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My colleague doesn't take her two dogs for a walk, what should I say?

51 replies

crossedwires · 08/06/2012 11:11

my friend has two border collies aged 6(ish). THey are kept outside (they have a large shed style 'house' out there) until night time when they come in. They are both overweight. She has a massive garden but openly admits she nevers walks them. Doesn't have the time. They are lovely dogs and I cannot help thinking this is wrong. We are work colleagues but not friends as such though we do get along well. I did express my surprise when she told me they don't get walked. What would you do?

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expatinscotland · 08/06/2012 11:14

You should say nothing. It's not really your business.

crossedwires · 08/06/2012 11:28

really?

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Housewifefromheaven · 08/06/2012 11:37

Say nothing. You work with this woman, and it could make it uncomfortable for both of you.

You could offer to walk them yourself maybe?

RubberBandit · 08/06/2012 11:44

Whilst I'm generally of the opinion that dogs shoukd have regular walks, I know dogs that don't get walked and they seem perfectly happy with their lot and they are well looked after and cared for in all other regards. If they've never been used to regular walks then they don't know they're missing out, IYSWIM.

I would never advocate getting a dog with the intention of never walking it but if the dogs are generally healthy and happy then it's not a primary welfare concern, IMO.

expatinscotland · 08/06/2012 11:47

You have to work with her. You're not a friend. Keep schtum.

NotMostPeople · 08/06/2012 12:11

I'd report to the RSPCA.

RubberBandit · 08/06/2012 12:39

Waste of time reporting to the RSPCA. All they look for is food, water and shelter that's if they bother to respond at all and these dogs appear to have their basic needs met.

doggiemumma · 08/06/2012 12:51

i agree with rubber bandit - the RSPCA wont do anything, can't really if they are fed and watered. Its not ideal, especially as border collies are working dogs and need stimulation. Its a shame she doesn't walk them - do you have a dog? Could you suggest meeting up at the weekend for a dog walk? make it a social thing and she might find the time?

dheerajkumar128254 · 08/06/2012 13:12

In my opinion you should ask your colleague to take her pets with you, and if she agreed then its better if not then what we can do.

Scuttlebutter · 08/06/2012 13:13

If you have a dog yourself, there may be scope for you to ask her to "help" you - for instance, practising training together, or asking her to come along to a Good Citizen class with you for company and moral support. If she has a large garden, could you suggest she gets a few pieces of agility kit for instance to play with/train with in the garden? PAH now sell some fun pieces. Again, present this as her doing you the favour with your dog coming along for some fun.

Is there a teenager in your family/neighbourhood that you can pressgang into helping you? Suggest that said teen is looking for a voluntary project e.g. for looking good on Uni application, because they want to work with animals, Scout award, church project, anything really, could said teen walk the dogs as part of this? Even if this is once a week for only half an hour, it would be something (personally, I would slip the teen some cash as well) Wink.

Are there any reasons that maybe she hasn't shared with you why she can't walk the dogs? Family illness, caring responsibilities, recent operation or illness ? If there is a genuine reason, a charity like the Cinnamon Trust would be able to help out by providing volunteer dog walkers - she may not know about this service.

Agree you have to tread carefully - you will have to work with this lady so need to be tactful.

Maybe she hasn't realise that professional dog walking services are now so widespread and affordable - this was virtually unheard of thirty years ago and now they are everywhere. If you know of any good local ones, pick up a leaflet, or mention them in conversation casually to see if she had considered it.

usualsuspect · 08/06/2012 13:15

You should mind your own buisness.

OhChristFENTON · 08/06/2012 13:17

If she were a friend and not just a colleague I would say something.

But I suppose if it comes up again unprompted then I might say that I bet she's find a nearby neighbour who would love to take them out for a good walk - it might get her thinking, and it's true - I have had loads of offers to walk my dog.

DukeHumfrey · 08/06/2012 13:25

If the dogs spend all day chasing each other around a massive garden, do they actually need walking?
If they're not getting enough running around even so, surely she could play fetch in their own garden rather than going to the park (most people wouldn't have the space for this but actually a park is the same as a garden for these purposes - just a big green area to run around in).

Anyway, I agree with everyone else. You should mind your own business.

doggiemumma · 08/06/2012 13:28

but the dogs wont spend the day chasing around, they will be bored, they will eat and then generally lay down without stimulation. I dont think it is the end of the world if i dog isnt walked twice a day every day, but these are border collies, extremely intelligent and energetic dogs that need not only exercise but mental stimulation - she is being unfair to them

cherrypieplum · 08/06/2012 13:31

My dogs are not walked every day. It certainly wasn't the intention when we got them but life/work/studying/pregnancy has made it this way.

They manage on a large walk once or twice a week, running around the garden and playing with each other. They are in very good condition (vets always mention it), not destructive either.

doggiemumma · 08/06/2012 13:35

cherry, i get that but to never be walked is just not good enough, not for that breed. I will hold my hands up to not walking my dogs every day, well i have since we have had terrier #2 because he would climb the walls if he wasn't walked. My old rotties were happy with the weekend woodland jaunts as they were lazy fuckers.

cherrypieplum · 08/06/2012 14:47

We did pick two small dogs with minimal exercising needs. Wouldn't have dreamt of getting collies.

crossedwires · 08/06/2012 16:42

they are clearly not running around all day as they are overweight. I'm quite surprised at the relaxed nature of some comments on here given the amount of dog zealots on mn!

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crossedwires · 08/06/2012 16:46

i won't say anything, she's quite new to our company so don't reallty feel I can but i was shocked at how anyone can leave two BC's's home aone all day and then not walk them. She says she cant before work and that they pull Hmm. I don't know the dogs and they are quire probably well loved etc but i feel very sorry for them

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lambethlil · 08/06/2012 16:50

So do you just want a bun fight? Yeah, it's awfulHmm
I notice you haven't responded to any of the suggestions.

FunnysInLaJardin · 08/06/2012 16:52

none of your business.

TheMonster · 08/06/2012 16:53

Leave it alone. We have two dogs. They aren't walked every day.

CiderwithBuda · 08/06/2012 16:58

Well I have two labs who haven't been walked for months. Yes I feel guilty. They pull. I have shoulder problems. We completely got out of the habit.

We have a huge garden and regularly throw things for them and the do chase each other about and are be rally otherwise well cared for and happy.

I don't think the lack of walks is the biggest issue with your colleagues dogs though. More so the leaving alone all day.

crossedwires · 08/06/2012 17:50

the main suggestion seems to be leave well alone, so i will. I cannot offer help, I'm not in a position to. I would if i could though

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toboldlygo · 08/06/2012 17:55

I am a 'dog zealot' and have recently been very vocal on another thread about the importance of walking dogs every day and even I would advise leaving well alone. A friend, maybe, but trying to tackle a work colleague is just going to foster resentment - think about it, however nicely you put it you're going to be accusing her of neglecting the dogs.

RSPCA will not do anything if the dogs have food, water and shelter.

It's shit for the dogs but there you go.

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