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Young Puppy Support Group

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DuchessDarty · 31/05/2019 16:01

I’d been looking for one of these but the only puppy support thread currently running is for older puppies. I’ve seen a few threads recently from posters who have new puppies like me, and thought I’d start our own group as I’d love to compare notes. But all welcome!

To kick off -

My pup, DartyPup, is a female poodle cross who is nearly 11 weeks old. Very sweet, friendly, fairly calm, sleeps a good stretch at night in her crate no problem and is happy to play in the garden by herself if I’m in the kitchen/conservatory and we easily have eyes on each other. She has a lot of naps and is doing well with house training.

But- she has the usual puppy traits of being needy and nippy. She loves biting bare toes and has a witching hour in the evening (as another poster aptly describes it!).

I adore the bond we seem to have bit am finding it draining. My children are old enough to be hands on and are keen to be, but their periods of peak energy don’t always correspond with the Pup’s. And when it comes down to it, she often wants me and so will whine if left with them downstairs while I escape for a rest. If they mistakenly leave a door open giving her access to the stairs, she’ll leg it up to find me. A stair gate isn’t an option unfortunately due to the design of our stairs.

Both my kids have never been particularly early risers and I’ve always been secretly pleased about dodging 6am wake up calls ... until DartyPup.

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calmpuppycrazykids · 04/06/2019 10:33

Darty we have left our puppy alone a few times never more than an hour or two
we left him with his toys and water and probably too much but we just thought at some point he is going to have to be left and he sleeps downstairs alone at night

Im sure he will be fine good luck

lazymum99 · 04/06/2019 11:36

calmpuppycrazykids Mine is quite frightened of everything in the park too. He jumps up at me when walking which i think is to seek reassurance. Everyone says he is a baby and he will get used to things. But Ive had dogs before and never been like this. When he jumps up at me or is walking right at my legs I stop, don't look at him and also nudge him away. I have no idea whether this is the right thing to do!
I have been very close to tripping over him which would be extremely embarrassing.

CanoeDoYouThinkYouAre · 04/06/2019 13:19

Why do dogs like to eat their poo?
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DuchessDarty · 04/06/2019 15:46

So I left DartyPup alone for 2 hours and came back to find a poo in the middle of the kitchen floor, a wee near the kitchen door, and a little pup who was SO excited to see me and needed lots of cuddles. Bless her.

@Honeypot1980 I agree with the others that your pup doesn't sound like she's ready to be left alone yet. I don't think it's (just) being taken into the living room that made her finally settle, I think it's the interaction. Interestingly, I did find though that my pup seemed to prefer having her crate in the living room rather than kitchen at night when sleeping alone, but this was after two weeks of me sleeping in the living room with her or having her crate in our bedroom, and working up to her being further away from me until she was fine with sleeping downstairs alone.

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3teens2cats · 05/06/2019 07:38

Duchess. Pleased that Dartypup was OK alone. I remember with our previous dog she hated being shut away from us but if she couldn't see/hear us she would settle. I wonder whether this one would settle once we were gone? Might have to do a few little tests. I am guessing you see when you have just gone upstairs he can still hear you moving around.
We went to my mums yesterday. She has a cocker spaniel. Our pup, although a fraction of the size had great fun playing with her and she was so gentle with him.

calmpuppycrazykids · 05/06/2019 14:30

Lazymum
That's the same as me ive had dogs before and ive never experienced it.
I took him to the park today and he just cried the whole time we were in there s soon as we were on our way home he stopped crying but if he hears or sees a car he panics if he hears a bang or noise or dog bark he panics its sad seeing him like this because he really is a lovely puppy he is toilet trained he sits and waits he is just very sweet and I really want him to be happy and get excited when he knows he is going out.

tinkywinkyshandbag · 05/06/2019 17:02

Hi well we've had a couple of milestones this week, a day at doggy daycare and a visit to puppy school at our vets. He did really well at daycare and doesn't seem traumatised (although I am a bit at having to pay the bill). Puppy school was good although he is a typical Jack Russell, barking at other dogs and trying to hump a spaniel. He really is all boy. So all in all we haven't had time for any walks. I'm hoping to borrow a long lead from a friend and do some recall training soon. Next on my to do list is get him used to being home alone for short periods. Dog daycare lady said just ignore him!
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Retreatbynameretreatbynature · 05/06/2019 17:54

My 9 week old retriever puppy has started sometimes growling at us when we approach him or if he is picked up. We don’t have young DCs so no-one has been rough with him but I don’t remember this happening with any of my other dogs. I want him to feel safe and secure but to also know what boundaries there are for him, like not growling for instance. Should I be concerned that this may be the sign of an aggressive character developing?

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 05/06/2019 17:56

WHERE ARE THE PUPPY PHOTOS?😡

BiteyShark · 05/06/2019 18:46

Retreat I am no expert but it sounds like fear to me. if I was you I would be giving your puppy a small treat when you approach so he associates you with nice things. My dog, even now as an adult, gets a random treat just for being good e.g. sat on the sofa doing nothing or just being by my side.

I would also refrain from picking him up. Lots of dogs hate that. Use a house line if you need to remove him from furniture or just use treats to get him to move.

MsMarvellous · 05/06/2019 18:48

@LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD no idea. But as I don't have my puppy yet can I have a pass from teacher Grin

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 05/06/2019 19:09

God you doggo people are hoopeless ... the catto threads have loads of photos and everything... (frustrated non pet-owner speaks)

DuchessDarty · 05/06/2019 19:13

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MsMarvellous · 05/06/2019 19:24

Oo @DuchessDarty she's beautiful

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 05/06/2019 19:25

Oh oh oh that is such a gorgeous bundle of fluffiness!

DuchessDarty · 05/06/2019 19:41

Thank you both Smile

She is indeed a beautiful fluff monster.

I am ill in bed and DH is having to deal with pup. He just sent me a text saying “dog is a bloody nuisance”. Oh dear.

She doesn’t settle so well when I’m not nearby. If DH would allow DartyPup into our bed then she could come and snuggle with me and would be fine - so really her nuisance-making is his fault Wink

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LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 05/06/2019 19:42

She has A Plan...

Retreatbynameretreatbynature · 05/06/2019 19:52

Oh bitey, that really upsets me if it is fear. But I can see your point. I’m going to get the whole family together to talk about how we go from here. Treats are a very good idea, as is no picking up. I hate the idea that my dear little puppy may be afraid for some reason. If only he knew what softies we all are and how loved all our other dogs have been.

calmpuppycrazykids · 05/06/2019 20:35

Duchess Darty is beautiful

CanoeDoYouThinkYouAre · 05/06/2019 20:56

CanoeDog

CanoeDoYouThinkYouAre · 05/06/2019 20:59

Oh crap no photo. I'll try again!

CanoeDoYouThinkYouAre · 05/06/2019 21:24

Hoping this works

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 05/06/2019 21:30

Awwww those ears!

lazymum99 · 05/06/2019 21:35

Lazypup

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CanoeDoYouThinkYouAre · 05/06/2019 21:37

His ears are the softest floppiest things ever! Whenever he has a drink they flop into the water and he has to shake his head which is incredibly cute. Although it does mean my kitchen floor is permanently wet!