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Stellaris22 · 10/09/2019 11:37

I had a lovely conversation with a new dog owner in the park today, where she has a nervous dog. She brought her dog to the park today because she wanted her dog to socialise and play with other dogs, (she had done lots of training to get to this point). We were discussing how great it is to see dogs just being dogs, they learn from each other, so they can tell other dogs off or just have a wonderful time playing, running and just being friends.

It’s wonderful that these dogs are able to recognise when they need to be gentle and distinguish that with their normal pals where they chase and do rough and tumble play.

I fully expect horrible replies to this as it seems that its the normal thing to not let dogs play or be introduced to new dogs, its just a shame because they do get huge enjoyment and social benefit from being allowed to play. Goes without saying that all dogs are under control and have responsible owners so we don’t let them run off. I just find it hard to see this lovely behaviour and playing and then constantly read posts about dogs being reprimanded for wanting to play. Dogs are social animals and I don’t like how it is normal to separate them and not allow introductons to new dogs happen.

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tabulahrasa · 11/09/2019 12:38

“However I wonder if some owners just don't like the idea of other dogs playing with theirs simply because they see their dogs as special or superior and looking down on other owners.”

That’s a bit of an odd idea to come to... especially when you’ve not had a single response from anyone saying they don’t let their dog play with other dogs... only that they don’t let them go off and play with random dogs.

Jouska · 11/09/2019 13:43

Well my dogs are obviously far superior and special - I hope you feel the same about yours Smile

As I have said before I have a multi dog household and also am very lucky to have our own land. The dogs will go all together into a 20 acre field and will run and sniff exercise etc but will very very rarely chase and play with each other as you see dogs in dog parks . They have the opportunity but just don't do it often.

The idea that I need to let random unknown dogs tell my dogs how to behave is weird to me.

adaline · 11/09/2019 19:41

They have the opportunity but just don't do it often.

But maybe that's because they have the chance to do it everyday? I have to be really careful where I let mine off-lead so he doesn't get the chance to run and play on a regular basis. I'm sure if he got the chance to do it all the time he wouldn't be as bothered.

Jouska · 11/09/2019 20:39

Nope they do not have the chance everyday - why is it so hard to believe that not all dogs want to be mugged and play with other dogs Confused

If yours loves it so much why do you restrict it? I thought you were in favour of it?

adaline · 11/09/2019 20:48

If yours loves it so much why do you restrict it? I thought you were in favour of it?

I am in favour of it. But I live in the middle of nowhere with lots of sheep and livestock around - I'd rather he didn't get shot, so his off-lead walks are restricted to certain areas, and we don't go to those areas everyday.

Jouska · 11/09/2019 20:51

So he doesn't get many off lead walks and when he does he goes crazy with other dogs - I rest my case

Stellaris22 · 11/09/2019 20:52

It's not that I want to force dogs to play, I'd never do that. Just fed up of the attitude on MN that an off lead dog in the park must automatically be terrible and have irresponsible owners. There are bad owners which gives park dogs a bad rep, but I'd like it if owners were less judgemental and allow introductions where possible.

A lot of owners don't have regular access to acres in the countryside, so friendlier dog owners would be lovely.

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adaline · 11/09/2019 21:11

So he doesn't get many off lead walks and when he does he goes crazy with other dogs

Where have I said he goes crazy? I haven't once said that Hmm

I said he loves playing with dogs he's met in controlled environments and who I know he gets along with! Totally not the same thing. But feel free to continue twisting what I say to fit your agenda.

tabulahrasa · 11/09/2019 21:37

“Just fed up of the attitude on MN that an off lead dog in the park must automatically be terrible and have irresponsible owners”

Well In fairness, threads in here tend to be started because something has happened, not just randomly - I hate loose dogs in parks.

Stellaris22 · 11/09/2019 21:58

I get that, and it's why I hate that some irresponsible owners have caused this. I just hate the assumption that my dog being off lead in a park (we don't have daily access to acres of countryside for exercise) means I'm a bad owner. I've made great friends with other dog owners (and doggy pals for mine) by allowing introductions to happen.

Long winded way of saying I hate judgemental owners and negative assumptions.

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