Hi Jemima and ijustwant - I have found nothing quite as helpful and reassuring as reading about other people's puppy experiences online. I have spent hours late at night reading page after page on topics such as "my puppy is a landshark"! My girl is by no means perfect - very far from it, and I can see that we have other challenges ahead (size! I have only ever had tiny dogs that I could pick up and move away if they were being troublesome! this one is going to be huge
but the fact is she has improved tremendously when it comes to biting and that gives me hope for the future.
With the biting, we tried so many different things, and I am sure there is no solution that works for every puppy. For us, it was definitely a question of making her understand that we didn't want to play rough. No amount of yelping, or stern NOs, or any other word at all, made any difference. Her puppy mind interpreted every sound we made as Yes! Yes! This is great! Bite more! Bite harder!! It just escalated every time and she would constantly attack our ankles, hands, anything really. Having seen her play with other puppies at puppy class I now know that they do play really rough - she was just doing to us what she would have been doing with her litter mates.
We moved on to just getting up and leaving the room every time she nipped hard, and that seemed to make a difference. She definitely got the message, but still carried on because it just wasn't practical to leave the room every time - tricky when you're cooking etc. I didn't want to put her in the utility room (used as a crate really, small, dark, where her bed is) either as I didn't want it to be a place of punishment.
Somewhat ridiculously, what really turned the corner for us was ... drumroll ... the Magic Tennis Racket. It's just a red, plastic racket, one of those cheap ones that come with various summer games from Tesco, but it has made a huge difference. I grabbed it one day in desperation when I didn't want her to shred my trousers, but also didn't want to burn the onions
. I simply pushed it between her nose and my leg, firmly but very very gently, and said No, I don't want to play right now. Somehow, it worked! She looked really sulky, and walked off. I did it a few more times that day, weeks ago, and now I just have to show her the racket if she's getting rough and she simply walks off.
I have been very, very careful not to overuse it though, only when she's getting really worked up and won't listen at all and I can't just walk out. Plus I play with her a lot, spend quite a bit of time training her, and she has plenty of chew toys. Also, our kitchen is covered with little bits of cardboard because I am forever throwing a few biscuits in an old cereal box/kitchen towel roll/egg carton and letting her rip it to pieces. So I try to keep her busy, which also seems to help.
What else...oh yes, tricks that remind her that I am her boss seem to help calm her down. Current favourite being placing a treat on her paw and telling her to Leave It for a good ten seconds. She is very good really, she just needs things to do.
Oh and I am also a SAHM so she has plenty of attention and playing during the day, but I find actual training almost impossible when the DC are around. Also lead walking - she walks fine when it's just me but pulls like a train when they're with us...
Sorry to ramble on, but it feels surprisingly good to sit down and think about how far we've come!