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do dogs pine ?

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mrsjay · 02/02/2013 16:33

my lovely aunt died last weekend Sad and her poor dog seems so lost I went to visit my uncle the other day and the dog is looking out of the window pacing and not eating and just looks very sad, uncle bless him is worried about the not eating dog is a small whippet cross so a very skinny anyway, I felt so sorry for the poor thing not knowing what was going on,

I dont want this to sound like I am not worried about the humans in the dogs life their loss is greater obviously,

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Meow75isknittinglikemad · 02/02/2013 16:37

Two words - Greyfriars Bobby

Abra1d · 02/02/2013 16:38

Dogs do pine, definitely.

Forgive me for asking this, I don't want to offend anyone, but is it allowed for dogs to 'view' the deceased person's body? Just often this is the way they learn that someone is dead and not just lost or gone away. I have no idea if funeral directors allow this, though. I hope this isn't appropriate.

Meow75isknittinglikemad · 02/02/2013 16:39

In case you are unaware

mrsjay · 02/02/2013 16:40

I dont think the familiy wanted to view the body so that wouldnt be an option my heart went out to him

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Meow75isknittinglikemad · 02/02/2013 16:40

Although, much to my disappointment, it all appears to have been a Victorian hoax. I still believe that sort of thing is possible though.

mrsjay · 02/02/2013 16:41

yes I know about grey friars bobby I just havn't seen a dog like this before thats all,

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D0oinMeCleanin · 02/02/2013 16:43

Yes, dogs can grieve. The symptoms you describe are common.

There are ways to ease this, more walks, more games, more attention. In general distract, distract, distract....

This might also help your poor uncle by giving him something positive to focus on.

If the problem is very extreme then a vet may be able to help with medication.

My Dad recently took in a foster who had lost both his owner and his home. He was elderly with several health issues. The prognosis was not good. He had many of the same behaviors you describe, he wouldn't eat, he howled or whined all day, paced, attempted to escape and was generally very upset.

We took turns giving the dog one on one time. I'd pop pop round after both school runs to walk him, my dad would walk him lunch time and he'd get his main evening walk with the other dogs, we hand fed him for a while, until he was eating better and he got lots of attention and hugs.

He is still with my Dad and is now a different dog, it's like he's suddenly 10 years younger Smile The rescue have decided it would be unfair to separate them because of the bond they have built and the dogs age, so he is now a long term foster and will live out his remaining years with us.

Dogs can and do recover well from this.

I am sorry to hear about the loss of your Aunt Sad

D0oinMeCleanin · 02/02/2013 16:44

Greyfriars Bobby might just be true

Varya · 02/02/2013 16:50

Without doubt, dogs pine for both humans and their canine pals. Distraction is best, plus really tasty food for a little while to encourage him to eat. I cook up pet shop chicken for grieving dogs and mix it with pasta or rice plus a salt free tasty gravy to tempt them to nourish themselves. Hope, OP that your Uncle's dog picks up soon.

mrsjay · 02/02/2013 16:50

Thank you doin thats kind of you, I think after the funeral and my uncle can get back to a bit of 'normality' the dog will be ok, it is nice to hear that dogs can recover and move on

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