Please take your dog to a decent training class. No one can train their dog on their own, even very experienced owners like to train around other dogs (not least of all for the distractions) and make use of other people in the class (for teaching not to jump up, for familiarising the dog with other people, etc.). No one can train a dog from a book either. Books are great as a support to teaching but you can't just rely on a book. Someone has to teach you techniques, correct you when you get it wrong, observe the interaction between you and your dog, suggest adjustments to fit your dog's needs, etc.
Also, what you mention is not the point of the clicker. Briefly this is how the clicker works: clicker training is based on operant conditioning and the idea that behaviour that is rewarded tends to be repeated. So you select the behaviours you want and you reward them so that they are strengthened, you ignore or fail to reward the behaviours that you do not want and they are extinguished.
How to get the behaviour: dogs that are used to this training method offer behaviours until they hit upon the desired one, but for beginners you either lure the dog into the behaviour (use a piece of food on the nose and move upwards usually results in a sit), or you wait for the behaviour to occur naturally (puppies are usually too scared to move away from the owner in new environments so you reward their being near you as the beginnings of the recall), or you take advantage of the dog's natural curiosity (if you place your open palm next to a dog's nose they are likely to touch it which is the beginnings of targeting).
What do you do when you get the behaviour? You mark it with a click. The click sounds means "that's what I wanted, reward will follow". You then have time to give your reward which can be food, toys, freedom, etc.
What happens next? The dog is likely to repeat the behaviour you just rewarded, so you click and reward again.
What about commands: there is no point giving commands to a dog that does not understand them. It's like going up to a person who does not speak English and telling them to 'Sit'. No matter how often you repeat yourself, how loud you get, or how frustrated you get the non-English speaker is not going to suddenly and magically understand you.
So I never give commands? No, you give commands once you have an established behaviour. Once your dog sits reliably and quickly in all sorts of situations you start naming the behaviour as 'sit'. You get what you name so you only want to name 'sit' reliable sits otherwise you are teaching the dog NOT to sit when you say 'sit'.
The only exception to this is recall where you use a very high pitched voice to squeele excitedly "Dog's name, COME!".
What about unwanted behaviour? Ignore, distract, time out, or teach an incompatible behaviour (if the dog jumps up, click and treat when she has all 4 paws on the ground).
You have a very intelligent breed of dog, she will pick all this up really quickly, but you need to get some help asap because you also have a high energy intelligent dog that will get bored and frustrated easily.