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18 month old cockapoo bit me

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pamelat · 23/12/2019 17:31

We have had our cockapoo from 8 weeks old. We did the whole biting puppy bit which was natural etc

I have been a bit concerned that he's still 'mouthy' in excitement but it's not in anger, more play. We are following all the guidance around that.

I have also been a bit worried that since turning one he has growled, predominantly at my husband, if asked to do something he doesn't want to do. Ie. Get off the bed.

I have really told him when he has growled at our children and slapped/tapped his nose for it. With them he seems to have stopped and tolerated them.

He's definitely my dog and prefers me because I walk/feed etc.

He is actually quite anxious if I walk away when out in a family group or if he is taken from me by anyone, but fine once I'm not there or if he is home alone.

This is relevant because today I was taking the children out and my husband was working from home. The dog ran to get in the car with the kids and knew when I took him out that he was staying home. He growled in a grumpy way, and I picked him up and carried him from the car to the house. He carried on growling and i told him no. I think I tapped his nose (this is all quite gentle) and told him off. He lunged at my face aggressively and his teeth made scratches down the side of my nose.

I actually cried in shock and was upset. I put him down and shouted quite loudly at him. He did cower and knew he was in trouble. I made him "go" in the house and left on bad terms with him.

I suppose rather than biting me, he lunged at me with his teeth bared? I am just worried at this unnecessary grumpiness and if he were to do this to the children?

He was probably tired as he had a full fun day of walking with me yesterday, 12 miles. I know he would have felt that he was missing out but staying home but I'm surprised that he did this. Maybe he is too?

He is such a loving day but definitely a grumpy or perhaps spoilt one? What do you advise?

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heatseeker14 · 31/12/2019 12:53

Designer crossbreed was a term another person used further up the thread.

ClairesKimono · 31/12/2019 13:07

Ah, ok. I missed that.

MsAdorabelleDearheartVonLipwig · 31/12/2019 19:04

Cross breeds really don’t have a designer status. It’s a marketing tool for the hard of thinking and those easily separated from their money.

Beautiful3 · 01/01/2020 20:10

Please stop tapping his nose. You're making him angry. Take him to dog training sessions, it will teach you how to make him behave in a positive way.

Stellaris22 · 01/01/2020 20:42

Hoping OP has read some of the nicer replies on here and will into seeing a dog trainer. Agree the tapping on the nose is the wrong decision, but she's come on here for advice. Saying 'rehome the dog' and 'never get a dog again' is really quite nasty, she wanted help not abuse.

Sleepycat91 · 01/01/2020 21:09

Neuter him. Hes too far up in the pack. Keep him off the sofa/bed anywhere where he can put himself at height. When it comes to walks (even if you lead him and practise in the house) you and the kids walk through doors FIRST not him. Feed him after youve all eaten and get the kids to pretend theyre eating his food first before giving it to him, stand with his bowl between your feet and make him wait before telling him he can have it. He needs to know the kids are above him in the pack. Tbh i wouldnt tolerate a dog growling at my kids and he bit your face theres no two ways about it. But above is a few things you can do to knock him down a peg. Smacking his nose wont doing any harm. When a 'alpha' tells a lower pack member off, they bite, to remind them of their place.

Thoughtlessinengland · 01/01/2020 21:13

Neuter him. Hes too far up in the pack. Keep him off the sofa/bed anywhere where he can put himself at height. When it comes to walks (even if you lead him and practise in the house) you and the kids walk through doors FIRST not him. Feed him after youve all eaten and get the kids to pretend theyre eating his food first before giving it to him, stand with his bowl between your feet and make him wait before telling him he can have it. He needs to know the kids are above him in the pack. Tbh i wouldnt tolerate a dog growling at my kids and he bit your face theres no two ways about it. But above is a few things you can do to knock him down a peg. Smacking his nose wont doing any harm. When a 'alpha' tells a lower pack member off, they bite, to remind them of their place.

BOLLOCKS.

GOBSHITE.

Regurgitating debunked pack theory makes you look like a fool.

Wolfiefan · 01/01/2020 21:16

@Sleepycat91 I do hope you don’t have a dog. That’s awful advice. Pack theory is rubbish. If you punish a dog for growling you take away their warning system. You need to avoid putting a dog in a position where it feels it has to growl.

NotYourHolidayDick · 01/01/2020 21:24

^
What an absolute crock of fucking shit 😂😂

Wolfiefan · 01/01/2020 21:28

Erm what is? Hmm

NotYourHolidayDick · 01/01/2020 21:29

Sleepycat obviously. Phone took ages to post my reply. Hopefully she only has cats not dogs Grin

Booboostwo · 01/01/2020 21:34

Sleepycat91 the 1980s are way back there.

Wolfiefan · 01/01/2020 21:45

Sorry @NotYourHolidayDick I wondered what I had posted that was stupid. Bit sleep deprived at the moment and completely capable of posting a crock of shit. Grin
Blush

ClairesKimono · 02/01/2020 09:24

Sleepycat I hope to god that you do not have a dog.

iWantToBreakBrie · 02/01/2020 10:09

From the top:

Dog's don't form packs.

Wolves do form packs but dogs are not wolves. Even if they were, wolf pack hierarchy is not based around alpas. It's based around parental respect that weakens as the offspring grow up - much as with humans.

Dog social behaviour is different in many key ways from wolf social behaviour. One of the biggest is that dog social groups (where they are formed) are extremely volatile and fluid. Individuals join and leave often with changes happening by the minute, hour, day - which basically makes it impossible to have a 'leader' even if you wanted one.

WhatAStupidIdea · 02/01/2020 10:32

Well. It’s a while since I cringed with secondhand embarrassment like that 😬

ClairesKimono · 02/01/2020 10:32

It was such a horrible post. Advocating physical punishment. FFS.

LochJessMonster · 02/01/2020 11:47

get the kids to pretend theyre eating his food first before giving it to him I've heard some terrible advice but this is hilarious.
What on Earth is this suppose to do? If anything, it'll make the dog think that all food is to be shared, and increase begging.

Dipsydoodle · 02/01/2020 11:50

Christ almighty. That was like a 'How to not ever EVER train your dog' bingo. PMSL at you all standing around pretending to eat the dogs' food though. Absolutely batshit

Thoughtlessinengland · 02/01/2020 14:57

Maybe @Sleepycat91would like to come back and see the responses to their wise contributions and let us know where these recommendations come from ?

Ihaventgottimeforthis · 05/01/2020 21:40

Hopefully OP you're reading even if not responding, and taking on the advice.
Punishing your dog for trying to communicate with you is risky for you and for your children.
Please do try to introduce positive training to make your dog happier and your children safer.

IWishItWasSummer · 05/01/2020 21:52

Neuter him. Hes too far up in the pack. Keep him off the sofa/bed anywhere where he can put himself at height. When it comes to walks (even if you lead him and practise in the house) you and the kids walk through doors FIRST not him. Feed him after youve all eaten and get the kids to pretend theyre eating his food first before giving it to him, stand with his bowl between your feet and make him wait before telling him he can have it. He needs to know the kids are above him in the pack. Tbh i wouldnt tolerate a dog growling at my kids and he bit your face theres no two ways about it. But above is a few things you can do to knock him down a peg. Smacking his nose wont doing any harm. When a 'alpha' tells a lower pack member off, they bite, to remind them of their place.

I feel sorry for any dog you own. Some people really shouldn’t own animals with this mindset tbh.

OP I’d love to smack your nose when you did something I didn’t approve of - REALLY HARD. I wonder if you smack your children when they don’t behave? As others have said get yourself a decent behaviourist and go on recommendations before you do. It’s actually you who needs training and not your dog given the way you’ve treated him in the past.

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