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Operation DS

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GhostsInSnow · 03/12/2013 11:25

This turned into an essay...sorry! Blush

Operation DS, as it's affectionately known in our house to keep 16 year old DD from guessing anything is amiss. Operation DS or 'Dottie Scogg' comes into fruition on 21st December and DH and I are VERY excited.

We had 2 dogs, a beautiful Scottie named Jack and an adorable Westie called Bob. 2 years ago we lost Jack, then aged just 9, to liver disease and DH and I were devastated. Anyone who has owned a Scottie dog will know what a huge presence they are in a home and even though Bob was left we all felt his loss.

For a while we considered a new puppy, but Bob was getting older and we didn't think it was fair on him so we held off. Over the last 2 years Bob became arthritic, had a heart murmur and emphysema. Our last vets visit a few months ago she thought he probably had a cancer somewhere, but at nearly 14 we didn't want to stress him or put him through any undue procedures so we made him comfortable and enjoyed our time with him. He'd seemed so well the morning we lost him, almost like a pup again in the morning, bounding around the house. By lunch time he was being sick and by the following day he had pneumonia and could barely breathe. An x-ray revealed he had tumors all over his liver and despite all our hopes he wouldn't recover. We made the horrible decision to let him go.

For two weeks our home and hearts have been so empty. Not a day has gone by when I haven't expected him to jump on the sofa with me or be there when I wake up. It's just him and me in the day so I think I've felt it more. DD has been so lost, she grew up with Bob and they were close but she also said the house didn't feel right and could we please have another dog. I initially said no.

I gave it thought, talked it over with DH and we decided we could have a dog. With that we researched some breeders and finally found just one scottie boy through the kennel club 120 miles away. Under the guise of going 'christmas shopping' we left DD at the weekend and went to see him. Of course we fell in love, Mum and Dad had the same temperament as Jack (and looked a lot like him as well!) so we left a deposit on him.

I've been secretly puppy proofing the house in the day whilst DD is at school. On collection day we shall tell DD we are off to a collectors shop she read about in a town near to the breeder, she'll want to come and then when we pull up at the breeders she will realise why we are there. I suspect she will burst into tears.

We all miss Bob so very much and I think it's testament to how much he and Jack changed our lives that we can't seem to live in a house without them. 2 weeks doesn't seem long and I imagine some people will raise eyebrows, but 2 weeks with no wagging tail, no woof of greeting and no sofa snuggles has been horrible.

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1MitchellMum · 03/12/2013 12:08

No raised eyebrows here, I'd hate to b without a dog in the house! Sounds great. My 'puppy' was a Christmas present to myself. Ten years ago ... but she's still my puppy. Have lots of fun! x

GhostsInSnow · 03/12/2013 12:36

I think I need my head read with the timing, a small bundle of scottie madness 3 days before Christmas but I'm sure we'll cope. Fortunately Christmas day is spent at home with my DD and DH. DS and Mum will come over as well and if all else fails I do have a crate that belonged to my old boy pup can go in for an hour whilst I sort out lunch.

DH is going to put some security lighting up in the garden this weekend so I can see what pup is up to when toilet training. Not sure how I'm going to explain that to DD yet, perhaps under the guise of 'extra security'.

It's going to be a livelier Christmas than I'd envisaged thats for sure!

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sebastianthesingingaubergine · 04/12/2013 06:54

I wish I could be there to see your DDs face! I think you are going to have a marvellous christmas:)

You know we will need an full account of collection day don't you...

GhostsInSnow · 04/12/2013 08:26

Yep, full account will be given. There will be tears. May try and sneakily film her actually, the realisation well be funny I suspect.

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littlewhitechristmasbag · 04/12/2013 20:58

I am welling up in anticipation of DD's reaction. How old is she?

Wolfiefan · 04/12/2013 21:02

Why on earth would anyone raise an eyebrow?! I think it's lovely. Hoping for puppy pics!!

LEMisafucker · 04/12/2013 21:07

Two weeks??? you lasted two weeks? Grin When i lost my first true love (in terms of dogs) I was a week before i was at battersea and came away with a carbon copy of our boy, but he was very very different :) Then when we said goodbye to him we vowed we couldn't go through it again, two months this time! Now we have two dogs and i don't think i ever want to be without one. Its not about replacing the dog itself but its about filling a gap in your life.

GhostsInSnow · 05/12/2013 08:42

littlewhite, she's just 16. We had Bob when she was 2 so she and him grew up together. Rare to find a childhood photo of DD without her hugging Bob, he's all she ever knew really.

Wolfie, soon as I get them I'll post them Grin the breeder did say she'd try and email me a weekly picture.

LEM, thats what worries me slightly about another Scott. His parents are carbon copies of Jack and I'm scared I'm going to compare him. There is a huge gap though I agree. Even now I'm sat here reading MN and thinking 'I'd better let Bob out for his wee in a sec'. It's hard to adjust.

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littlewhitechristmasbag · 05/12/2013 10:44

That is so lovely. My youngest DD is just about to turn 16 and she adores our dog. she would be devastated if anything happened to her. She will be ecstatic when she realises she is getting a dog.

GhostsInSnow · 05/12/2013 14:02

She misses Bob so much. this was the pair of them when Bob was a pup, he'd follow her everywhere and the two of them would spend hours in that house together.

This was the pair of them about 3 weeks ago. Still inseparable.

I've booked us both in some training classes after Christmas as well, she'll love that I think. Pup will never replace Bob, but hopefully he'll make her smile and give her a new friend.

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LadyTurmoil · 05/12/2013 17:36

Gorgeous pictures of your daughter and Bob - look forward to updates - have you chosen a name for your new buddy?

Floralnomad · 05/12/2013 17:42

Lovely pictures and I'm sure your dd will love the new arrival . When my son was small my mum had a dog called Bob,he was part mastiff / ridgeback , he to was the most gorgeous boy and Bob was my sons first proper word . Sadly he's been gone for about 13 yrs now .

GhostsInSnow · 05/12/2013 17:57

We don't have a name yet, simply because we don't want to choose anything without DD's involvement so his name won't come until she knows.
We have discussed puppy names in the past and Baggins was mentioned by her before so I'm guessing that will be on the list. I quite like Murphy and Haggis myself but we need to find something we all agree on.

Flora, all the Bobs I've met have been lovely boys. DD is my youngest so was the closest to him. DS is nearly 21, he loved Bob but sadly Bob wasn't as keen on him as he was DD. He never really had much to do with him. DS doesn't live at home now but he was very upset as well when we lost him, especially as he didn't get chance to say goodbye.

The breeder has emailed me earlier, the boy is doing well and growing fast. Grin

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EmpressOfTheWellOfLostPlots · 26/12/2013 15:38

How did Operation DS go, Juice?

saffronwblue · 27/12/2013 08:43

Would love to hear how it went!

GhostsInSnow · 27/12/2013 18:45

Operation DS went spectacularly wrong. On the Thursday before we were due to pick him up on the Saturday we had a phone call to say our pup had died.

Obviously as I came off the phone I was upset and DD realised something was going on so I had to come clean. At this point DH and I figured everything was ruined and that was that. We did some digging and research and found another breeder with one boy left...a 300 mile round trip. We went to see the pup, fell in love and 'Murphy' came home with us much to DD's delight.

Murphy

Obviously it wasn't the surprise we'd hoped for, and we feel now we were perhaps fated to have this pup rather than the one we chose originally and we wouldn't change him now.

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SnakeyMcBadass · 27/12/2013 18:47

Gorgeous. So sorry about the other pup :(

EmpressOfTheWellOfLostPlots · 28/12/2013 00:08

Yes, sorry about other pup Sad but Murphy looks lovely.

GhostsInSnow · 28/12/2013 18:51

I guess thinking about it logically if the pup had hidden health problems and we'd brought him home it would have been awful to have lost him here. We didn't know him and thankfully weren't the ones who found him in the morning because that would have been devastating.

I guess fate took a hand in this, we were meant for Murphy I think and I wouldn't change him for the world (even though he's currently 'leaving home' and dragging his bed towards the front door Hmm)

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ErrolTheDragon · 28/12/2013 19:06

Oh... I've been snivelling a bit looking at those pictures.

When we lost our previous dog, our DD was nearly 8 and had never been without him, we went from 'shall we get another' to 'yes... sometime' to 'yes, there are some pups from a good breeder planned in about 6 months time' to 'there's a 10 month old needing a home, shall DH make a 650 mile round trip to look at him' in less than a month. Grin - he's a Robbie usually known as Bobs.

Sorry for the poor wee first pup but Murphy is adorable!

ItsAWonderfulCervix · 28/12/2013 19:14

Oh he is lovely.

I was heartbroken to lose my old boy and swore 'never again'.

6 weeks later..........

GhostsInSnow · 28/12/2013 19:39

We were all very lost when Bob went. I'm on my own in the day so most of the time I would chat away to him. Even though he never answered back it was horrible to lose that. Then DD would come home from school without the wagging tail to greet her and she was lost completely. Bob was all she knew from a toddler to a teenager and every photo has the pair of them together.

I think the 'never again' is a natural reaction isn't it, then you realise your home isn't quite a home without them. Errol your DH is as good as mine, though my 300 miles was bad enough a 650 mile round trip I think he'd have killed me Blush

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ItsAWonderfulCervix · 28/12/2013 19:52

MiL used to have a scottie. Big character he was. Lovely dogs.

GhostsInSnow · 28/12/2013 20:28

cervix people tend to lump Westies and Scotties into the same category but there is a world of difference. Having had the pleasure of being owned by both I'd always said I'd pick another Scott because of their huge personalities. So loyal as well. Whilst Bob the Westie was DD's dog Jack the scottie was most definitely mine. He'd follow me everywhere, have his head in every bag and would insist on lying across me on the sofa.

Murphy is already exhibiting classic Scott behaviour. In fact most days DH will look at me and say 'Thats a Jack trick'. And true to form as I type this he's lounged across the sofa with his head on my laptop Blush

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