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Holiday dilemma

10 replies

Goldmandra · 07/03/2013 23:04

We have two rescue dogs.

A Jack Russell terrier who is around 5 years old who we have had for about 2.5 years. He took a very long time to settle in and relax. He still flinches if you move an object near him suddenly. He is affectionate and gentle with the family but defensive of his crate and of our house if other people visit. He is very nervous of people outside the family. He also growls and snaps if disturbed during the night so the two dogs sleep in separate rooms.

He is aggressive towards bigger dogs, hits the end of the lead barking and growling, etc.

We also have a terrier/collie cross bitch who we got at five months old almost a year ago. She is a lovely, playful, affectionate creature, very subordinate to the JRT and quite nervous when he's around.

They play together a fair amount but he occasionally turns and lays into her so she's always vigilant. If we leave them together overnight or while we are out, even in crates she is really cowed and nervous when we return.

DH has decided he would like us to take our caravan to France for our summer holiday this year. There are various options for the dogs.

We could take them with us but they would find the journey stressful and their presence would seriously curtail our eating out, visiting attractions, etc.

We could put them in kennels. I worry terribly that all the settling in that the JRT has done could be set back and also that anyone who decides to show him that they are top dog might frighten him so much that he bites them.

We could try to find someone who cares for dogs as part of their family but I don't think they'd want a snappy JRT.

We have one friend who has offered to have them but he doesn't know what he will be doing for work by August. Also they would be left all day and the younger dog is not used to being left alone. She follows me around all day at home.

So should we get pet passports and take them?

Should we try to find a decent kennels or dog hotel type place? I think they would have to be together during the day but separated at night.

Should we leave him with the friend who has two teenage children who love the dogs but they will all be out all day?

Should we give up on the idea and settle for holidays in the UK for the foreseeable future?

We are in Worcestershire so I would be really grateful for recommendations if anyone knows a really good kennels run by people who can care for anxious dogs.

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Scuttlebutter · 07/03/2013 23:52

Is there anyone you could ask to stay in your home for the duration of your holiday? This would have other advantages as well - plants watered, lawn mowed, post managed, house looking lived in etc. If you are going in the summer, this might be ideal for a student looking to earn some cash over the vacation or even a retired relative who might be willing to help out? You could start now with finding someone and introducing them to the dogs and so on. You can even employ people from specialist agencies who will come and do this.

Many kennels are very good with anxious dogs. I'm the first to admit to being a PFD owner but we've found that both the kennel we currently use and the previous one were fine . They offer tours and will give you a free day of boarding to see how your dog adjusts. If that goes well, I'd suggest a weekend and see how that goes - that should give you a good idea. Many kennels are happy for your dog to eat the same food and bring special toys, blankets etc from home. Good ones will administer medicine, can arrange grooming and have a range of activities. Bear in mind though that good ones will be booked solid in the peak holiday months, so if you do choose this you will need to work on this now. Can't help with that area but also your local Council will license the kennels and you can check this and you can see licensing reports - this is very useful.

Finally, you mentioned that they are rescue dogs. If you keep in touch with the rescue, do they have anyone who can help? For example, I know with ours, there are several people I know from the rescue who I could ask to provide a home from home - usually other foster carers, who are familiar with pointy ways. Given your dog's specialist needs, the rescue might have a foster or volunteer who is willing to help.

Goldmandra · 08/03/2013 08:19

Thank you Scuttlebutter. That was a really informative post.

I will start by looking for licensing reports.

I was lying in bed at about 4.00 this morning wondering about the people who foster dogs for them and whether they could put us in touch with one.

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Yoghurty · 08/03/2013 08:40

I don't think you'll have enough time to get them passports- with all the blood tests and paperwork it takes more than 6 months (maybe 9?) for them to be ok to travel.

We used to have a very stressed out dog who loved going into kennels- it was a whole other environment to what she was used to and her stressors weren't there to trigger her. Maybe this would be similar for your dog?
Also as mentioned, kennels are very good at dealing with stressed dogs and will work with you to find out the smoothest way to make it work- the kennel used to let us leave her overnight and for the weekend on the run up to our holidays at a discounted rate to get her used to going.

Unfortunately I live 250 miles from that kennel now and our current dogs need to find a similarly well run place! (Thou these 2 aren't stressed!)

Yoghurty · 08/03/2013 08:41

Cross posted with Scuttle!

PuddinAforeDinner · 08/03/2013 10:06

Hi Goldmandra

I understand your dilema but if you did decide to go the Kennel route I would check out www.ledburylodgekennels.co.uk/. I know you are in Worcestershire but this isn't too far away.

Goldmandra · 08/03/2013 11:20

*Puddin that place looks fab.

I need to find someone to help me to try to deal with the guarding behaviour from the JRT. At the moment we're mostly trying to use logic, experience from puppy training and kindness but the best we seem to be managing is not making it worse. Maybe this guy would be a good person to help us with that too.

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PuddinAforeDinner · 08/03/2013 11:48

It is a fantastic place (no I don't work for them), they are very friendly and welcoming. Before you decide if you want to make a booking or not go and have a look around.

He was fantastic with one of our dogs, showed us where we were going wrong and helped us with the problmem. I'm sure he would be able to advise you, they do indeed specialise with problem dogs.

Hope it helps.

PuddinAforeDinner · 08/03/2013 11:49

Argh problem.

I don't mean you have a problem dog either Blush

Floralnomad · 08/03/2013 12:09

If its holidays will the friends teenagers not be about during the day ? If they're a bit older could you pay one of them to stay at yours with the dogs ?

Goldmandra · 08/03/2013 14:35

If they're a bit older could you pay one of them to stay at yours with the dogs ?

I would do this in a second for the puppy but I don't know whether to trust the JRT. As I am not sure the answer is probably no Sad

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