters - bouncing on top of the cat, mouthing his tail and trying to play. The cat is undeterred and rarely retreats. I try and keep them separate and sometimes put the puppy on a lead when that's impossible and never leave them alone unsupervised. But I had hoped they would have learnt to coexist by now. Will things settle as the puppy gets a bit calmer? Is there anything I could be doing to help?

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ViperAtTheGatesOfDawn · 15/02/2021 17:56

It's a long time since I lived in a house full of cats and dogs, but that all sounds absolutely normal to me, as long as the cat can escape I wouldn't worry too much about it.

StillMedusa · 15/02/2021 19:06

It all sounds quite standard to me :)
My cat retreated upstairs (comes in an out an upstairs window from the garage) and hasn't been down more than a handful of times in 18m. However she's a total sloth and not bothered. The dog lies near her or next to her and does try to lick her...cat basically ignores dog but sometimes hisses or swipes.
The dog knows who is boss.
As long as they aren't harming each other I wouldn't worry!

Puppypuppypuppy · 15/02/2021 19:36

I am worried that they might though - am I totally overreacting? Should I just leave them to it? Puppy is not a big dog but he's twice the size of the cat and very strong. I don't think the puppy does know who is boss, He has very floofy hair that the cat sometimes gets a claw caught in and don't know which of them is more alarmed

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Regularsizedrudy · 15/02/2021 19:38

If theyre not doing each other any damage I don’t see what the problem is? A cat is unlikely to be able to hurt a puppy and if the cat was uncomfortable it would leave the room.

Blubell281 · 15/02/2021 20:25

They'll get bored of eachother eventually, best thing you can go is to let them get on with it (whilst supervising). Our dog is now 18 months old and now gives the cats a quick sniff as they come and go. The cats are a pain in the arse though as they like to sleep in his bed, eat his food and drink his water so we do have to mindful of that.

CaptainOmelette · 16/02/2021 06:34

My dog is much larger than the cat. We had her first as well. Once the cat was adult sized we just left them to it, they are best friends, groom each other and sleep together usually.

sunflowersandbuttercups · 16/02/2021 06:39

Three cats and a dog here and it sounds totally normal to me.

We never forcefully separated any of them. There are baby gates the cats can jump, and there are plenty of high spaces for them to retreat to if they feel the need.

One cat is a grumpy bugger so mostly ignores the dog, but the others all curl up together in the sofa - the dog will bathe them, use them as a pillow or even let the cats use him as a bed.

I think by forcing them apart you're just going to make them more exciting to each other, to be honest.

Our dog is three now, the cats are 5, 4 and seven months, if that helps!

Puppypuppypuppy · 16/02/2021 18:54

Thank you everyone this has made me calm down a bit!

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TokyoSushi · 16/02/2021 18:57

Yes ours used to be like that, but our dog is now 18 months and our cat is 13, they're quite friendly now and don't 'bother' each other anywhere near as much as they used to. The cat is 100% the boss though, maybe because he's much older and very streetwise whereas you could describe our beautiful dog as a lovable fool! 😂

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