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Why do you have a dog?

50 replies

plire · 21/04/2018 00:14

I've always wanted one; can never remember not wanting one.

Owned dogs for over 20 years.

Love their company
Love the exercise (sometimes enforced!)
Love getting to know personalities
Really enjoy dog training (positive stuff)

Why did you get a dog? Smile

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Pettynotvindictive · 21/04/2018 18:01

Flowers eeny

My eldest (JRT) is 21, still acts like a pup but I know it's a matter of time. Blessed to have her for so long.

Others are 10 and 8.

Ickyockycocky · 21/04/2018 18:07

I love having a dog to walk, the company a dog offers, the fact that she barks if someone comes to the door and I also want the unconditional love a dog gives me.

plire · 21/04/2018 18:30

@BeyondThePage don't apologise!

I wondered whether anyone has a dog for work. Or security. Or for breeding.

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RadioDorothy · 21/04/2018 18:53

We got our Patterdale partly because I'd wanted a dog for all my life and we were at last in a position to have one (enforced exercise a definite plus point), and partly because she would make a useful working dog for DH. She came to us very very young from an amateur breeder, and quickly became an expert at keeping the bunny, mice and rat population down at DH's work, and getting all the housekeeping and security staff to fall in love with her.

Sadly, it all went tits up when she damaged a disc in her spine at the age of 2, and became mean and aggressive towards people and dogs because of her pain. By the time the disc fully ruptured and almost paralysed her at 4, she was un-insurable and I paid a handsome price to Noel Fitzpatrick to operate and save her.

She is now 10, and although she moves around ok she has nerve damage, severe tremors, and hind limb weakness. She is vicious and has bitten two people. She's seen 6 behaviourists - to no avail - and is on long term pain management medication. She is limited to 15 minutes walking a day, which I have to do at 5am to avoid passing dogs or people.

She's a noisy, expensive, high maintenance, pain in the arse gobshite, and one day she just won't get up. And then I will have to say goodbye because she's not having another surgery, and I might cry forever. She is curled up with me on the sofa and has just snarled crossly at me because I moved slightly, the little fuckwit. I adore her.

AvocadosBeforeMortgages · 21/04/2018 19:26

wondered whether anyone has a dog for work. Or security. Or for breeding.

He's a pet first and foremost - but a burglar would think twice when confronted with him barking at the intruder (there are easier pickings in the same building) and his hatred of mopeds does mean that our numerous local moped muggers don't come near me (I'm trying to train him out of it)

And in a slightly roundabout sort of way he's led me into a new job and career change - though he doesn't come to work.

Breeding? Fuck no. The world does not need any mini PestDog puppies!

He has his uses! He's also a very useful hoover when I'm cooking, a welcome visitor to my very elderly dog loving DGM, and he's even got me involved in the local community through people I've met out dog walking.

MaureenSowerbutts · 21/04/2018 19:37

We got a puppy back in August because DD had asked for one every day for about 4 years!

It was the best thing we ever did, he's my best mate now. Feel so lucky to have him.

JesusInTheCabbageVan · 21/04/2018 19:42

I just feel more 'me' with a dog.

Also, DS has been desperate for a dog since he could talk.

Giovanna75 · 21/04/2018 19:43

My dog helps me to live in the moment in a way no one else could. I love her so much...

thereinmadnesslies · 21/04/2018 19:46

I’d always wanted a dog but didn’t think it was possible. Then in the midst of a breakdown due to bullying at work I decided life was too short so we got a gorgeous lively cockapoo. He’s been with us 4 months and he’s given me something to get out of bed for. He’s lots of work and it’s going to cost a small fortune in doggy daycare when I go back to work but it’s conpletely worth it.

coffeeagogo · 21/04/2018 19:50

I don't like dogs, they are dirty, smelly, expensive, noise makers. DH grew up with a dog and wore me down over 2 years bothering me to get one.

In the end, we did to shut him up. 10 years on, the expensive, smelly, dirty creature is lying snoozing on me and I've lost my heart to a bloody dog. I had no intention of having kids either, but following el pooch, all of a sudden I developed all these mad maternal feelings and the kids followed (who I also love madly - luckily).

I can't imagine ever now not having a dog and having nearly lost him at Easter, I know that being a dog owner has changed me completely and in so many ways I hadn't anticipated.

lemonsunshinecake · 21/04/2018 19:56

They make a family I think. Their love and loyalty is a lesson to us all .

Bitsandbobsalot · 21/04/2018 20:10

Because I needed a friend. My 3 are companion dogs. They are funny little things who have made my life better. When I had my last miscarriage they sat by my bed side for days and followed me to the toilet they made me feel less alone. When I couldn’t leave the house alone because of my anxiety they gave me a purpose to get out. I’m so thankful for them they make me laugh every day. My rescue is old, blind and toothless now but he’s so such a loyal little fella he follows the sound of my foot steps every where and when he gets lost my other dog goes looking for him. They truly are amazing little creatures. I don’t think I’ll ever be without one tbh.
(God that was soppy Blush sorry)

BitOfFun · 22/04/2018 12:30

coffeeagogo, that's made me so happy, thank you for posting...

candygs · 22/04/2018 12:45

Giovanna75, that is exactly how I feel.

Twooter · 22/04/2018 12:56

It’s the way they can go and just lie with your dc when your dc are upset and angry and don’t want to speak to anyone - and just that contact and love manages to calm your child down and put a smile back on their face.
And for all the reasons mentioned above.
We were going to wait a year after our last dog died, but gave up after 3 weeks and started looking for a new one.

plire · 22/04/2018 13:18

Does anyone have a service dog?

I heard David Blunkett on Desert Island discs. The role of his guide dogs are remarkable.

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LaGattaNera · 22/04/2018 18:04

Because apart from my late mum, no one loved me unconditionally the way all my dogs have - I think they have filled a hole in my heart and I feel incomplete without a dog.

MrsBobDylan · 22/04/2018 18:45

For my boy who has asd. He wanted a pug and spent three years asking me for one. We got a puggle who looks like a pug but with a slightly longer nose so no breathing issues.

He is loved by the whole family and has fitted into our lives so brilliantly. We're good for him, he's good for us.

FrannySalinger · 22/04/2018 19:08

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DoryNow · 22/04/2018 19:09

plire I have a good friend with a service dog. She has MS so can be in a wheelchair if going through a bad patch or up & walking if in remission, her lovely Goldie assistance dog is amazing. Helps her get dressed/undressed, fetches her phone, or a drink as well as hundreds of other things. Most of all she is her shadow & the emotional support she gives her is priceless.
The only thing that is hard when we meet is ignoring her dog as she is "working" & can't be distracted, much as she loves a fuss. We try & always go to the park after our catch ups so Doggo can have a good blast around doing normal dotty dog & I can have a cuddle.😍
I have learnt a lot about how they work, and it is really mentally drainingfor them, so important they aren't fussed when on duty as it can distract them from what they should be doimg which could be dangerous for the owner. Hers is from a charity called Dogs for Good if anyone is interested in how it all works- incredible what they can train them to do!

UrsulaPandress · 22/04/2018 19:13

Because he adds so much to the sum of my existence. He is my first dog and he truly feels like an extension of me.

OCSockOrphanage · 22/04/2018 20:25

Living with a dog is better than living without. They love unconditionally, in a way no human can. Everything, even familiar stuff, is The Best EVER.

Cowsopinion · 22/04/2018 20:29

Companionship.

My dad had recently suffered a major stroke and our pup has been my rock. as well as my family obvs

Wouldn't change her for the world. Actually that's a lie I'd stop her from digging holes. Grin

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2gorgeousboys · 22/04/2018 20:52

I didn't want a dog but DH and DS2 did. The difference that this overgrown teddy bear that thinks he's actually a cat, had made to put lives is amazing. He's had the biggest impact on DS2. The anxious, troubled boy that wouldn't sleep in his own bed or sleep through the night is so much calmer now that he has a best friend (who sleeps on his bed every night) and stops him getting lonely is amazing.

elQuintoConyo · 22/04/2018 22:43

Because someone abandoned her and we live near woods and beach.

After a couple of weeks she slotted straight in. On DH's insistance, she wasn't going to set foot upstairs... guess who's foot has gone numb but he doesn't want to 'disturb' her? Hmm

She can jump to 5ft from standing when she is excited: walkies, treats, promise of squirrels!

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