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Best breed for OAP?

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Snowcatrunsthehouse · 31/10/2018 14:23

My mother (70) has recently had to have her golden retriever put to sleep.She is devistated she is a widow so the dog and cat are very important company for her.
She is considering getting a new dog but as she is now older is unsure what breed. She is a lifetime Labrador and retriever owner so likes the big soppy dogs but feels a large dog is too much at her age.
So what are good smaller breeds?

Must be good with cats and small children
She doesn’t Like terriers or small snappy dogs
Spaniels are probably too lively although she does like cocker spaniels

Does a breed like a smaller labrador exist?
She is watching rescue centres but most of the dogs have issues and as it must be safe with children she is reluctant to take any risks. She has always trained her dogs to perfection from puppy’s so a badly behaved older dog will be a massive no for her.

Any good suggestions? I think as a family we can’t see past the lab/ retriever types.

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Snappymcsnappy · 31/10/2018 16:26

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Best breed for OAP?
Shitlandpony · 31/10/2018 17:37

not prepared to take any risks around her grandchildren with an unknown dog. Please don’t judge people for being picky about an animal which will live in the home with them

I am judging the constant assumptions made and stated on here that rescue dogs are inherently more dangerous. It’s simply not true and it’s unfair to the thousands of lovely dogs that are waiting for homes because of many different reasons.
Implying that someone who gets a rescue dog is therefore taking a risk with children is also pretty judgy tbh.

tabulahrasa · 31/10/2018 17:41

“I’m sure most humans can’t keep up with them?“

Um, most humans can’t keep up with any breed of dog tbh.

MrsJayy · 31/10/2018 17:45

Pattendale terrier my neighbour over the road is retired got one and it is a delight lovely little dog

MrsJayy · 31/10/2018 17:50

Would she consider a guide /assistance dog puppy they are fostered for 18 months so she would have a pup to bring up and train

tinstar · 31/10/2018 17:51

Snowcat - the thing is, if you get a dog that isn't a rescue you don't know it's temperament either. If you get a dog from a good rescue, where a dog may have lived with a foster family, you can be much more certain about its temperament. So please don't rule out rescues.

If you are in the south I would wholeheartedly recommend this rescue
labrador-rescue.org.uk/dogs.html
Two of our dogs are from here and they are fabulous.

sulee · 31/10/2018 18:52

I have always had dogs and usually rescues. The only dog who ever snapped at one of my children was a retriever we had from a pup, so you never know!

Floralnomad · 31/10/2018 19:15

Might be worth her contacting the cinnamon trust and seeing if they have any dogs for long term foster , an elderly but very fit neighbour of mine got a bedlington from them when he was about 6 , they are generally dogs that are used to living with elderly people .

Snowcatrunsthehouse · 31/10/2018 20:38

Thank you everyone. All really helpful so far.
Yes we are south and the labrador rescue site is already on her radar! She really likes the idea of a dog that’s lost an owner so fingers crossed a placid one comes up soon.
Honestly she is looking for a rescue dog but young children and cats are part of the deal. She has a lovely home on offer for the right dog and I am desperate to get my DM doggy company as I’m really worried about her.
All breed suggestions are great as we need to broaden the search.

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DogInATent · 31/10/2018 20:52

Honestly she is looking for a rescue dog but young children and cats are part of the deal.

Make contact with the local shelters. If they're aware of her needs in a dog then a good shelter will bear her in mind and let her know if a suitable dog comes along.

LizzieBennettDarcy · 31/10/2018 20:55

Possibly a show cocker spaniel .... not the working type. Mine is a maniac.

LittleBLUEsmurfHouse · 31/10/2018 21:07

Show type cocker - I have one (and a cavalier) and think the show type cocker would be a great fit for her based on your second post. They are also a very common breed so it's a bit easier to find a well bred, well raised pup from a good breeder (simply because there are more out there) in a shorter space of time than with lots of breeds (which I imagine is also very important to her when her dog is such a needed companion).

Cavaliers are really sweet (but a fit, healthy one does match a show type cocker for energy and exercise needs) but finding a properly bred one is almost impossible and would take a long time. They also aren't the most intelligent of dogs meaning it takes longer to train one than a cocker (I.e. cocker can learn something in a few repetitions, cavalier needs numerous repetitions over multiple days for them to really learn whatever it is your trying to teach).

Snowcatrunsthehouse · 31/10/2018 21:32

LittleBLUEsmurthHouse are cockers ( even show type) not completely manic? How much walking each day?
I am guessing they are fairly easy to train and I know child and cat friendly normally ( I know some living in such families).

I know she likes this breed but she felt they may be too active as she gets older?? Are they happy in house and garden between walks?

( personally I rather like this breed)

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Theresahairbrushinthefridge · 31/10/2018 22:39

How about a trained Labrador from a gun dog trainer? We had one who we got aged one. Failed as a retriever. So no good as a gun dog. Perfect family pet.

Dementedswan · 31/10/2018 22:45

Google Labrador rescue. She could fund a well trained older lab in need of a new home though family circumstances/owners death etc

DeaflySilence · 31/10/2018 22:56

"She really likes the idea of a dog that’s lost an owner so fingers crossed a placid one comes up soon."

Plenty of dogs that have lost their owners are advertised on the oldies site!

www.oldies.org.uk/category/adopt-an-oldie

LittleBLUEsmurfHouse · 01/11/2018 07:27

Show type are fine with an hour a day, as long as they can be off lead or on a long line. He has been content on the odd occasion when I can't walk him with playing fetch in the garden and mind games.

He loves to snuggle up at home and if he's not on my lap he's sleeping on my feet.

He's is great with my young DC (youngest was only 2yrs when we got him) - will even do what DC tell him to!

He is fine with ducks, birds and cats but I trained him to ignore them from the start.

He is very easy to train and picks things up quickly and remembers them without many repetitions.

I would never have a working type though - far too manic for me.

Honey2468 · 02/11/2018 01:29

Honestly I would have said shi tzu because they match everything you say. But have you considered a corgi? You won’t find them in rescue but if all else fails they are pretty great and I think would tick a lot of the boxes

Yvbmioasp · 02/11/2018 08:07

Did you look at the Duck Toller Retrievers OP?

LoobyLou2709 · 03/11/2018 22:01

I would say a lurcher type, We have a Kelpie x whippet and she would be so suitable! Fantastic with our children and cat, Smaller than a greyhound, We call her an 80mph couch potato! Lol! So easy to train, obedient and would happily sleep all day but on the other hand would happily walk for miles, my Nan (80) looks after her when we go on holiday and she always says if she could have one like ours she would get it tomorrow! I hope you find the perfect companion, x

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