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I'm getting a puppy!

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IthinkIsawahairbrushbackthere · 06/11/2020 10:48

On Monday my beautiful elderly terrier died in my arms on the way to the vet. He and I had such a close bond I knew he didn't have long (although I had hoped it would be longer) and I had spent a lot of time thinking about what I would do when he went.

In September at his annual health check we were told he had a serious issue with his lungs but because of his age (13+) we chose not to investigate it further then two weeks ago he had an enormous fit. Bloodwork showed no reason for the fit but he had kidney failure. Aside from the fit he was bright and cheerful, eating well, keeping the other dogs in their place - he was fine but I knew he wouldn't last long.

On Sunday he was bright and happy but on Monday he was too weak to move. He had another fit and died in my arms as we took him to the vet.

Even though we still have two dogs my house is so empty without him and we have decided to get another terrier as soon as possible. The local rescues won't consider us because one of our dogs is not neutered. He isn't strictly ours - he belongs to my mum but she is unable to care for him. For us to have him neutered against her wishes would be cruel to her. She keeps hoping she will be well enough to have him back even though we doubt it will be possible.

So we are looking for a puppy.

I have a found a litter of small terriers locally - nothing at all like my old boy - and we are going to visit them on Monday (Wales lock down ends) and all being well will bring our dog home the following week.

I feel like I am walking a tightrope between heartache for my old boy who could never be replaced and excitement about the new life I will be starting with the pup.

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Dragongirl10 · 06/11/2020 20:18

So sorry to hear of your old boy passing op, it really hurts doesn't it....

It sounds like he had a lovely life, so time to give another pup the same. Enjoy your pup.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 07/11/2020 01:11

Awww I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope your new fur baby will bring you lots of joy. However have you really thought about it though, could it be too soon.
Do you need more time to grieve first.

IthinkIsawahairbrushbackthere · 07/11/2020 16:34

I've been grieving for the past 6 months or so. I could tell he wasn't right somehow. When he had his check up in September the vet said that his lungs were bad. I had asked them to check previously last November and in the July before that but they hadn't found anything.

I've known for a while that he was going downhill and I did a lot of thinking on the nights I sat up with him while he was sick or recovering from a fit. I made the decision that I would get a totally different type of dog so that it's a new start, not a continuation.

He was a JR but looked more like a Biewer Terrier and I am looking for a totally different dog experience this time around. He was totally devoted to me and had no interest in anyone else. He would follow me from room to room and would wait by the door when I left him. He was a one off.

I am not expecting to get that sort of relationship this time around. I want a playful little dog who will go for walks with me and be pleased to see me when I come home!

I know what I am doing isn't right for everyone but for me it is the right decision.

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