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Help us decide - SBT or Beagle?

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IndecisiveWombat · 18/10/2020 21:29

DH and I first started talking about finally getting a dog around 19 months ago. But even after research we just can’t agree on a breed.

Just a bit about our situation so you knowledgeable lot can help!

  • three bed Victorian terraced house with a small garden (narrow but not tiny, we have a green house, veg bed and lawn). Live near a small local park and luckily 10 minutes from a very large country park.
  • 2 dc, 5 and 7 and both at school. Youngest ds has aspergers (they don’t call it that now but it sounds nicer than ‘high functioning’) and is sad that he has no friends at school, he says his friends are grandads dogs (Dalmatian and JRS).
  • DH works from home, luckily only has to do a few hours a day. I’m a part time OU student so also at home all day.

DH loves beagles (he has never owned one) but I’m put off by some of the differing accounts of them. The kennel club page on them reckons they only need a small house/garden and up to an hours exercise a day. However my research has come up with accounts that swung between agreeing with the KC and others which say without 12 hours hard exercise they are demon dogs.

I love SBTs (grew up with two successive dogs but have never owned a dog as an adult). I think that they would fit us perfectly but DH is put off by their ‘rep’ and is worried that he would find them scary. I loved my grinning soppy dogs more than anything.

Clearly I’m biased, but after lurking here for a bit I thought people with more personally experience of actually owning/training the breeds could help us finally make our minds up.

I know we aren’t very experienced. I’ve had a chat with the local dog training club and will be taking future pup there to train/follow the KC good citizen doggy programme.

Happy to put the effort in to whichever breed we do eventually get but we currently seem stuck at a stalemate.

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Milkshake7489 · 21/10/2020 15:47

I love staffies and agree they can make fantastic family dogs BUT I do think you'd be massively unfair to push your husband into sharing his home with a breed he is (rightly or wrongly) unsure of.

Can you not choose a breed that works for you both?

mrsjoyfulprizeforraffiawork · 21/10/2020 15:57

Can't you befriend a local with a suitably sweet Staffie and ask if you can bring your husband to meet it? He will miss out if he never finds out how great they are. If it is bull breeds in general he is wary of, please tell him that my parents had an English bull terrier when we were little and they came into the room once to find my brother (who was about 3) was standing on the recumbent dog in front of the fire so he could reach something on the mantelpiece. The dog was being really careful not to move at all. Aggressive dogs are the result of aggressive humans being in charge of them.

Strugglingtodomybest · 21/10/2020 21:28

I adore Staffies and have 2 rescues. Both are fantastic with people. One of them obviously wasn't socialized as a puppy and so is scared of other dogs, but he's getting much better as we take the time to socialize him. I don't think I'll have another breed ever.

WingingItSince1973 · 21/10/2020 22:29

We have a jack russel. She has has been the best most loving loyal girl. She's great with kids and adores my 5 year old grandson. She's easily trained. But when she turned 2 years old, despite living with our older Yorkie girl and being around horses and other animals she just took a huge dislike to other dogs so we have to be careful when walking her that she's on a lead when other dogs go past. That and her constant moulting is the only thing about her thats negative. Saying that a family member had what I can only describe as an evil JRT. She had a sister living with her but she just hated humans, even my relative at times. But they stuck with her and she lived out her life with them. So I guess we have been extremely fortunate with our girl. We have also had labradors and spaniels in the past. I would love to go back to a larger dog later on. Cant say about SBTs as I must admit to being one of those that are wary of them which is such a shame as they are super adorable and the puppies are very very cute. We were put off having a beagle a few years back for the reasons that have been mentioned here. So I'm sorry not much help!! Hope you manage to work something out. Maybe your husband could meet up with Staffie owners and their dogs and see if you can change his views xx

Orkneys · 22/10/2020 05:12

Another vote for a Staffordshire bull terrier they win hands down over any breed.

Orkneys · 22/10/2020 05:16

Obviously if I had to chose.

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