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Dog walking etiquette tips please dos and don'ts

45 replies

Asinine · 12/05/2011 13:55

My new lab pup is not able to go on proper walks yet, as waiting for his second jab, and also too little to walk far. I am new to dog owning and after reading another thread about 'ball stealing' I realise I don't know the unwritten rules of interacting with other dogs and people in the street, park or elsewhere.

So what do I need to know?

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ExitPursuedByALamb · 12/05/2011 13:59

The main thing is that if another dog is on a lead, not to let your dog approach it. That of course will be an impossibility if your puppy is off the lead, but he will learn the hard way - like my spaniel who now has dog on dog aggression as a result of being 'told off' by older dogs when he was a cheerful bouncy puppy. Letting your dog run up to a restrained dog whilst saying "Oh don't worry, he won't do anything" does not mean the other dog won't. It is on a lead for a reason.

Good luck. Aren't puppies hard work.

Asinine · 12/05/2011 14:03

Thank for that EPBL- your name makes me think of a nativity play Grin

He is hard work, but super gorgeous, so I don't mind. He will already sit, come, down and fetch, and asks to go out at night. He is only 8 weeks. The crate is a great invention.

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ExitPursuedByALamb · 12/05/2011 14:17

I know - I loved the crate when he was a puppy.

He may come now, but just wait until you are out in the big wide world Grin

Still wearing my Easter name - must get round to changing it back.

dickcheeseandthecrackers · 12/05/2011 14:20

You probably won't have any issue as you have a lovely lab, but I always walk my GSD so he's on my side to the fence/road when walking past children or worried looking people. He would never bite or anything but so many people are scared of bigs dogs I don't want to make them worse.

Yes never let your dog run up to dogs on leads. Frustrating for everyone.

Asinine · 12/05/2011 14:24

Exit. Yes he only comes because he knows I might have a treat or a game, but I'm sure it will be harder when there are more distractions, like other dogs and other people's balls

No, that type of balls- the ones on the other ball stealing thread Grin

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Avantia · 12/05/2011 14:53

Bouncy young labs are not everybodys idea of fun - I have a 10 month lab who is getting alot better but needs a lot of distraction once she has spotted another dog. Labs just want to play and play and play.....

The big wide world with all its smells and other dogs will be alot differnt from your back garden - keep with the recall and up the rewards went out.

Always be polite - nothing worse than a grumpy dog owner .

Acanthus · 12/05/2011 14:59

Teach children not to touch a dog unless they have checked with the owner - "my dog is friendly and likes children to stroke him but you should always ask the owner before you do, some dogs don't like it and they might growl or bite".

Scuttlebutter · 12/05/2011 15:00

Almost goes without saying, but never leave the house without a plentiful supply of poo bags. You will find that after a while every single handbag, coat or jacket you own will have its own little supply. Grin Handy also to have a stash in the car. Not so much etiquette, but we also keep wet wipes in the car, a spare towel (in a deluded attempt to keep them less dirty), bottled water and a bowl for drinking, and a few spare treats. We also keep a spare collar and lead as we've met lost dogs once or twice while we've been out and it's always handy to catch them with as well as being handy to have your own spare.

Other points to remember are that although it's nice to be sociable with other dog walkers, the point of the exercise is to keep an eye on your dog at all times and not to be distracted by an interesting conversation or a mobile phone chat. Keep calls brief and keep your eyes peeled. Labs are notorious hoovers, and since so many park users (especially in the summer) are messy sods, you will often see discarded food items. These can be dangerous (e.g. grapes, cooked chicken portions) so it's important you stay aware of potential hazards.

Letting your dog chase or bark at cyclists, runners or horses is a complete no no.

Also a no is your dog invading a picnic, stealing food from a child. Generally, it's better not to walk your dogs in graveyards, war memorials and inside fenced children's play areas - these are often dog ban areas anyway but be sensitive. Find out what if any Dog Control Orders/dog bans are active in your area and dog policies in nearby Forestry commission areas etc. Be aware of the importance of not letting dogs off lead around livestock and during bird nesting season if you walk in countryside.

Jumping up at either children or any other pedestrian is a no. You may think (in fact, know Grin) that your dog is the most adorable creature in the world but that does not mean that other people should be bounced on, have muddy pawprints over clean clothes, or be knocked over (especially for elderly/frail people).

If other dog owners have their dogs on a lead, and if they take avoiding action when they see you , it is not personal. If you see any dog owner giving you a wide berth, respect this and don't let your dog bound over to "make friends" - this will not be the phrase the other dog owner will be muttering under their breath. This is doubled if the other dog is wearing a muzzle - dogs wear these for a reason - no need to be paranoid, but again, give a wide berth until you know differently.

Generally, you'll establish a pattern of dog walking at a certain time and favourite places and you'll quickly get to know other "regulars" and their dogs. This can be very helpful and you will probably make some wonderful friends. However, if you find the place you go is too crowded, unpleasant for any reason or just downright dodgy then don't hesitate to go somewhere else. Your walk is meant to be (and often will be) the highlight of the day for both you and your dog - life is too short to be stressed, threatened and miserable.

Asinine · 12/05/2011 15:58

Wow. A lot of replies already, thanks to everyone so far, especially Scuttle who could write a nice book on dog walking Grin

I shall print this thread out and stick in on the fridge. It's not obvious if you haven't had dogs or come from a doggy family.

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JaxTellersOldLady · 12/05/2011 16:06

Think Skuttle has covered everything.

My advice is get yourself a long line (30foot or 50foot) and USE it. It is fantastic for recall and gives your dog a bit of freedom to run around (but not yet, too young) while giving you a bit of control and knowledge that the dog cant run off.

I love puppies... especially when they are someone elses! Grin

Asinine · 12/05/2011 16:10

Is a long line a lead or something else?

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Asinine · 12/05/2011 16:11

Waiting for non dog owning replies as we are on most active Smile

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Avantia · 12/05/2011 16:41

Watch out for horse poo ! Labs love it and not just for rolling in . Expect some weird poos when they start exploring their new world - surprising what they quickly gobble up !

Instead of a nappy bag in the car I now have a doggy bag with all the items that Scuttle mentioned .

also invest in a bum bag to keep treats , poo bags , toy for when you actually are walking .

Remember with a lab not too much exercise - 5 mins for each month of life - proone to hip problems . They will get alot of exercise when they play with you in the garden.

Asinine · 12/05/2011 16:46

I have a bum bag from when I had a Walkman Grin

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Scuttlebutter · 12/05/2011 17:44

Blush Sorry, I appear to have written War and Peace.

misschenko · 12/05/2011 17:48

agree with advice about long line, recently got a 50ft one for my 8 month lab and it's fantastic for training recall in open spaces, can see results already wish i'd got it months ago. It's very light and doesn't get tangled up if I just leave it trailing along behind him. If I see him about to head off into the distance after another dog I put my foot on the line and recall him.

JaxTellersOldLady · 12/05/2011 17:52

or even scuttle sorry scuttlebutter.

this

is a long line.

PeelingmyselfofftheCeiling · 12/05/2011 17:55

Develop the skin of a rhino and the temperament of the Dalai Lama.

Sometimes you will do everything you can and you will still upset someone. Water... ducks back...

Sometimes you will be totally in the wrong and upset someone. Be gracious, apologise, and learn from the experience.

Sometimes you will meet people who don't have a bloody clue and still claim to be upset with you in some parallel universe where it's your fault. Water.. ducks back...

DooinMeCleanin · 12/05/2011 17:59

Watch out for joggers who like dogs but lack brains. I know one who coos at my dogs when he jogs past. My dogs are a terrier and a whippet, they are built to chase fast moving things

Always make sure you tell any approaching children they must always ask the dog owner and their parents if it's okay before petting a dog they don't know. Congratulate children who do ask. Don't be afraid to say no if you or pup do not feel like putting up with sticky fingers that day.

Most importantly enjoy your walks.

purplepidjin · 12/05/2011 18:07

Watch out for me walking my bunny in my local park Grin

I keep a very close eye out for dogs, especially working breeds, because it's not something I expect a dog-owner to have trained for!

PeelingmyselfofftheCeiling · 12/05/2011 18:08

Wow purple, do you have him on a lead, or do you have bunny recall? Grin

purplepidjin · 12/05/2011 19:35

I have him on a harness. He's 11 weeks so still friendly and cute - I'm trying to socialise him lots so he stays that way.

Hoping for the first pat bunny as I lost my nearly-pat cat recently

Booboostoo · 12/05/2011 22:06

In my opinion you need to find a safe place (or a number of different safe places ideally) and let the puppy off the lead as often as possible. Very young puppies are highly unlikely to run away into the big scary world and this is the time to teach them a good recall. Arm yourself with plenty of yummy treats (tiny pieces of sausage, chicken, ham, etc. remember to adjust the puppy's food accordingly) and reward the puppy anytime it's near you. Often bend over pop two finger's under the puppy's collar, treat and release (this teaches them to accept your control over them (invaluable for safety reasons) and that not every recall will result in being put back on the lead). Also play the recall game in your back garden, i.e. two people stand at a small distance from each other and take it in turns to call the puppy and reward it for coming ("Puppy come" said in your happiest, squeekiest voice, two fingers under the collar while other hand gives treat, release, the other person repeats). Having a good recall is one of the most important parts of dog training and a poor recall is the source of a lot of hearache later on!

I would only use a long line to correct a recall problem, not for normal walking. Aside from anything else they are very long and can end up wrapped around other people, objects etc. so you need to use them in an area with no one else around. Beware of flexi leads, they have their uses, but always remember they can extend and your puppy won't know the difference between, for example, the side walk and the road.

peggotty · 12/05/2011 22:13

Pleeeeeeasssse, don't let him bound up to clearly terrified children and trill 'Oh he won't hurt you, dont worry he's loooooovvvelly' etc etc.

PrinceHumperdink · 12/05/2011 22:18

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