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Straysocks · 06/01/2020 16:58

After decades of longing for a dog from a distance, my weak resolve has been toppled by the combined will of my children. I have only ever kept fish so no useful experience and after lurking on this board for months I know your opinions would be really helpful. It is not exactly straightforward ... We have a yard, not a garden but live across from a large community green, which many dog walkers frequent and near a few big parks. I am at home most of the time. Children are aged 8 & 13 and (mostly) calm and caring in their nature. We also have my sister stay with us about one week per month who needs a lot of physical support and assistance - she is mobile but limited. I am therefore hoping to find a medium(?) sized dog, as one that is small and fast in the house could cause her to fall. We definitely need a dog that doesn't shed a great deal and really don't want a yapper. I have learnt from these threads that you will find dogs of the same breed with very different personalities but it seems there are general expectations of behaviour by breed. I have not yet approached rescues, don't know if we would be considered and don't really know whether or not an older rescue dog is advisable for us. All suggestions will be appreciated, many thanks.

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Booboostwo · 07/01/2020 10:13

Fosterers not foresters!

Stellaris22 · 07/01/2020 12:15

@happycamper11
Completely agree! We have a basset and I'm forever tripping over her.

happycamper11 · 07/01/2020 12:22

@Stellaris22 it's not just the proximity to the floor but their ability to lurk silently. I'm always nervous when visiting DGP age 91

mrsjoyfulprizeforraffiawork · 07/01/2020 12:23

Definitely not a puppy - too much work and not necessary. I would recommend you try a rescue (try several rescues, if you have more than one in your vicinity). Don't rush - you may have to wait to find the perfect dog for you. I am biased towards Staffies though I have had other lovely dogs. I had a Staffie as my first dog when I was 11 and, three years ago, when my lovely collie-cross died, I got my second Staffie cross, about 40 years after the first one. I had forgotten what great loving, eager to please, loyal dogs they are. Mine is a female(for some reason I find them easier and also not so strong on the lead) and is possibly the best behaved dog I've ever had - I got her from Battersea and they had clearly already taught her the basic commands. Anything else she has learned very quickly (not to pull on the lead, to leave things alone when asked, etc) and her recall is very good indeed unless there is a deer or a squirrel in the vicinity, when she becomes totally deaf for some reason. She was 4 and a half when I adopted her.

FLOrenze · 07/01/2020 12:26

We have a 10 year old terrier, costs as follows
£18 per month for vet plan. This not an insurance but covers all worm and flee treatments and a checkup twice a year. Flee and worm treatment are expensive.
£ 60 per month on food , she has Lily’s Kitchen and Millie’s Wolfheart.
Toys about £50 per year

One off costs
Beds, one upstairs one downstairs£90
leads and harness £ 80
Cage which we never used £100..

You need to think about other costs too.Grooming, Insurance, and all weather clothes and boots for yourselves.

I was really taken by surprise about how much it costs to own a dog.

TeacupRex · 07/01/2020 13:58

The most commonly used breeds for service dogs tend to be Labradors, followed by Golden Retrievers as they tend to be the most reliable and suited for service work (calm, biddable, friendly with everyone) although of course you get ones that aren't suited for service work at all! But both of them shed quite a lot (and Goldens will need regular brushing at home to keep them knot-free) so probably won't be suitable.

Standard Poodles are used too - I would have recommended one because of their size and low shedding, but thought against it as they need a LOT of grooming due to their hair type. Daily brushing routine to prevent matted fur and trips to the groomer every 4-6 weeks to be clipped, and as they're big dogs it's not cheap - £45-60 a time!

And yes, definitely wouldn't recommend a cocker spaniel in regards to the trip hazard department - I have two and they are CONSTANTLY hanging around your feet 😂

Straysocks · 07/01/2020 15:38

Thanks for all the really good advice, loads to think about

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