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42 replies

Gemtubbs · 16/08/2011 07:26

Hello!

I feel in a bit of an awkward situation atm and wanted to get it off my chest and maybe get some advice.

My mum got a dog almost 2 years ago from a puppy. She is a Hungarian Puli. I do like animals and I wanted my mum to be happy, she always wanted a dog so badly. The problem is, it turns out that the dog is nasty. She's bitten loads of people and we're not cruel to her. My mum cares for her really well, she gets 2 walks a day and lots of love and attention. My mum is home with her all of the time so she's hardly ever left on her own.

She bit me because she stole a flapjack from my 3yr old DS, and I took it back off of her. My dh was playing with her last night a game of "find the ball", and he was not winding her up in any way, but when he went to pick up the ball she bit him. She'll lie in the middle of the floor and then bite you and growl at you if you walk too close to her. She jumps up at everyone. She bit the hairdresser last night. The lady is nervous of dogs and I think that the dog sensed that and bit her.

My problem is that my mum still thinks that the sun shines out of her dog's arse and doesn't see an issue. I would now rather just go to my mum's house and keep out of the dog's way, and the dog keep out of my way. I think that she should put a muzzle on her, the type where they can still open their mouth, but so that she can't get at people. I said this to my mum, but she didn't seem to like the idea or feel it was necessary.

If you're a dog owner, and you have people come over to your house whom you know are nervous of dogs, do you keep the dog out of the way? Is that not only fair?

Sorry for the long post, I'm just worried that the dog is going to bite my DS and I have another baby on the way soon. I don't want to fall out with my mum about it, but the dog just makes me want to stop going round to her house.

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HermioneRocks · 16/08/2011 22:38

Joins others in strange category

HermioneRocks · 16/08/2011 22:45

Ps DBF did you used to be someone else? As I used to be someone else too lol, a certain type of princess in fact and had been looking for you! (only to say hello)

DogsBestFriend · 16/08/2011 22:58

Um... have I told you about my pet ferret, Hermione? Wink

Limejelly · 16/08/2011 23:06

I must just have an unusually smelly dog!!

HermioneRocks · 16/08/2011 23:09

DBF umm I am not sure but I think so and I think we crossed paths on another doggy related forum a little while ago. I have two Rhodesian Ridgebacks. I thought you had run away from The Doghouse and I was Sad because I love the advice you give.

HermioneRocks · 16/08/2011 23:10

But if it's not you and some-one else has the same writing style I will feel really Blush

DogsBestFriend · 16/08/2011 23:18

Ah! I think I know you now! I certainly recall a poster with 2 Ridgebacks.

(I'm was Vall here previously, btw!)

coccyx · 16/08/2011 23:19

i love my Dane sleeping on my bed. great water bottle

HermioneRocks · 16/08/2011 23:22

Ah good I am not going mad, I was TroubledPrincess and I thought you had gone then I kept seeing posts from DBF found myself agreeing with them then thinking hmm is this Vall or not. Yes and now I am in the "strange" corner with you as both my ridgebacks share my bed! Sorry for the thread hijack Gemtubbs

Gemtubbs · 02/03/2012 21:10

Hello. This was a while ago but I just thought that I would say thank you for all of your advice everyone because things are much better now. Since I have been just ignoring the dog and not touching her or interacting with her in any way, things have been fine. Maybe it's because we spend less time with the doggy, maybe it's just because she's grown up a bit but we haven't had any problems with aggression for quite a while. Thank you for your help. : )

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Flatbread · 02/03/2012 21:29

Of course you should be able to take things off dogs!!! That is a basic part of training. I can take anything off my dog, whether it is her favorite toy, bone, her dinner bowl, whatever.

She is very well trained and I just say 'give' and she will drop whatever she has in her mouth for me. No issues. Never a growl, even if sometimes she has a really sad expression when she gives up her new found piece of precious rubbish from the field Grin

Flatbread · 02/03/2012 21:41

Gem, just saw your update. it is sad that the only way you feel safe with the dog is by avoiding any interaction with it.

I do think it has been badly trained and while things seem ok on the surface, the aggression is still there...

ChickensHaveNoLips · 02/03/2012 21:43

But you trained your dog, Flatbread, as I'm doing with mine (except we say 'drop it'). You don't just randomly snatch things from her. I think that's the issue. If the dog hasn't been shown that giving something up = praise/more good things, then they're going to want to hang on to the treasure. Jasper made off with a duvet of naan bread last night, and it took several 'drop it's and a cocktail sausage to get it back Grin It went in the bin, mind.

Flatbread · 02/03/2012 22:33

True, Chicken. But I think a lot of my dog's willingness to share is because she knows her place in the hierarchy.

For example, most nights she gets a bone to chew at night, and when the noise of her gnawing drives me crazy, I sleepily get up and take it way. No praise, no alternative goodie. She just sighs and goes to sleep.

I think she is non-possessive, not because she thinks she will be rewarded for it, but just sees it as a natural part of being a dog. As far as I can recall, she is like that with all humans. But with our neighbour dog and best buddy, it is a different matter, a constant quest to get what the other wants and then taunt them Grin

Flatbread · 02/03/2012 22:36

The thing is, if any of my friend's dogs growled at me, I would be pissed off and would expect my friend to correct the dog. If they don't, I will do it myself as I will be very uncomfortable around a dog who is aggressive

Flatbread · 02/03/2012 22:37

Chicken, you have more self control than us, i suspect my dh would have eaten the naan Grin

ChickensHaveNoLips · 03/03/2012 10:06

Grin I saw DH look at it with longing, and the idea went through his head, but there was drool....

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