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Just a Staffy Cross.

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NewYearNewKnickersOnMyHead · 29/12/2010 14:09

This is not mine but wanted to share...hopefully will make people think. It has me sobbing my heart out.

Today is just another day - to me they're all the same
I have the worst of genes you see, I bear the "Staffy" shame.
The shame is in our numbers, there's thousands with no home.
Thousands just like me you'll find, in kennels all alone.
My mum was "just a Staffy", my father - well who knows?
Mum, too, became unwanted, as the last puppy goes.
And then begins the process, of money-making deals
A life of "moving on" unfolds, who cares how the Staffy feels?
If you have the cash to hand, the Staffy pup is yours

But that pup is getting bigger now, just look at those big paws.
You brought me for your image, thought I'd make you look more tough
But you'll find my boisterous nature has already got too much.
If you had thought to train me, with kindness and with praise
You would have had a faithful friend to share your darkest days.
I would lay down my life for you, but you simply cannot see
You make sure you get your money back on what you paid for me.

And on it goes, until one day, I'm no longer worth a dime
The retail on an adult staff - not worth the waste of time.
So what happens to a Staffy now? Do you really want to know?
Do you care what will become of us, when we leave our final home?
Have you ever thought to wonder, "Where is that Staffy now?"
The "Staffy" has another name; he's become a "stray" somehow.
Me, I was put into a car and driven far away

The door held open, I jumped out, I thought to run and play.
It was with joy and happy heart I turned to look for you
You drove away with all my trust and a piece of my heart too.
I wondered round for many days before I was brought here.
Now I wait with heavy heart, trepidation and with fear.
Seven days is all I have you see, seven days for you to claim
The little dog that you threw out, for which you have no shame.
This is my last goodbye now my seven days are up
If only more thought had gone into the future of that pup
As the needle empties to my veins I lay down with one last sigh
I'm sorry I was born a Staffy, because it means that I must die.

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ILoveItWhenYouCallMeBoo · 29/12/2010 21:42

toughas that is so sad and so infuriating. it hurts to know there is a mother for those dogs out there somewhere probably being abused.

Toughasoldboots · 29/12/2010 21:52

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magnolia74 · 29/12/2010 22:01

Well i would have cried at that anyway but after 2 glassses oif wine I am now blubbering uncontrollably Sad

My dog Jessie is a 6 yr old staff cross springer and although not a rescue she does have issues (hates other dogs, really submisive = peeing herself when strange men come round, running for cover when a voice is raised) But she is the most loving dog to me/dh/kids and I would die for her!!!

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NewYearNewKnickersOnMyHead · 29/12/2010 22:18

If I was in Kent I would Sad

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NewYearNewKnickersOnMyHead · 29/12/2010 23:08

I'm mad arnt I.....I am seriously considering adopting another.

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NewYearNewKnickersOnMyHead · 30/12/2010 00:55

No no, Kent is way too far for me to travel to anyway.

It's the poem Sad Even if I could just save one more...

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pawsnclaws · 30/12/2010 16:23

Our local paper this week has the story of a 6 month old Staffie called Lottie - found starving and shivering in a park just before Christmas. Unfortunately due to a leg injury that hadn't healed she has had to have one leg amputated.

She is white and looks absolutely gorgeous in the photo! If anyone is seriously considering rehoming a dog she is at the Blue Cross animal centre at Kimpton Bottom near Harpenden.

NewYearNewKnickersOnMyHead · 31/12/2010 09:52

I do not know how some people can live with themselves, I honestly don't. It is so sad.

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LotteryWinnersOnAcid · 01/01/2011 19:34

I have read this before too and it always makes me cry.

I can't imagine life without my staffies. Or staffies in general, in fact. They are such wonderful dogs and they suffer such injustice.

crispycake · 02/01/2011 13:27

:( god how sad. I was in tears reading that.

Me and my 10 year old staffy are cuddled up on the sofa together. She is wonderful, loving, kind, loyal oh how i could go on.
She is my baby and i love her so much.

Its just so sad and makes me angry :(

Vallhala · 02/01/2011 14:08

Glad to know there is support for Staffies out there because this one needs it.

"URGENT TEMPORARY FOSTER HOME NEEDED for 7 month old staff bitch, currently located in Merseyside. She is being forced to sleep in a crate in a car overnight! Is in need of training, thanks to currently being owned by brainless morons. Rescue space offered but not able to take her yet."

Please contact me if you can help.

DooinMeCleanin · 02/01/2011 14:28

Oh bless. She is just a pup. How can people be so cruel??? Xmas Angry I lost my Staffy pup at a similar age and she was still very much at the cute, playful puppy stage.

I'd love to offer to help, purely because I couldn't bear to think of my own puppy having to spend the first crucial months of her life like that.

But I probably can't as

a) I am probably too far away
b) The Devil Dog behaves like a nutter when he meets a new dog - I know he is just far too excited and does not wish to eat the new dog, but that's not what it looks like from the outside
c) I have a cat
d) I have two young children
e) I have not been home checked yet.

If all of that does not exclude me I'd be more than happy to offer this pup a home for the time being. It will help ease DH into fostering anyway, as I still plan on starting that very soon. Just a soon as Devil Dog is better socialised, training is starting again next week conentrating on his attitude to other dogs.

Vallhala · 02/01/2011 15:16

I followed up the appeal with the OP after I'd posted, Dooin (cos I'm a prat and didn't think to check detail before!!) and have found that she has a high chase instinct owing to being untrained although she isn't in any way nasty, just a chasing pup, so needs to be in an environment where she hasn't another dog/cats/children to hack after.

Bless ya though... your card is marked, I'm keping you in mind now....! :o

DooinMeCleanin · 02/01/2011 15:22

Ah yes I remember that chasing instinct all too well. Stafford pups are, ime, a little whirlwind of muscle and destruction. Very fun though Grin

BaroqinAroundTheChristmasTree · 02/01/2011 15:32

awwww

exH looked after a friends Staffy for a couple of months recently. He was gorgeous. Quite young still I think (owner had been forced to move and had ended up somewhere that wouldn't accept pets so exH looked after him.

Even DS3 who is a bit nervous around dogs (just his age I think DS2 and 1 were the same at that age) loved him.

I was quite Sad when I found that Hectors owner had found a new home that would let her have him back.

activate · 02/01/2011 15:34

went to dog rescue today - nothing but staffie and staffie crosses apart from one doberman and a couple of terriers

still don't want one though but I feel bad that I don't

DooinMeCleanin · 02/01/2011 15:39

Dobermans are also lovely lovely dogs. I was almost raised by a doberman/greyhound x. She was like one of the children. The neighbourhood children used to knock on the door and ask if Shera could come out and play. Don't knock back dogs based on breed alone. Breed means nothing, it's part down to the individual dog and part down to training/good ownership. Breed is irrelevent (apart from when it comes to the staffy smile - no other breed could quite beat that, melts your heart everytime).

activate · 02/01/2011 16:37

sorry but breed means temperement, intelligence and the way that dog looks - I want a family dog that looks the way I imagined it to look - soft and fluffy not muscly and scary so I think breed is important

don't care if it's a mongrel that looks soft and fluffy of course

and yes I know staffies are good with kids but they look scary to me

DooinMeCleanin · 02/01/2011 18:19

Breed doesn't always indicate temprement you know. I have known soft as mud Rotties, agressive Labradors and slightly dim Terriers before.

The Whippet I have atm would be as useful at a hunt as a goldfish.

LotteryWinnersOnAcid · 02/01/2011 19:24

"sorry but breed means temperement, intelligence and the way that dog looks"

Oh yeah, activate, on what planet? Because on my planet, my friend's soft, fluffy family labrador bites strangers, hates kids and acts more like a diva than a dog. Whereas my big, scary, muscular staffy boy thinks he's a lapdog, likes nothing more than a good cuddle - preferably by a small child who wants to play as much as he does, and lets our family guinea pig nibble his collar as they sit together on the sofa.

They look scary?! Have you never seen a soppy staffy smile? I dare you to spend a week with a staffy and come back and tell me they are scary.

Your attitude is ignorant.

Vallhala · 02/01/2011 19:32

Funnily enough I wouldn't leave my own Lab with activate's kids either... but I would have trusted my late Staffie cross to sleep beside their cots without hesitation.

But hey, what do I know about Staffies compared to those clever people in Fleet Street? I and my kids only interact with scores of them in rescue, why believe a word I say!

TheBlessedVirginReality · 02/01/2011 19:39

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