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How can I stop my dog whining for my kids to stay by him when we go for walks?

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Kitsandkids · 02/01/2018 18:03

My Labrador turned 1 in September and we've had him since he was 8 weeks, so he's been with us for over a year. We got him1 week before I found out I was pregnant. I found his puppyhood really, really tough. He would bite my older kids, bite me, took a long time (or seemed like it at the time) to be house trained, would destroy absolutely anything that was in the room with him, and would just not sit still for a second! I found it very, very tough! We resorted to using a dog sitter to take him for the days my husband was out of the house as I felt I could not cope with him at all.

Anyway, fast forward to now and he is so much better. The dog sitter's been off for two weeks so I've had to cope with him and actually he's not been much bother at all and I am much fonder of him now!

I would like to rely less on the dog sitter but he obviously needs to be walked. My older two are nearly 9 and 10 so I walk them to school but don't have to wait in the playground with them. It's almost an hour round trip to walk the kids there and back so it would be perfect to take the dog too but the dog goes mad if the kids get more than a few feet ahead of him. Whining, barking, pulling on the lead etc. I don't know if it's because he wants to be in the lead or because he's anxious about them being away from him - even though he can still clearly see them!

Any tips for helping him not to mind this? As we're quite a distance from the school I let them take their bikes or scooters so although they wait at roads for me to catch up it is inevitable they will be in front of us most of the way.

Many thanks.

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rightsaidfrederickII · 02/01/2018 18:07

Watching with interest - I normally walk the dog alone, but on the rare occasion I walk him with someone I know well he will pull towards them if they're a few feet away. I'd come to the very unscientific conclusion that he just doesn't like his 'pack' being separated, but hadn't attempted to do anything about it as it's not an issue for us.

Paperdolly · 02/01/2018 18:23

Turn round and assertively take the dog in the opposite direction and reward immediately when the dog goes quiet.

Paperdolly · 02/01/2018 18:25

(Poster too early). You have to put the time in yourself to this and not leave it to the dog sitter. You need him to respect YOU not the sitter.

Kitsandkids · 02/01/2018 18:48

I have been trying stopping and pulling the lead to make him stop but it doesn't seem to be working. I don't really want to turn away from the kids as they've just got new, bigger bikes and I need to watch for any signs of wobbling towards the road!

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Wolfiefan · 02/01/2018 18:51

Do you walk the dog at all normally? What training have you done? Classes? Puppy sessions? Obedience?

katmarie · 02/01/2018 18:57

Take the dog out with the kids and practice, without the bikes if need be. It will take time but with practice and lots of treats he will get the hang of it. At the moment he doesn't understand that you want him to walk by your side, he's getting one message from you (walk by me) and one from the kids (let's go!). He needs to learn that it's your message he must heed and the only way he will get that is with practice and rewards when he does it right. So lots of walks with the kids, and give yourself extra time on the school run to do the stop start as much as you need.

Kitsandkids · 02/01/2018 19:57

I do take him on walks without the kids too and he's fine, though sometimes pulls a bit.

We used to go to a puppy socialisation class every other week or so. He's fine with other dogs, and people, off the lead but often barks at both when on lead.

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Paperdolly · 03/01/2018 17:51

It sounds like you didn't finish the training. Mind you as new situations and unwanted reactions come up it's an ongoing lesson for all of you.

If the dog reacts in an unwanted way you don't let him get what's exciting him. You move him away and reward immediately he's quiet.

Sorry but he's not the problem...you are. You have to fit in the training for his, not for your, convenience, otherwise find him an owner who can.

Wolfiefan · 03/01/2018 17:56

Training every other week for a bit won't do it. Training should be regular and you should carry on the work at home.

parklives · 04/01/2018 18:06

Agree with pp you just need more training and it's going to take time.
My lab always wanted to be in front/with the front of a group, although he generally walked to heel beautifully.
I don't know if it's realistic to expect a 1 year old lab to walk to heel with the kids ahead?

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