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Should i ring rspca or leave it?

14 replies

xmasevebundle · 16/08/2012 21:22

Me and my ex got a dog... this dog is a JR.

She is trained to attack, if he commands her to she will rip into anything. I brought up the dog and was with it most of the time but NEVER did anything of this to help my ex.

She rats at my ex friend farm, she would go for a child and thats not even a understatement!!!

We have broken up and im pregnant blah blah blah. He lives around the corner with loads of kids.

Its not IF its WHEN she attacks someone and if it was a child i could not live with myself.

She very friendly towards me, but he treated the dog like a child. Bed with him etc!!!

She also gets fleas alot because the stupid bastard cant de flea a dog correctly. He lives with his nan whos got 2 cats one goes under the green house near a hegdehog.

They are riddled with fleas pass it on to the dog etc shes had fleas 4 times within a month i did an animal course at college

Im stuck on what to do!! Shes bit him 6 times and drawed blood each time.

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LovelyMuffins · 16/08/2012 21:28

your ex sounds like an irresponsible twat. If it were me I would report him an his Nan Sad

xmasevebundle · 16/08/2012 23:07

Can you ring up and witheld your name?

The dog will be put down wont it?

Shes not even one yet..

I feel sad that i have wrote it but but what other option do i have? If it was my son that got bit id be fucking fuming if someone new and didnt do anything about it!!!

Will they look into it? She only commands to him though and will snap if feels threatend.

His mate once bought a house rabbit and my ex told him to attack it. They filmed it.

I cried and even got depressed then i found out i was pregnant and i fucking left!!!

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Toughasoldboots · 16/08/2012 23:10

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xmasevebundle · 16/08/2012 23:18

No i didn't no what to do i have been thinking for a while i spoke to my mum she said ring them.

But he gave me alot of grief being pregnant.. and i dont want anymore so im kind of scared to?

But the dog can harm someone and its not right.

Police or rspca?

He will no its me unless i give a tip off.. but if start laying facts he will no its me...

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Toughasoldboots · 16/08/2012 23:19

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xmasevebundle · 16/08/2012 23:32

Im going to ring them tomorrow. I feel bad i have left it.

I think the dog and the cat needs to be taken away they dont care for them.

I thought it was a sick joke but its true because his friends wife told me and thought it was funny!! Shes a fucking bitch.
She had a miscarrage and the first thing i thought was karma. Sounds bad but the bunny was helpless.

I was in shock thought no... I am getting teary about it now..

Ill ring up and say the dogs a danger to the public and explain everything.

He treated it like a weapon, tires to toughen her neck up. Ive seen that once i said what the fuck are you doing and helped the poor thing.

Hes had the dog over 5 months now with out me knowing anything, dont talk.

If it comes down to it, she might even listen to me if i tell her to attack.

Shes a lovely thing maybe its the owner!!!!!!!!!!!!

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missmakesstuff · 16/08/2012 23:40

Seriously, I have never trusted dogs as they will do the bidding of stupid and heartless owners. It is abuse, what your partner has done, and if you don't do anything you are complicit. phone the police and the RSPCA, use the local number, tell them that you are scared he will know it is you - they will understand, they won't give details, just will check him out.

If you don't, you will worry and feel guilty, and that is not what you need with a child on the way - would you leave your baby with the dog and ex? if not, then there is you answer, report him.

However saying the wifes miscarriage was karma is awful - you might feel she isn't a nice person but no-one deserves that - when you do report, I wouldn't be emotional about it, stick to the facts, you are more likely to be taken seriously.

xmasevebundle · 16/08/2012 23:51

I do feel like it was karma because she COULD of stopped it but carried on even joking saying it was a bloody blood bath.

Its just fucking SICK.

No i would not leave my baby with that dog!! It would attack it!!

When go around and find a happy JR they wont do anything about it.

Wont take the dog away nor see as im telling the truth.

One of them ex and his friend have the video on there phone!!!!!

He dont deserve the dog at all. It may get fed and have water but its not right.

When we spilt he was even thinking about buying a pitbull.

I have had weeks to dwell on it and im going to ring them tomorrow.

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missmakesstuff · 17/08/2012 00:08

I hope it all works out for you, well done for being strong enough to leave him - you will be better off by the sounds of it. I assume JR is Jack Russell? are they usually aggressive though?

You could tell the RSPCA and the police about the video - also mention the pitbull. I would say that if it is what you say they have probably been telling/showing all and sundry so it could be anyone phoning the police, therefore less chance of them knowing it is you.

xmasevebundle · 17/08/2012 00:18

Yeah shes got a lovely side to her always use to be near me and wanted to play but when he came home he went to the farm and i didnt no any of it was going on. Poor little thing.

Yeah they used for ratting due to their size and back legs they have fast runners, going down rabbot holes.

Yeah i see what you mean, i assume his mate has told someone has shown the video.

Even worse he lives around the corner from me which i tend not go out because he gives me abuse at me.

Ill give them a ring already wrote a list of his name dates dogs name and what she does.

She has 2 sides. When shes at this farm she turns into this vulgar beast.

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missmakesstuff · 17/08/2012 00:23

Good luck - if his friend is abusive/threatening you should cal the police anyway. Like I said keep it factual if you can.

xmasevebundle · 17/08/2012 00:31

I mean he does it to me. I haven't been out since his mum threatend to stab the baby out my womb. I go all my mw with my mum its a 2 minute walk!!

Im too scared to ive told my MW.

Its all facts, i even remember the the place we bought her down to when i saw her.

Hes was abusing the dog under my nose and the dog wanted to be a normally puppy and play but he had other ideas.

Im really angry now.

Everything is facts, i no where the farm is and they even have dogs. Inbread dogs too, it freaked the shit out of me they reminded me of fred and rose west.

Just took enough to write this post and explain.

I will update you tomorrow on what happens.

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D0oinMeCleanin · 17/08/2012 00:40

Hmm, my dog would tear a rat apart in nano seconds, in fact he has once and then regurgitated it's head all over my sofa, after which he ate it again

It doesn't make him dangerous. Most terriers were bred for hunting and killing rats and other vermin, most terriers are not a danger to children or babies.

When you say he has abused the dog, what exactly do you mean? Taking a dog ratting is not abuse, it is not something I would do, but nor is it animal abuse.

The rabbit incident should have been reported immediately and still should be reported, but if you report his dog as a dangerous dog bear in mind that it will be pts. Killings rats does not equal killing babies and small children.

Reporting him for the rabbit would be enough to get the dog taken away and him banned from keeping animals. I wouldn't mention the dog being 'dangerous' or 'trained to attack' if I were you.

xmasevebundle · 17/08/2012 00:52

I agree with the ratting its not abuse but training them do to so is.

If he bought the terrier from a farm its fine, he bought it from a posh couple around where i live thats the difference.

He trained the dog to go ratting and attack anything that moves. Shes even bit him, never has she snapped or even made me flinch.

Abusing the dog, meaning training it with tires to get the neck stronger and sending the dog off to attack things whilst we walk i dont find that normal. Why kill a rabbit when its doing no harm? Thats illegal.

If your on a farm and theres vermin to right kill it can cause many disease's affects cattle etc. I no all that.

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