FoldedAndUnfoldedAndUnfolding ·
06/10/2017 08:52
Hi! I have a 1yo cavalier who’s first instinct is to jump up on everybody he walks past or comes into our house. For months I’ve been telling him no, and holding him back on the lead/houseline when he does this. I tell him to sit as soon as the doorbell rings or I see someone approach, and he’ll do it as long as he can see I’m holding a treat. Two or three treats later he’ll decide the payoff of jumping up is better than the treats for sitting, and he’ll go back to pulling on his lead plus whining/barking to try to get to the guest. I’ve found that keeping him sitting at my feet (using the houseline) for twenty minutes or so can make it appear like he’s calmed down, but no matter how long the calm down period, as soon as I give him some slack on the lead he immediately pounces on my guest. This is even with my nanny and members of my family who come round regularly, so they know to ignore him unless he’s sitting.
I’m at my wits end with this! What do I need to do differently?
P.s. He’s a very friendly, loving little lad. There’s no aggression in his jumping, he’s just desperate to try to reach your face for a good lick! He knows better than to jump on me, but he jumps up on everyone else constantly. Obviously not everyone wants a dog all over them, and when my 5yo DD brings friends round I have to hold him on the lead constantly or put him outside (if I need to make food or something). I just want him to settle down, then we could all give him the attention he’s dying for!
P.p.s I work from home so he has company all day every day. He has a walk in the park opposite our house everyday as well. We’ve had him since a puppy and I will confess that while he was tiny and I was focused on house training I wasn’t as consistent as I should have been with training good manners. I’ve been focused, and consistent, on the jumping up for at least 6 months now though!