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Thinking of getting a British bulldog pup. Need opinions.

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BatCrapCrazy · 21/09/2014 20:52

We currently have a pekinese dog. We have been living with MIL for the last year and are about to move out but during this time, our dog has grown awfully attached to MILs dog and FIL wants to keep him. We are happy to do this as it would be awful to separate them after all this time.
But DC would be gutted. We have been looking into getting another dog and I have fallen in love with a British bulldog pup. I have done a fair bit of research about their temperament etc and it seems they are lovely dogs to have around children (our DCs are 3 and 4).
I work school hours. I'm concerned about leaving him at home all this time. This was never a problem with our other dog as MIL looked after DS while I worked in our house so the dog had company all day. DS is in school now so this wouldn't happen with a new dog.
Any advice would be hugely appreciated

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BatCrapCrazy · 22/09/2014 11:45

The woman has emailed back and she has two females who will be ready to leave in 3 weeks (pretty much exactly when we are moving out of MILs - good timing or what). She says they are currently kept outside but are quite happy to be indoors and she is litter training them. She's sent me a pic......

Thinking of getting a British bulldog pup. Need opinions.
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Floralnomad · 22/09/2014 11:53

Rabbits do not make brilliant pets for children ,they don't generally enjoy being picked up ,indoor guinea pigs might be a better solution. I'd still advise that you get in touch with a fancy rat owner and take your dd to meet them ,my mum didn't like anything with a tail and even she got quite fond of our rats .

Branleuse · 22/09/2014 11:57

a rescue staffie pup. Theyre the business!!

KingThistlesMistress · 22/09/2014 11:59

We have bulldogs and would always have them again!! If your going down the puppy line make sure it's had all the relevant health tests...healthy dogs are around but they are pricey...also there is a bulldog rescueSmile

tabulahrasa · 22/09/2014 12:06

No rabbits don't like being picked up, but they will interact with children and choose to come and sit with children who are on ground level.

Honestly, with enough space to do rabbity things - they really are good pets.

Kept in a hutch and only ever being interacted with by picking them up, they aren't...but kept properly they really are.

BatCrapCrazy · 22/09/2014 12:13

If we had a rabbit I would probably put the hutch in the outbuilding, maybe outside during the summer as it gets really hot in there in the summer. The garden is enclosed and slabbed (so no digging can occur) so she would have plenty of outside space to run around. Then i was thinking about putting a smaller hutch in the kids playroom with the door open so she can come in and out as she pleases when we are home. I had a rabbit growing up but i really think he was one in a million. My dad had him so well trained, he was literally like a little dog. He used to nudge us to pick him up for a cuddle.

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MehsMum · 22/09/2014 12:14

This is a really nice thread - an OP who has taken sensible advice and posters have offered it without giving the OP a flaming first for daring to want a dog when her circumstances aren't ideal.

I'm not being patronising... After some of the threads I've read, this one is a lovely change.

Good luck with your critter selection, OP. Guinea pigs are really cute - they whistle at you when you start chopping up salad!

tabulahrasa · 22/09/2014 12:22

"My dad had him so well trained, he was literally like a little dog."

They are like little dogs in a lot of ways, as long as children don't treat them like live toys that they can just pick up and carry round they are good pets.

I would say though - do read through the rabbit welfare stuff about how they need to be kept as I think they do like somewhere to dig? But that could be a sandpit type set up as far as I know. And there is a huge issue with hutch size and what pet shops actually sell...they need more space than most pet shops say, by quite a bit.

BatCrapCrazy · 22/09/2014 12:26

Aww thanks MehsMum. The last thing i want to do is let a puppy into our home if our circumstances aren't ideal. Thats why i posted on here as this forum is full of personal experiences
. The dog we have now came from a bad background and was just happy to be alone during the day. My sister would check in on him and he wouldn't even move, he would just sleep all day. This has possibly added to my naivety about puppies.
I also had gorgeous guinea pigs growing up (I didn't live in a zoo - honest). They were fab and didn't mind being picked up but I can't see DD "clicking" with a guinea pig. Im going to talk to her about it tonight. She knows we are leaving our dog with MIL when we move so we have talked about another pet. She's only 4 bless her but she's a sensitive little thing and I want her to feel involved in the choosing process. She's had a hard start to life as we have moved around so much and have been living in less than ideal conditions at MILs for the last year and this is the first time we are "settling".
I have arranged to go and view the rabbits on wednesday.

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BatCrapCrazy · 22/09/2014 12:27

DP and I were just saying that the hutches they sell don't look adequate. DP is a builder and his best friend is a carpenter so he was talking about building a hutch and run from scratch. Hadn't thought about digging. But a sandpit wouldnt be a problem. Ill have a look online and see what is suggested.

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VivaLeBeaver · 22/09/2014 12:32

How about a cat?

RSPCA says that rabbits are the most neglected pet as they tend to get stuck in a hutch/run in the garden and kids don't bother with them much. Which ime is true. Dd played with her guinea pigs more than the rabbits.

BatCrapCrazy · 22/09/2014 12:34

I have a terrible cat allergy so a cat isn't something we could consider.
DD is so animal orientated that I don't think she would get bored of a rabbit. Especially if its around the house as a dog would be.

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insanityscratching · 22/09/2014 12:44

We had a house rabbit who was great fun, he preferred our company to his female companion tbh. She was a bit of a misery though so although she was as welcome inside as he was she very rarely wanted to come in. He on the other hand only went out under duress and he would growl at you if you tried to send him out.
You'll need to hide wires as they like to nibble and keep things off of the floor ours used to shred paper in no time.
Even small rabbits are strong and will scratch if they don't want to be picked up and it has been my experience that not all rabbits are happy to be picked up and cuddled even if you start young.

tabulahrasa · 22/09/2014 12:45

"DP and I were just saying that the hutches they sell don't look adequate. DP is a builder and his best friend is a carpenter so he was talking about building a hutch and run from scratch. Hadn't thought about digging. But a sandpit wouldnt be a problem. Ill have a look online and see what is suggested."

I'd like that post if MN did that, lol.

"RSPCA says that rabbits are the most neglected pet as they tend to get stuck in a hutch/run in the garden and kids don't bother with them much. Which ime is true. Dd played with her guinea pigs more than the rabbits."

Honestly, I do think it's because people don't keep them properly...not that I'm saying you neglected your rabbits! I just mean that the advice that people are given about rabbits from lots of sources is wrong, that's why the rabbit welfare association has their campaign for a hutch is not enough...the more space they have, the better pets they make.

My friend's set up is that they have a shed, just a a garden shed with an open hutch as their bed inside, hay racks, toys and litter trays, with a cat flap to their run so they can come in and out as they want when there's nobody in...the rest of the time they have access to the rest of the garden and the house through a cat flap in the back door. They spend half their time in the house and half outside, through choice.

At school finishing time they're in the house waiting for the DC to come and play with them, actually demanding it, lol...you couldn't forget about them if you tried, they know their names, they've learned some tricks and they come inside for breakfast and dinner, in fact they hassle you if you're late. (I look after them when they're away)

I've had guinea pigs, they are nice and much better for children who do want something to pick up and cuddle rather than do things with, but rabbits have a lot of personality and you can do more things like games and training with them.

BatCrapCrazy · 22/09/2014 12:51

That set up sounds amazing! We could do the same thing, the only thing is that both our back doors are PVC patio doors so wouldn't be able to have the cat flap but someone will always be around to let them in or out when needed. Our rabbit used to scratch on the door when it wanted to come in or out.
I think a rabbit is the best choice all round. But do I have one or two?

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SignYourNameInBrownAndFlame · 22/09/2014 13:05

Oh, well done OP. I know nothing about rabbits so will leave that to the lapine experts but how refreshing to see someone prepared to put their pets' needs first!

tabulahrasa · 22/09/2014 13:09

She has the cat flap for her cats to be fair, she had them first...they're now followed around by nosy rabbits looking a bit unsure about what these bunny things are, lol.

Definitely 2 rabbits, they like company, they bond really strongly to the point that if one has to go to the vets you should take the other one to keep the ill one less stressed and to stop the well one freaking out because its alone and they groom each other and stuff as well.

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tabulahrasa · 22/09/2014 13:14

kelpeed - read the thread...

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BatCrapCrazy · 22/09/2014 13:49

Well both bunnies the lady has emailed me about are still available so this may well be fate. Can you keep 2 females together?

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awfulomission · 22/09/2014 13:59

Afaik two females is the best scenario. As long as they are confident they are both females- they can be difficult to sex.

Our neighbours learned this through bitter experience! Quite cute also though...

tabulahrasa · 22/09/2014 14:00

Yes...I'm pretty sure you're still supposed to neuter them or they get hormonal though...but I'd check on that as well, but yes, 2 girls are fine.

merrymouse · 22/09/2014 14:07

Springer Spaniels are lovely, but you have to be the kind of person who wants to spend time training them and giving their energy direction.

merrymouse · 22/09/2014 14:08

(obviously all dogs need training, but some dogs neeeeeed training).