Hi everyone,
Would love some advice as my anxiety is ramping up a bit over this. We've got a 5 month old female lurcher who has been with us since 8 weeks. We also have a 14 year old male tabby cat - who is still extremely fast and spritely.
Since the beginning, the cat has shown the puppy who's boss - hissing and swiping if pup gets annoying/too bouncy. Puppy will sometimes persist in trying to make friends (play bowing to cat etc
) but generally seems quite subservient to cat at all times, to the point she won't walk past the cat if he's blocking her way etc, and generally being respectful and calm around her in the house.
However, as we seem to be hitting dog adolescence, I'm seeing more boldness around the cat - and it worries me. We've had a couple of garden 'chase' episodes, though it seems that puppy stops before she really gets close to the cat, almost like she remembers she's frightened of him - and the cat of course gets away anyway. So that hasn't worried me TOO much. Until this morning when the cat got near the puppy's food and she really 'went for' him, aggressively snarling at the cat to back off - which he did.
We normally feed the cat BEFORE the puppy and she's fine with that, so this was entirely my mistake and I know not to do that again. However, I can't help but worry a bit. Various dog have reassured me that if the 'cat is boss' dynamic is set up early enough, that we should be fine. It's certainly seemed to be the case so far, but I'm fretting about instincts and I don't want to stress out my lovely old cat 