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Want a dog, NOT a puppy....

42 replies

loveverona · 28/04/2011 14:42

Anyone know where I can buy a Cavalier King Charles dog/bitch, rather than a puppy?

Tried local rescue places (my preference) but they don't often come up.

Anyone an experience of www.preloved.co.uk?

Is it worth trying breeders - do they sometimes sell dogs when they no longer need them for breeding?

Thank you!

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DooinMeCleanin · 01/05/2011 02:11

FFS do not encourage the tossers. Plus wtf is savvy? You have kids in the house, yes?

I am dog savvy. I was raised with dogs. My father bought me a doberman when I was 3 years old and I have not been without a dog since.

I thought I was 'savvy' enough to chose a dog from the pound, under the advise of my father, who has also owned dogs before he could he walk. He had a tame squirell once and semi tame badger. He's like the fucking animal whisperer.

I took him to the pound. I spent almost an hour with my terrier. He did all the right things. His body language to the dc was spot on. Happy, tail wagging, rolled over for his belly rubbed, no lip licking, no nervousness. Just a happy, excited terrier.

We had two weeks with the perfect dog. Then we met The Devil Dog, his true self.

He has bit me. He has snapped at my youngest child. He has bit DH. He attempted to savage my father. He thought the cat was supper. He was not toilet trained in the slightest. He was not leash trained. He was not socialised. To be perfectly honest the first 6 months with him was a fucking nightmare. I have spent a fortune on trainers and behaviouralists. I gave every ounce of energy and time I had to help him. We are getting somewhere. I still don't trust him within spitting distance of my youngest child unless I am there.

If that's the sort of dog you want, go to pre-loved. No-one gives away their pets if they are truely loved without a reason.

And thats without mentioning the health reasons people re-home their 'pre-loved' pets for. You could be taking on a walking goldmine for your vet. The people giving you the dog aren't going to tell you that.

Devil Dog is the whole package. He has behavioural issues and a skin conditon that requires constant vet care and a special diet.

I love my dogs. I would remorgate my house to pay for their care if I had to. You'd have to kill me before I advertised them on the internet for a stranger to take care of.

ditavonteesed · 01/05/2011 08:27

if this women is so lovely and genuine why is she selling her dogs on preloved, where they could end up with anyone, sdhe doesnt know who you are, you dont know who she is. there are 2 ways to safely get a dog, as a puppy from a reputabe breeder or from a rescue. please do not buy a dog off pre loved, everytime I see an advert I think that dog is stolen tbh.

loveverona · 01/05/2011 10:19

Thanks guys, for bashing some sense into me! I have to say, the thought that is constantly in the back of my mind is, if you had to get rid of your dogs because you were working more hours (as she is) you can't really love them that much, surely? I know what it's like to have dogs and you fall in love with them and would do anything to keep them if you came up against a difficult situation.

I know there's no way I could get rid of any dog, unless it was a threat to my kids, and even then I'd go to much better places than a website.

I'm sure there are some very genuine and honest people out there, but I wish they would go about rehoming in a more sensible way.

I've contacted a few local KC reg breeders, so will see what comes of that.

I won't be getting the preloved dog, gorgeous as he looks.

Thanks for all your advice. x

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silentcatastrophe · 01/05/2011 12:04

Our newest dog is off Gumtree. We met him at his house and introduced our dogs to him before we took it further. I think he could have gone to anyone and I Think the family he was at were not prepared to look after a young dog. He bolts. It is a nightmare having no control over a dog at all. I have felt like shooting him. He has lived to see another day because I phoned a behaviourist to see what I was doing so wrong (I also don't have a gun[chmm]. It is a great sadness that people think they can take dogs back. If as many people tried to put their children back where they came from or rehome them in the same way people rehome dogs, there would be an outrage.

If you are going to get a dog, it is really important to have the kind of backup you trust.

If you like this preloved dog a lot, ask them why they are not going through the breed rehoming places or rescue. KCS are known for their health problems. The problems are bred into the dogs so they look the way they do. Do you remember the programme on telly last year about it? If you are going to a breeder, do you think they will have taken heed? The Kennel Club took a real bashing for seemingly condoning inbreeding, incest and a host of castastrophich health problems. Old habits die hard.

Of course there are a lot of sensible and responsible breeders out there. I expect someone here might post and give you questions to ask. It sounds like a helll of a lot of red tape to cut through just to get a dog!!

RumourOfAHurricane · 01/05/2011 17:58

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loveverona · 01/05/2011 19:12

Main reason is that I just don't want the work involved in the first few months of having a new puppy. It's like having another baby temporarily and I already have enough of those! I have one 2yr old to toilet train this year, work from home and with two other kids and a cat, I'm not sure I'm up for the added work that a puppy would involve.

I know, there is a certain amount of work in having a dog at any age or stage, but if the basics are done, eg house trained, basic training, etc and we get the right dog, things would hopefully settle more quickly, although I realise with rescue there is no guarantee of this.

Or am I being totally naive about the work having a dog involves....we had dogs from when I was 5yrs until I left home at 18, so feel I know as much as I could from that point of view. Or perhaps you think I'm panicking about what's involved with having a puppy and think it is more than it actually is?

hmmmm.....sorry this is getting a bit boring now!

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loveverona · 01/05/2011 19:18

Sorry that may have sounded terribly lazy! I don't mean I want someone to do all the basics for me. I suppose I'm just afraid that it would all be too much to take on and I wouldn't want that to be the case for me, my family or the dog.

Just think that an adult dog would be slightly less excitable/bouncy and therefore a bit easier to handle, especially KCS. Hope that makes sense!

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musicposy · 01/05/2011 21:00

Did you go any further with silky? I was thinking lab/whippet - she is very pretty.

loveverona · 01/05/2011 21:18

Hi music posy. No I didn't in the end as the rescue place remembered she didn't like cats and we have one. Shame as she is very pretty and seems perfect in other respects. Ho well, we shall see...

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musicposy · 01/05/2011 22:07

I'm sure the right dog will come along - but it's frustrating waiting. I think this is why people go to places like preloved - it's easy (and therein lies the problem IMO). I checked it out when friend got collie and I was pretty appalled. Some of the ads on there would break your heart. One advertiser living near to us said "getting rid of because son has taken a dislike to him". WTF???!!! Poor animals. Sad

Anyhow, hope you find the right dog soon.

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loveverona · 02/05/2011 00:42

Oh GOD I'm sooooo tempted! They are just the most adorable little things. shineon that sounds wonderful. Which breeder did you get yours from? Any advice when choosing?

So do you leave her already in the day when you work, or have you taken some time off? How does it work from that side of things?

Sorry so many questions!

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RumourOfAHurricane · 02/05/2011 00:59

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B0ff · 02/05/2011 21:50

how much did you pay for the pup, Shiney?

I would like one, but have heard they can be pricey.

RumourOfAHurricane · 03/05/2011 23:45

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loveverona · 04/05/2011 14:44

I'm having a bloody nightmare now! Sorry just need to vent a little here as I'm having an odd day. So, yesterday spoke to the lady who runs our local CKC rescue register asking if they had any adult dogs in. None of course. But she gave me the number of a breeder (KC reg, shows, etc) who'd been running on an 8mth old black/tan male possibly to show. They've decided they are going to show his sis instead so will be giving him up.

She said he's a fabulous, very steady dog, eye clear, fully vacc'd. When I said we had 3 kids and a cat, she said he'd be great, he's 'bomb proof' Grin! Just the kind of dog we need. Very used to going to the look outside, just needs a bit of lead training. No probs, sounds perfect.

He's £550 Shock!! But I know he's coming from great stock and a reputable breeder, which is of cousre so important.

The reason I'm having an odd day is that I'm flitting between being really excited - I work form home (only when LO sleeps), pick kids up, generally go out locally as a family so it wouldn't be left for hours at anypoint and we could take dog with us, look forward to walks, etc - and being terrified that it's going to be too much.

Help, someone tell me everything will be OK.....!

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loveverona · 04/05/2011 14:45

Sorry, going to the 'loo' outside...!

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