Help! I have an 18 month parson russell terrier who is gorgeous but a bit nervous.
I have always tried very hard to saunter past things when we are out and have not (I don't think) added to her fears. She will see a log that is not normally there and growl at it or run away frightened etc, she jumps at noises or if she thinks something is behind her. This is not too bad though and generally we can walk for an hour/hour and a half with her running about like a loon and having a great time! The problem is coming with people....she is fine if they have a dog and is fine if they are children BUT if there are people out on their own she really doesn't like it. I usually call her to me now and put her on the lead and if people are friendly enough and we stop and chat then I ask them to give her some treats and she will take the treats nervously. However I sometimes find myself in a situation where I don't get to her quick enough or we are out and someone will just come and say hello and this is where she is becoming a problem, she will go right up to them but sort of cowering and the hair on her back goes up and she starts barking and yapping at them, if they walk off she will bark and yap at their hands and I am really worried she is going to nip someone on the hand....she was sitting quietly beside me at the pub the other week and this man came up behind us and said hello to her as he loves her type. She really didn't like it and I was really concerned she was going to nip him. Also in a pub recently the bar lady came over to our table and she started barking at her etc. I had hold of her and told her No and to sit and she left that alone.
What can I do? My husband says maybe I am exacerbating the situation by calling her and putting her on her lead much more than I ever used to and my dog walker says she really doesn't have it in her to bite someone but I am getting concerned. We are going on holiday next week and last year I would happily let her off the lead on the beach but this year I am starting to think maybe not...
Any advice extremely welcome. We also have the problem when people come to the door - she will really bark at people. What we have done with this is to keep her in another room when the door goes and wait for her to calm down before she is let out. When she is let out we tell all visitors to completely ignore her and she is fine, she goes up and has a sniff and then ignores them back, generally after an hour or so she starts playing with the visitors and is allways fine.