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Talk to me about rescue dogs?

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LonnyVonnyWilsonFrickett · 07/05/2015 12:42

We are in the very initial stages of talking about getting a dog. It would be a first dog for both DH and I, we did have dogs when I was very little but no real experience.

While there's the obvious 'ahhhh' factor about a puppy, we obviously have never trained a dog before. And I know there are lots of dogs in shelters who are looking for good homes*

My question is, how do you choose? How do you know you're not going to pick a dog with a 'bad' history? If dogs have been in shelters, does that automatically mean they've been badly treated and therefore have problems? How honest are staff, would they tell you the bad things as well as the good?

I'm nervous about making a mistake - how awful would it be to commit to a dog and then for it not to work out? - but of course DS/safety have to be the priority. Can anyone offer any advice?

*I didn't want to make this too long, but I think we can offer a good home, I'm at home most of the day, we only have one DS, live near an area with lots of great walks, etc. And we are definitely taking our time over the decision - even though it's what we want, we won't do it unless it's right...

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KittyBeans72 · 13/08/2016 14:28

just to chuck this into the mix... we got a complete stray (REALLY stupid) that we knew nothing about and we were very lucky. he's a great dog (he has his issues but nothing compared to some things I've seen) BUT neither of us had ever had a dog before and we were TOTALLY OVERWHELMED by what it entailed.

if you've never owned a dog before I STRONGLY recommend that you either borrow one or foster one or do something reasonably non-committal first so you can see what it's like. Don't rely on having hung out with friends' dogs a bit; you need to really know what it'a like having to get up and do walks, clean up poos, hoover up hair etc. And then get your support crew lined up before you bring your dog home - get a trainer, a vet, a dog sitter, a walker, helpful friends, so you don't suddenly have to find someone to help you out in a pinch.

We love our dog to pieces but had we had any idea what we were in for, I am not sure we would have done it (although the idea of not having him NOW is of course impossible!)

good luck!!

honeyroar · 13/08/2016 20:48

Good advice KittyBeans. A lot of people. Don't do their research, they get a dog on a whim, and that's why so many end up in rescue. Glad you stuck with it and have the love of/for your dog.

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