Things you weren't prepared for when getting a puppy

[Dozycuntlaters]

I'm getting a puppy (border terrier) in the next 7 weeks or so and so of course am doing my research, buying books etc so I am sort of prepared. I am used to kittens/cats and I know a puppy will be a whole different ballgame.

It's all well and goods reading books but was just thinking....is there anything you weren't prepared for or were surprised by when you got your pup? I know they are all different and will have their own nature, but any tips/experiences will be gladly received as I just want to give my lovely girl a wonderful home :)

I don't think 'toddler' is quite right, a more accurate description in my opinion would be a toddler on speed. A really bitey toddler on speed.

Getting a puppy is the most stressful thing I've done. And I'm a single mum by choice, so have always done all the parenting on my own and I am not a stressy person by nature. I find this harder than early parenthood, but I guess it will be over quicker. And yes to the loss of freedom. Me and DS quite enjoyed lockdown, but we have felt far more locked-down since pup arrived at the end of May. It's meant DS has missed out on a lot of normal fun summer stuff because either the dog wasn't allowed out yet, or now he is it's only for a short time before he becomes over tired with it all. So no long days in the park, or day trips out for DS this summer. I feel a bit bad about that.

I have no regrets, but I couldn't have done more research or been more ready...and yet it was still a big shock...

Obviously not straight away but get them used to being on their own. Separation anxiety is exhausting, life limiting and stressful for everyone. I’ve had to give up work, we can’t even leave him for 2 minutes because he is so stressed an anxious. If you can crack if from puppyhood it will make owning a dog so much easier!!

I agree with all the comments on bitey, exhausting, peeing everywhere monsters. Every puppy I've had has reduced me to tears of despair and self-doubt at some point. Often more than once.

I've also been surprised by just how overwhelming the love I feel for that bitey, howling, towel-peeing scrap of fluff. It's bloody hard work, but it's worth it.