My 4yo poodle cross has developed fears since we got her. Fog horns, fireworks, men of a certain age. Now, after being stung by wasps a handful of times she hates flies. Since a fly came in the house she has spent the last two days pacing, chewing and digging. She has broke a lamp, door and ruined the laminate. To make matters worse I am trying to wfh in a new job. Help me. I can't do this and work.