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Had my first dog walking run in

35 replies

ChickensGoMeh · 05/02/2012 11:36

Just went over to the field with Jasper. Lots of dogs/kids playing, all having a lovely time. When it was time to leave, I stuck Jasper on his lead and started walking around the field to the pond. By the exit, there was a family building snowmen and their three dogs. One of the dogs had come over to Jasper earlier and was friendly, so didn't think anything of it. As we got closer, all three dogs ran over to us to say hello. I stood still, let them all sniff each other etc. The woman came stropping over, muttered something about my lead being dangerous and she didn't want her dogs to break a leg (have extendable lead, but lead was shortened). She then told me to walk off and her dogs would leave me. I raised my eyebrows at her tone, but walked on with Jas and the DC. Her dogs kept running around us, getting under foot etc. She stood blowing a whistle, which the dogs roundly ignored. I started walking around the pond, trying to get away tbh. Suddenly she's bellowing 'WAIT'. I kept walking, thinking surely that's a command for the dogs. But no. I am apparently meant to wait. She yells 'Excuse me!' which gets my attention, then yells again 'WAIT! I want my dogs back'. I was a bit pissed off at this stage and said 'Well, please come and get them'. She strode over and started trying to grab her dogs by the collars. They were having none of it. I told the DC to keep walking, and started to follow. Again I got 'WAIT. I need to get the leads on'. She was really, really arsey.

Me: Look, I'm just trying to walk my dog.
Her: You should have avoided us.
Me: I'm sorry, do you own the field now?
Her: No, but you could see we were there so why didn't you walk the other way?
Me: Because I was heading this way, your dogs were off lead so I assumed you had them under control. My dog is on a lead. I'm just walking with my DC.
Her: Well, everything was fine until you came along. And I'm just here with my DC too.
Me: Lovely attitude you have.
Her: You too.

And off she flounced with her dogs. Now, I'm trying to see where I went wrong here. Because my dog was on a lead. We ddn't walk through the middle of her snowman building team exercise, and she spoke to me like I was a vaguely stupid chimp. Do I earn special stripes now?

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TheMonster · 05/02/2012 18:41

Although if her dogs had come near mine (which have to be on leads) then her dogs would have been eaten and she wouldn't have had to bother getting their leads...

ChickensGoMeh · 05/02/2012 19:08

I really appreciate all of the replies. It got to me more than I liked to admit, so it's nice to know she was crackers Grin

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pipsy76 · 05/02/2012 19:22

Definitely crackers, how are you a random stranger responsible for the lack of recall of her dogs!!!!!!!!!!

pipsy76 · 05/02/2012 19:25

Sadly this will probablybe the first of many similar annoying encounters with other owners!

feesh · 05/02/2012 19:55

So she TOLD you to go away and then she TOLD you to wait and come back?

Jaysus. I am so glad that we left England.

ChickensGoMeh · 05/02/2012 20:03

Yep. I felt a bit like I should have stuck my tongue out and rolled on my back for a belly rub.

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Wolfiefan · 05/02/2012 20:08

I hope you got a biscuit when you did as you were told!

I think I would have just carried on walking and left her to it!! Your dog clearly under control and a shortened extended lead not dangerous IMO.

Hahahah ai Eeyore! "please come and get the remains of your dog"

Elibean · 05/02/2012 20:56

Posh, overly-entitled rude ones are the worst: and I totally agree with whoever said the more wrong they are, the worse they shout! She was clearly being defensive, Chickens, which proves she knew she was in the wrong.

Whatever you are left with (ie insecurity, shame, burning sense of injustice etc) its HERS. Chuck it back at her - mentally - and let yourself feel pissed off Smile

And if its any consolation, I found letting go of things like this nigh on impossible till I was at least 40 - so you have plenty of time Wink

Elibean · 05/02/2012 20:58

Forgot to say - if she's still in your head tonight when you go to bed, try the lake thing. Its an age-old letting-go technique - you stick the person/people you have in your head in the lake (whilst you sit comfortably with your back against a tree watching), say whatever you need to say to them (they are not allowed to speak or answer), and then let them be slowly swallowed up by the lake. Knowing they are not being harmed in any way, just taken away.

It really does work - daft as it may sound!

MissBetsyTrotwood · 05/02/2012 21:27

The politics of dog walking are much worse than those of child rearing imo. Agree with Elibean about that lake.

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