This is long.
Me & DH are empty nesters. Our last DC left home in March last year.
We always planned to get another dog, even before our youngest DC left home.
We would love a puppy but we emphatically want to avoid buying from a puppy farm. I'm aware of how cunning those people can be and we desperately don't want to support that industry.
Personally, I am wary of rehoming. We did rehome a dog from an RSPCA place about 8 years ago. The dog started having fits within a week of getting him home. It transpired that the dog had a brain tumour and had to be euthanised, there was no alternative. We had owned him for fewer than two months.
My DH says that this is unlikely to happen again and that is true, but given the extensive medical testing the RSPCA performs on animals I find it hard to believe that they didn't know at least that the dog was having fits, let alone that he had a tumour the size of an orange in his brain.
Regardless, we thought we would try again to rehome a dog, we thought that after Christmas and, especially with Covid, there would be loads of dogs needing homes available. Nope. In our area there are very few dogs available for adoption and those that remain have been there for years.
I would take on a dog with behavioural problems, I have extensive experience with dogs as I grew up on a farm we always kept the dogs indoors! As an adult we have had dozens of pets, including 9 dogs. However, the dog who had a tumour became angry towards the end of it's life and our guilt for the dog and that we couldn't do more, was difficult to live with.
We would like a young-ish dog e.g. under 4 years. I would be ok with fostering but DH says that he couldn't let them go!
We don't want a Romanian dog because of the previous dog with a tumour.
Does anyone have any suggestions, please?!