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I am an irresponsible dog owner

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Elsasalterego · 17/07/2018 02:55

So my Labrador is in season and I let her out to pee in the garden this evening and then promptly fell asleep on the sofa. This was at about 10.30pm. She was unsupervised for 3 hours. I have remembered now that she has just learnt how to vault our 5 bar gate since one of the kids threw her ball over it at the weekend and she leapt over it to get it back. We live in the middle of nowhere but there are dog owners around with entire males. They might have let them out to pee as well! Our closest neighbour has texted that he had seen her out and the text woke me up and I let her back in, she was back in our garden by this point and was scrabbling at the door. So now I wonder if there was any sign that she might have been mated with? Her vulva does not look any more swollen or red than normal, she is still cleaning it as she is dripping a bit of blood still. I had a close look with a torch and it seems normal. She let me look and touch and it does not look like anything has irritated her down there. She is not wet around the head as some of the websites I have just trawled suggest but then in three hours could that evaporate even at night?

What do you think- take her to the vet to get the injection just in case? I was hoping eventually to have a litter from her not least because she is a pure breed but most importantly has the nicest temperament of any dog I have ever known and we would like to keep one or two of her daughters. I already have tons of people who have said they would want to have one of her puppies. But I also believe that if one has the injection one should also have the bitch spayed- I realise I have been a very irresponsible dog owner in this case by falling asleep and would be sad that it was necessary to do so as the result of an accident but I would also do so if it put her health at risk otherwise. I would appreciate any advice on this.

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adaline · 17/07/2018 05:17

Oh dear OP I don't think this thread will go very well. MN is not a fan of people breeding their pets.

AvocadosBeforeMortgages · 17/07/2018 06:37

Accidents happen (re getting out) but the responsible thing to do is to prevent a resulting pregnancy by taking her to the vet for the injection promptly.

You have no idea what breed of dog she may have mated with, no idea of health or temperament, and so no idea what the resulting puppies would be like. There are also plenty of unwanted dogs out there, and frankly the world doesn't need any more dogs to add to the population, especially not ones of completely unknown parentage.

Having a litter is also a massive pain in the arse - could you take 8+ weeks off work to look after them at such short notice?

Go to the vet today and get the injection - it's the responsible thing to do.

SureIusedtobetaller · 17/07/2018 06:42

So many unwanted dogs in rescue. I’d get the injection and a spay. And a higher fence! Accidents happen but it’s easily rectified.

Elsasalterego · 17/07/2018 07:17

Thanks, I totally will take her to the vet today to get the injection. I just wondered if anyone knew the signs as to whether she had mated or not. I will not be chancing it though and will take her either way.

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AlpacaLypse · 17/07/2018 07:22

Surely there is something like MAP for dogs?

As for the breeding in the future thing, if she has a perfect hip score and a lovely temperament and you could certainly find excellent homes for up to a dozen pups I'm not going to jump on the never ever breed your own bitch bandwagon. But it's very expensive and exhausting!

weaselwords · 17/07/2018 07:24

I would have thought that her suitor would still be around if she had mated? Dogs are very persistent when a bitch is in heat. You may be lucky? See what the vet says.

tabulahrasa · 17/07/2018 07:32

Phone the vet to check, but I think you want to wait for her season to finish before she gets Alizin.

Slartybartfast · 17/07/2018 07:35

you left her out in the garden for 3 hours at night time? Hmm

Elsasalterego · 17/07/2018 07:52

Yes Starty, I meant to let her out for 5 minutes but I accidentally fell asleep on the sofa. It was absolutely not intentional and I realise it makes me irresponsible.

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LEMtheoriginal · 17/07/2018 07:57

Mistakes happen - get the injection. You are not irresponsible

Haberpop · 17/07/2018 08:01

...I realise it makes me irresponsible. And human. Good luck at the vets today.

StaffiesAndPonies · 17/07/2018 08:15

Being a responsible owner includes facing up to non-ideal situations when they arise and dealing with them effectively, which is what you’re doing by taking her to the vet. Good luck with the appointment today.

Hoppinggreen · 17/07/2018 08:17

Well you aren’t irresponsible for falling asleep on the sofa by accident but
What you do now will determine whether you are or not

Elsasalterego · 17/07/2018 08:31

Will be dropping off kids at school today and taking her straight to vets. I do hope he doesn't suggest that she get spayed- I had been intending to be quite responsible with breeding her in the future - she is under a breeding restriction with her breeder meaning that she would have to vet and approve of the sire and she would be very supportive - even offered the use of her whelping pen if one of her three bitches is not using it at the same time (one of whom is her mother, one sister from same litter and one half-sister). The sister from the same litter has a very low hip score and has come out well on genetic tests.

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Elsasalterego · 17/07/2018 09:50

I have been to vets but it turns out I was too early! I need to go back tomorrow at the earliest and apparently I have 40 days and I then have to go back 24 hrs later to get a second jab.

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BiteyShark · 17/07/2018 12:10

Mistakes happen, we are all human. An irresponsible owner is one that doesn't care about the consequences so go back to the vets in the required time and stop beating yourself up.

As for breeding her later I do know it's bloody hard work and you should look up all the genetic tests to do to ensure that you don't pass on any genetic conditions as a lot are autosomal recessive so two perfectly healthy carriers could prove detrimental. Just because the sister isn't a carrier doesn't mean yours isn't (don't you love genetics) and you certainly can't go on their tests or hip scores. Also make sure you understand the risks involved to your pet and are happy to take that risk should complications arise from pregnancy and birth.

SlothMama · 17/07/2018 13:13

In future you need to make sure your garden is more secure and get her spayed.
Raising a litter of puppies is incredibly time consuming and costly if you want to raise them correctly. There are health tests to do, the stud costs, vet visits etc if she has difficulties during the birth she may need a c section or at the worst die. Are you prepared to raise her puppies?

If she's such a good dog with a lovely temperament why not get another dog from that breeder and raise them the same way as her? As with breeding there's no guarantee you'll get the two bitches you want she may give birth to just males.

AWomanIsAnAdultHumanFemale · 17/07/2018 13:17

Please get a Higher gate. If she can get out, other dogs can get in. Male dogs will try very hard to get at her if She is in season.

BatShitBuns · 17/07/2018 13:23

When I was a kid my grandparents had a lovely purebreed dog with a wonderful temperament. Great with kids. Anyway, she mated with some random farm dog (not being a dog snob - they lived next to a farm with several dogs) and had two surviving puppies. One (the bitch) was an aggressive, yappy horrid thing so please don't count on that!!!

Wolfiefan · 17/07/2018 13:24

The fact your dog is lovely is not a good enough reason to breed. It really isn't. There are lots of tests you would need to do and you need to have a level of expertise too.
Puppies take a lot of work to raise. What would you do if mum had a Caesarian and you had to hand feed puppies.
What if owners can't cope and have to return a pup?
If she's in season she needs you to take her out to toilet.
With her unspayed she is also at risk of pyometra.

Tinkobell · 17/07/2018 15:28

Good luck getting your bitch sorted OP. 💐

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