Pup has always been relatively calm. She doesn't have full run of the house but is kept in the kitchen with me and sleeps in a crate in the adjoining porch/utility room.
At home she is generally fine - the kids can escape from her if she is getting silly and she can escape from them (although they have been very good at understanding when to stop).
However we are struggling with being able to let her off lead. She gets walked every day by me (normally when the kids are in school she has a longer one, weekends it can be shorter if they come too). But most of these walks have to be on lead as although they are quiet country lanes, cars do come through fast. Or its by the river which is very fast and high at the moment and I am worried she may slip or jump in and be swept .
It has only been at the weekends that DH and the kids have been able to take her to the beach for an off lead run (whilst I work). The last two times though he has had problems - first time she ran off and wouldn't come back when called - she ran right off the beach into the car park, circled and then came back when she felt like it. This weekend she wouldn't come back to him when she was approaching a couple on the beach and also was being too boisterous with a smaller dog (she is a cocker spaniel). She also was jumping up at the kids and grabbed DSs arm (6.5years), bruising it through his coat and jumper :(
She also snapped at me when I was trying to remove a dishcloth from her mouth last week (though crowded round with mum and my DKs I'm not surprised).
We have been having some building work done recently which has meant more time in her crate - although I have been trying to give her more walks to compensate. She is also about 6.5months so maybe this is teenage phase hitting? My mum was also staying for several days and I know DD said mum was hitting the dog when she misbehaved so don't think this has helped either...
Had a lovely calm day with pup today - a nice long walk along the river after walking the kids to school, then about 5mins off lead in a field (before another dog came along who was on lead so thought I'd better put her back on) then home. She then settled in her crate (door shut) for an hour or so. Then some play in the kitchen whilst I worked on the laptop. Lunch, more play in the kitchen till she started wandering round aimlessly (which is her cue to go to bed normally). Another sleep in the crate, then now more mooching round the kitchen.
I do wonder if its DH that may be the difficulty, as her recall with me today was great. He has been with me (and instead of me when I broke my arm) to dog training several times but seems resistant to using treats for anything (e.g. recall, dropping stuff) and is more likely to shout at her, than to encourage her to come back! (he has been the same with the kids to be honest - positive rewards doesn't come naturally with him!)
Christmas is going to be tricky as we will be staying with my parents - they have an outside farm dog (collie) and my sister will also be there with her Border terrier (who normally lives indoors). Add into the mix a stressed mum (mine), several children (mine and 1y old nephew). I'm worried how pup is going to cope. Although where they live it will be easier to give pup off lead time as their yard is more secure than our garden. At least pup is used to her crate so I imagine she will be spending yet more time in there.....