“However I do roll my eyes when people recommend them to families with young children.”
To be fair, staffies are pretty good with kids because they’re up for pretty much anything, want to go for a walk, they’re happy to, want to play fetch for 3 hours, sure, want to cuddle up all afternoon, yep... lol and they’re very biddable so forgiving of training mistakes - they won’t stand there going, nope, last time we did this command you wanted this exact pose and that’s what I’m sticking with, they’ll just go, oh you want me to do stuff... fun... and they’re not so active that they’ll go self employed if you don’t give them a job.
And they’re really quite dinky so pretty easy to handle as well.
But then you’ve got larger dogs that look a bit similar that are bred by god knows who with all sorts of weird undesirable traits in there, and random mixes that don’t have any bull breeds in, but look like them and have their own not so desirable mix of traits...
And they’re all lumped together as staffies.
But ultimately, tarring breeds as dangerous is problematic because that makes many people think other breeds are safer... and they’re not.
I see a lot of cockapoos going into rescues with such serious resource guarding issues and bite history that I don’t see how they’re ever going to be rehomed - that isn’t because they’re cockapoos, it’s because people are breeding dogs with issues like that, that just shouldn’t ever be getting bred from.
Start overbreeding labs with temperament issues, sell them off cheaply and treat them how some people treat bull mixes and there’d soon be an issue with fatal attacks and labs.