My DH believed in ‘not spoiling’ our children and would roll his eyes at me if he thought I was over-indulging them. They have been long gone and we now have a dog who has him totally wrapped around her little paw. Although she loves her walks, she does not like having her harness put on , so I have to do it. Same with flea treatments and vet visits.
When I asked if he had seen the toy I bought for the GC’s new puppy, he looked a bit sheepish.Apparently the dog was mithering for it so he gave it to her.