Sorry for ranting but just want some advice please!! Just under a year ago when working in my shop I caught a local alcoholic beating a lovely little JRT and dragging him by the collar along the ground, horrified I went outside to tell him off and basically ended up taking the dog off him, now I had absolutely no intention of having a dog and didn't want a dog and immediately organised for him to be picked up by a no kill rescue organisation within that week with the promise of them finding him a lovely home. In that time my SO begged me to let him keep him, I agreed (reluctantly) that we could only keep him if SO got him snipped, chipped and trained which he agreed to. Now 8 months down the line none of this has happened and I'm really not happy with the entire situation, I'm really starting to feel I am becoming second place to the dog, he is still fully untrained to come to recall (SO walks him without leash and his reaction to him bounding up to other dogs is 'keep walking and get will follow eventually'), he's very very attention seeking, constantly jumping on strangers and visitors to the house and climbing all over them, will not let SO cuddle or touch me, cries when put in the kitchen for 5 minutes despite spending the full day on the sofa chewing big bones SO buys him, does not listen to any commands , bokes and pees on the floor and basically does what he wants, if I say anything to SO about how unhappy I am he accuses me of 'yapping and complaining' and says he's training him but it's a "work in progress' . I work full time up to 50 hours a week and often don't have a day off for two weeks whilst SO plays music gigs for a few hours at the weekend and spends all his time at home. I just don't have the time to spend training him Don't get me wrong the dog is not a bad dog and he does get walked and well looked after and I think with training he could be ok but despite even suggesting and looking up training classes near us SO has as yet refused to take him and I work every evening so I can't take him. I feel like I'm being trapped in my own house and relegated to getting less time spent on my than this dog and I feel awful at feeling such resentment towards the dog as I am a big animal lover! Would anyone have any advice? Moving into a new house with carpet next week and dreading it as other half last week was happy to leave pee sitting at the top of the stairs without cleaning it not to mention the mud!