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Dog suddenly a yapping nightmare.

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WhoNabbedMyUsername · 02/09/2020 04:58

So we have a rescue, she’s some sort of poodle cross (we suspect ‘cavapoo’ or ‘cavapoochon’).

She’s around 18m - 2 years old, and a really clever dog, if slightly timid at times. The issue we have is that since lockdown, she’s turned into a yappy nightmare when we’re out.

She’s crate trained and her crate is in the kitchen, at the back of the house, we’ve always made a huge effort to ensure she’s in her crate before we start our going out routine (shoes on, coats on, keys out etc), to help avoid giving her any triggers to cotton on to. She has a walk before we leave, has a filled Kong or licki mat and several toys to keep her busy. Prior to lockdown we were out for around 6 hours per day, 5 days per week, but my husband would return home 2-3 times during this time to walk her or play with her. She was always fine.

Since lockdown, my husband’s work hours have been dramatically cut, so now she’s left alone for around 3 hours, 3 times per week. She’s fine when we leave, but the neighbour says that around 30mins to an hour after we leave, she starts yapping and continues incessantly until someone returns.

We just don’t know where to go from here, we never make a fuss when we leave or when we return, she isn’t bothered by our initial leaving (so I don’t think ‘flitting’ would help), she’s got plenty to entertain her and has a good run on the beach each morning before we leave. She’s absolutely fine overnight in her crate, and we’ve never used it as a punishment or given her any negative association with her crate, she’ll happily take herself off there for a bit of peace from the kids etc.

So what do we do? Although the neighbour is always nice when she tells us, I get the feeling she’s frustrated by it, and I don’t blame her. It’s annoying for me on the rare occasion I hear it, it’s an awful, ear piercing scream-like bark, I couldn’t stand it for 2+ hours, even through a wall. Since my husband’s hours have been cut, we can’t afford day care unfortunately, and we have no family or friends in a position to help us (those who do like animals and don’t work themselves, have dog reactive dogs of their own).

Please help, we feel really stuck here and want to help her to settle and allow our poor neighbour to enjoy her home and garden.

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WhoNabbedMyUsername · 02/09/2020 05:21

Just to add, we’ve had her just over a year, so she’s well settled with us. I also know it’s not great to be in the position where we have nowhere for her to go, but when we got her we had dh’s parents we could send her to, or daycare if not. Now we can’t afford daycare and sadly dh’s dad’s health has deteriorated recently and it just wouldn’t be fair to ask them to have her. I just don’t want people thinking we were irresponsible in getting her with no contingency for times like this. Covid has screwed so much up :(

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BrokenAmp · 02/09/2020 05:26

Mine are always more settled when we leave radio or tv on for them.

Generally a new or diff routine can upset a dog so it might just be she needs time to adjust.

If radio doesn’t help maybe consider increasing her space a bit for example we have our kitchen gated off so the dogs have room to spread out a bit, you might find as she’s maturing what worked previously for her/you might not work now.

I use an app on my iPad which I can physically look at the dogs, and it records the noise they make and the duration. Your neighbour might be making it sound worse than it is and it’s good to know for your own info as much as anything else. Ie my dogs are quiet but take a good few mins to settle down after the posty has been, there might be a trigger which you can then try to find a work around for.

Good luck!

DianaT1969 · 02/09/2020 06:46

I guess your neighbour wouldn't be willing to have her? Perhaps she is working from home.
I've never tried them, but do those plug in relaxation things work for dogs? I've heard they are good for cats.
If you ask on NextDoor app you might find locals who are retired or on furlough who would like to walk her or have her as company.

vanillandhoney · 02/09/2020 07:51

Thousands of people are going through this because of lockdown. It won't just be you, thought that doesn't make it any less frustrating.

Can you hire a dog walker or sitter to come in and look after her if it's only a few times a week?

BiteyShark · 02/09/2020 08:00

Things to try:-

  1. Radio (mine hates talk channels but a music one muffles out the background noises which alert him).
  1. Make a smallish area and block any windows. Mine would freak if he saw a shadow in the glass or something in the garden.
  1. Get a camera so you can video and see what happens. You can get cheap ones which stream to a smart phone. Think mine was less than £40 on amazon and it's still going strong having bought it 3 years ago.

I do know someone who uses their camera to tell the dog to go back to bed when the app alerts them that the dog is making a noise and it works for them. Mine also has the two way microphone but I have never needed to use it.

BrandNewShinyThings · 02/09/2020 08:02

There's a really good Facebook group called Dog training advice and support which will be able to help you.

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