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When do we say enough is enough?

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Littlefrog99 · 02/05/2020 14:40

I'm pretty sure I know the answer but hoping to get some reassuring replies.

I have a much adored 10yo staffie, we rescued him 5 years ago but he's never been the healthiest of dogs. He has had various illnesses and injuries since we've had him and spent close to £10,000 on vet fees and medication. He now has a tumour in his pituitary gland (Cushings disease) on top of hyperthyroidism which causes some awful symptoms. He's on medication to treat the symptoms which is very expensive and we know that the Cushings is incurable and progressive. At the last test 2 months ago he was doing well, no need to see the vet for 6 months. Brilliant we thought. Then 3 weeks ago there's a new symptom of ulcers in his eyes and the vet thinks it's due to the Cushings deteriorating quicker than expected. Topical treatment isn't working so the vet wants to check the cushings and adjust the meds. The tests are very expensive and he'll need at least 2, more if his symptoms don't settle down. It's not guaranteed that this is the cause or that it'll solve the issue. Even if it does work it's just a matter of time before there will be further deterioration.

I'm quite matter of fact about it. He's an old dog who looks quite sad most of the time, although he does still get excited about some things. I hate to put a price on his head but we're currently paying over £200 a month for medication as it is. We can't afford to keep throwing money at the problem. We have no life outside of the house because every spare penny we have is paid out for vet fees or medication. DP has a different view, he wants to keep treating the symptoms until the vet says he's in constant pain or insists we should have him PTS.

What would you do? Any suggestions would be a great help.

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Littlefrog99 · 06/05/2020 18:54

Well I'm really happy to be able to say after my OP a few days ago that DDog made a huge improvement. I've tried not to get my hopes up until I'd spoken with the vet. They weren't at all surprised that his eye was slow to heal and suggested continuing the treatment for another 2 weeks to see how we get on. I explained about his other symptoms and they think it's all normal. They know him very well and I trust their judgement. I know he's very slowly fading away but it's not his time just yet. When the bad days outweigh the good we'll have to reconsider, for now we'll do our best to reassure him that all is well with the world.

Thank you all for sharing your views and advice. If anything it has helped DP and I to actually agree on when we will make that call, it's been a bone of contention for a while so I'm grateful for that.

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Fluffykitten23 · 06/05/2020 19:12

I just wanted to say as someone who has made this decision with a staffie but in no way would ever want to influence yours. Staffies don't just give up make sure your decision is made before the dogs spirit is broken. One thing that should never be broken is a staffies spirit. The love they have for their humans will outweigh any pain they are in. Let the dog go before the pain overcomes the love it will feel for you to carry on. No dogs love is truer than that of a staffie and a child and no spirit so strong. "My boy left me on the Friday. 18/12/2007 at 4.10 pm. The bravest dog. The greatest friend I have ever known. You went as you came in my life smiling. It was okay to go I know you would of fought a bit longer for me but I didn't want you to know a bad end I wanted you to die as you lived, always smiling xx"

JKScot4 · 06/05/2020 19:57

@fluffy
That made me cry, I have lost 2 of my own staffies and a few fosters and have 2 at present and they are truly amazing dogs, my girl is my heart dog, loyal, loving, smart as possible I can’t imagine life without her. In the last year she survived cancer and kidney failure and amazes me with her stoicism, nearly 9 and I hope a good few years left together. 🥰

Fluffykitten23 · 06/05/2020 20:22

@JKscot4. There is no dog like it. I'm glad your girl survived and cherish the time with her as I'm sure you will. For the ones you have lost they are not gone forever just until you meet again.

JKScot4 · 10/05/2020 15:07

@Fluffykitten23
Thank you for your kind words, I cherish every day x

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