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Making relatives understand

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PhoebeNPenny · 11/04/2014 10:57

Hello
I'm new to MN and to being a dog owner. I didn't realize you could love a pet as much as I love my new puppy. My daughter & husband adore her too. However my problem is with other relatives who expect us to lock her up or out of the way when they come over (uninvited I might add). My dog is part of my family and I don't want to lock her up (she's tiny btw) - has anyone else had this problem? Is there a better way to keep me & family happy? It might be because I'm a new pet owner but I don't want to shut my puppy away. Anyone?

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PhoebeNPenny · 11/04/2014 11:49

This is the agreement I have with my Aunty Pootles2010. She seems to be the only reasonable one who doesn't like my dog.

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SharpLily · 11/04/2014 11:49

Is that really a dog? Grin

Owllady · 11/04/2014 11:53

GGosh she's tiny! :) how on earth can they object?

PhoebeNPenny · 11/04/2014 11:53

My dad did come in and say "so where is my favorite guinea pig?" and gave her a cuddle Grin

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SnakeyMcBadass · 11/04/2014 12:05
Grin

I actually think it's quite rude for people to enter your home and ask you to change things for their convenience. I don't much like cats, but I wouldn't dream of telling my friend with cats to remove them from my eyeline/head/handbag. They live there. I am the interloper and they know it.

Owllady · 11/04/2014 12:09

I'm actually allergic to cats and don't expect ppl to remove them from their home. I just take an anti histamine and fall asleep

moosemama · 11/04/2014 12:10

Aw, she's gorgeous. Grin

My dogs are always behind a dog gate when I open the front door and I tend not to let them into the living room when we have visitors unless the visitors seem keen to interact with them - but they are big dogs, so far more imposing to the uninitiated. They are however, just the other side of the gate to us and not locked-away.

The only person I lock them away for is my Step-Dad, as he is really phobic about dogs and has been since he was a child. I have no problem putting my dogs away if people are scared of them, but they are a part of our family and if you can't accept that, then don't visit.

Our house probably does smell a bit doggy, having two large dogs living in it (although frankly the emissions from ds1's rear end are probably far worse than the dog. Grin) but you don't have to come inside and smell it - it's entirely up to you. (It doesn't naturally follow that houses with dogs in smell either. When we sold our last house we had 3 dogs and the estate agent had several people ask why there was a dog run in the garden, as we obviously didn't have dogs. We just removed their beds and took the dogs out for a walk whenever we had a viewing. Wooden floors downstairs, dogs not allowed on furniture or upstairs, so nothing to hold the smell - other than the fur on their bodies and their beds.)

We have friends that have cats, I'm not really a cat person, find their fur more annoying than dogs in the way it tends to float and cling and dh is allergic to them. One friend in particular has several very friendly cats that tend to plant themselves on your lap as soon as you sit down, but we still choose to visit their houses (albeit without the dogs Wink) and will fuss their cats if they approach us - our choice and we go (and dh takes antihistamines so he can go) because we are good friends and accept their right to choose their lifestyle and pets etc. They aren't really dog people either, but still visit us and fuss our dogs occasionally.

PhoebeNPenny · 11/04/2014 12:17

My step sister has two cats (which i'm allergic to) so I agree to meet her at my parents (who have an english bulldog pup who is beautiful). I wouldn't dream of saying to her "stick them in your bedroom or outside".

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Gileswithachainsaw · 11/04/2014 12:21

Besides I'd have thought that getting them used to visitors early on and learning to leave people alone was something u woul try and teach from day one how's a puppy meant to learn If not ever allowed into a situation

Gileswithachainsaw · 11/04/2014 12:22

Shutting her away wouldn't help :(

drinkyourmilk · 11/04/2014 12:23

Squeee! Terribly cute. Thank you.

SharpLily · 11/04/2014 12:24

I wouldn't dream of saying to her "stick them in your bedroom or outside".

I'd say the issue isn't that your visitors don't like dogs, more that they're rude.

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