My dog, a miniature poodle, is very well socialised but can be nervous of some things. The things that scare her are things that I can't control so I'm having trouble making them not scary. These things include leaves falling from trees, people walking though leaves (we've fixed this), cats and squirrels. Her reaction is to run away but sometimes she will bark or growl.
She also has seperation anxiety and her reaction is completely different to when she is scared. She screams, properly screams and is very very distressed to the point where she could hurt herself. It is pure panic and its awful.
We no long have any problems leaving her home alone for a couple of hours, its when we are out that is causing me concern. I thought she was doing better but we had an incident last weekend that really has me worried.
When we go shopping Dh or I will wait with the dog outside while the other one goes in. Her reaction depends on how many times we've been to a particular shop before but she no long screams. The same thing in the car, she's not happy she's forced on the back seat (car harness) but she doesn't scream. Her reaction to these situations has been deeply unhappy and slightly distressed but not panic. I really thought we were getting somewhere but then the weekend happened.
We were going somewhere in the car and the car made a funny noise so Dh pulled over, got out of the car and check the tires on the passengers side. He was in sight the entire time. Dog really properly panicked. I don't know what to call it other than a panic attack, it was distressing to witness but thankfully didn't last long.
I know why she panicked I just don't know how to fix it. She panicked because it was a new situation in a new place, and she didn't know Dh was going to come back. We've walked in and out of numerous shops/walked away from her 1000's of times for months on end to reduce her reaction and its mostly worked but I didn't realise that she was learning that in those locations we will always come back rather than we will always come back if we go into a shop/walk away iyswim? I really don't know what to do, any ideas?
I must add that 99% of the time she is a happy confident dog.
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