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The dog is never entertained enough!

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80sShoulderPads · 22/10/2020 08:44

I have a 10 month old border terrier. He's a fabulous dog, daft and silly and playful and lovely with all dogs and people and children. He wants to make friends with everything, we adore him.

But OMG, he's so needy and nothing satisfies him! I'm an experienced dog owner so I'm trying to work out how I've made him this way.

I WFH full time at the moment - have done since we got him in March. He currently gets 3 walks a day, 1x50 mins off-lead, and 2x15 mins on a lead. I have frozen kongs on the go constantly, he has 2 small ones per day.

He has two half days a week at doggy daycare, where he plays with other dogs and wears them into the ground for 4 solid hours which includes a 1hr walk with them.

He has free access to natural chews whenever he wants them (antlers, dried tendons etc).

He has a girlfriend over the road and they have a walk and a play together a couple of times a week.

We have a game with him every day early evening with a toy (usually on his terms, i.e he has the toy and we chase him in circles), or do a bit of training if only basics, or hide the treat etc.

But in the day while I'm working, he cannot settle for more than a few minutes at a time - even when he's been running around for 4 hours after daycare! I'm in an office upstairs where he has a bed, but he paces from our bedroom to office to landing to downstairs. He'll wander out of the dog flap into the garden and bark at nothing, gallop back upstairs and start pacing again, whining and hooting for good measure. He never seems to lay down and go to sleep - he usually doesn't crash properly until late evening, when DH and are finally in the same room together doing nothing - then he might have a chew and fall asleep eventually.

Today he's had his short morning walk, breakfast, a kong, and been offered his chew - but he's sitting in his bed staring at me in the mirror, waiting for me to move a muscle so he can leap to his feet. It's not even 9am and I've barely started my working day - I won't take him out again until 12.30.

He'll be pacing, fussing, whining and hooting all morning, even if I totally ignore him. I just feel constant guilt that he's bored and has a rotten life. Sad

I wonder if he's "over stimulated"? Is that thing?

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80sShoulderPads · 25/10/2020 18:29

Sorry I haven't been back for a bit - but thanks everyone for the ideas, contributions and helpful suggestions!

I do agree that he is over stimulated, and I'm pondering on some of the ideas offered to improve on that. He doesn't have a crate, he was never crate trained (he was pen-trained, and sadly DH just sold that on Facebook) - he doesn't really even like beds, he's had about 4 but once he hit about 16 weeks he just preferred the floor (or the sofa).

He wasn't toooo bad at the end of last week, he's whinging and whining a bit less but he still wanders around the house and doesn't really settle throughout the day. A solid routine seems to be helping.

Today we had visitors and I let him have a toy out of the cupboard, so he could play - it was fine but we didn't remove the toy immediately when they left and oh my lord, did he fuss about it, endlessly squeaking it, rolling on it, flinging it and yowling at it. This is why we had to remove all his toys, he just gets noisily fixated with them - for hours. I let him enjoy himself for a while but quietly removed it when he was having his dinner...and he's been snoozing since.

There's no doubt that he won't voluntarily relax, you have to remove all sources of stimulation first - but that seems to include me.

Thank you for the advice, I'll try a few things and report back.

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