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Walking a golden retriever...

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EleanorRigbysNeice · 28/04/2017 23:50

So, I have a golden girl. She's now 2. We have a morning walk of around one to one and a half hours, daily. During this, she plays with other dogs in a field; swims in the river; plays fetch; explores the area. We have three venues, which we alternate. She's a mud magnet and I accept that in the mornings, we "get down and dirty" and she comes home and is hosed down.

My problem is this: She flatly refuses to have a second walk, later in the day. I try to get her out for a "pavement/park plod" and she throws herself on the pavement, refusing to move. Is it that she just hates the boredom of a pavement/around town "plod" and would rather be swimming and rolling in mud? Or is it that that's all she needs? She's pretty much always been like this. It's been a battle since she was a pup to get her out on a "utility" rather than full-on fun walk.

We do play in the garden if she's not had a second walk. Balls, tug, a bit of training (basic stuff). And of an evening, we do play with her when watching TV etc.

It's just that I thought these dogs were always watching the door with a lead in their mouths wanting to go out. Now, if I took her to the river/fields and for a swim on that 2nd walk, she'd go but we set off from home, make the turn for the pavement plod and she just refuses. Often, trying to pull me in the direction of the field walk 😐.

Is she trying to tell me something? I can't allow her to be soaked wet through, morning and evening. Partly because that's damned hard work and partly because she's NEVER dry and it's probably not good for her coat and joints. My friend keeps telling me she'll have rheumatism when she's older.

Anyone any advice? Should I aim for a real fun, run and mucky walk once daily and then play or insist on dragging her around the pavements, early evening?

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ChardonnayKnickertonSmythe · 29/04/2017 20:23

I think she's found something she likes and now she's training you.
Grin

EleanorRigbysNeice · 20/05/2017 19:25

Just updating....

I've resorted to just one good mid morning walk which involves a swim, other dogs, playing, romping in fields. Then we do garden play with a bit of training later in the day and intermitten play in the house. It's starting to feel bad for both of us, that second walk. I get the lead out and she puts her head down and slinks away and the. She walks/sits/sulks her way around the second walk with me getting stressed.

No more.

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EleanorRigbysNeice · 20/05/2017 19:26

That one walk is an hour +. Obviously not enough but what's happening now isn't working for either of us.

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MargotLovedTom1 · 20/05/2017 19:36

Can't your second walk be in a similar place to the morning walk but keep her on lead so she doesn't wallow in mud and water? She can still sniff and explore to her heart's content but she will remain much cleaner.

We have an ancient golden retriever and after years of cleaning him up (and the house) after filthy walks, I just had enough of it!

Blackfellpony · 21/05/2017 05:45

I only walk my dog once a day if that due to his issues and on the advice of professionals.

Dogs are individuals and one routine does not suit all!

EleanorRigbysNeice · 21/05/2017 16:36

MargotLovedTom I do try that but she just throws herself on the ground or refuses to walk. Sometimes, she will walk ten paces and then just look at me as if to say "well come on them! Let's GO!"

I took her for a second walk yesterday because it was so lovely and we got to the end of the road before she realised we weren't going "her" way. I then had 40 minutes of arm wrenching and sulking from a 34K dog. I felt exhausted and bloody hacked off with her and me, for even bothering!

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creepysleepy · 21/05/2017 16:46

No advice but she sounds adorable!

EleanorRigbysNeice · 21/05/2017 17:17

She IS but soooo wilful. Or, autisitc. Not sure which.

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