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Our puppy has been born - now beginning to think about training etc - advise please :-)

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saintlydamemrsturnip · 11/09/2010 22:22

I know many on here prefer rescues (we always had rescues when I grew up) but we have gone for a puppy for a very specific reason. My eldest son (11) is severely autistic and we want to train the dog to be a therapy (rather than service) dog. Also he can be suddenly very loud and I felt it wasn't fair to expose an older dog to that suddenly. We did look at rescue pups but they seem pretty hard to find and I wanted to choose a dog that would find retrieving instinctual (will make the therapy training easier). We also have 2 younger sons (8 and 5). We've gone for a golden retriever.

He was born this week - have seen some photos and he is gorgeous.

The breeder is excellent - she plays a CD of noises to the litter to desensitise them to fireworks etc and she has offered to play a load of ds1's noises to the litter as well. If there's anything else anyone can think of that she might be able to do to help the puppy's transition please let me know. She does start to crate train the dogs which I think will be useful for us as it will give the puppy a safe quiet space to be away from the children- who will be taught to respect that space.

Training wise I'll start with puppy classes obviously (any advice on finding a good class welcomed) and will take socialisation seriously. Also recall is extremely important to us (can't have the dog going in one direction and ds1 in another) so the basics are obviously the first step. Next spring we're going on a dogs for the disabled course but I was wondering whether anyone had any other suggestions.

I guess I might need to find a 1:1 trainer to help me train the puppy in retrieval (around which a therapy can be built - good fun for the puppy/dog and all the kids as well). But how do I find a decent trainer?

Anyway very excited. We've seen some photos of the litter and they're gorgeous.

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saintlydamemrsturnip · 11/09/2010 22:24

first he is should be they are - obviously don't know which is ours yet :) We have first choice of the males so any advice on choosing a puppy what to look for etc would be good as well).Temperament is the most important thing for us.

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kid · 11/09/2010 22:28

I got a trainer through a friends recommendation. You could ask at your local vets to see if they know of any. My vet also run their own puppy class but I have already signed up elsewhere.

To help your pups transition to your house, could you leave a bed there for him so he can get used to your smell but also bring his litter mates smell with him when he leaves them.

For recall training, I purchased a very long training lead (50ft!) and as soon as our puppy was allowed out, we let him go on that. As a result, his recall is perfect at just 14 weeks old. I wouldn't trust him near a road, but in parks around other dogs and people he is super and I honestly believe it was because we let him off so soon. Without the training lead, I would never have been brave enough to let him off. (We got it from Ebay)

What area are you in?

kid · 11/09/2010 22:29

I was sent a very good check list on how to chose a pup. I'll have a look to see if I can locate it.

saintlydamemrsturnip · 11/09/2010 22:30

The breeder sends home a blanket with the puppy for the litter smell (she really is very good- I do feel confident buying from her).

Thanks for the long lead tip- I was looking at them in Pets At Home today wondering about them.

We're in the south west. I will talk to our vets (we have cats - luckily so does the breeder!) - they did seem fairly switched on.

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kid · 11/09/2010 22:31

The golden rules when choosing a puppy from a litter:
(Excerpts reproduced by kind permission of John Rogerson)

Always take the entire family with you to choose your puppy

Ask to see the bitch/mother away from the puppies at first, to see how she interacts with people. If she is aggressive or shows signs of anything you are unsure of, you should not buy a puppy from the litter.

Always encourage the puppies to come to you, don?t leap straight in and grab them

If any of the puppies will not come to you, ignore them and do not take that puppy home

If any of the bolder puppies try to push their way in for attention, also ignore them and do not select one of these. If any of the puppies start to growl at another littermate to try to get your attention, do not choose that one either. These are what would be classified as headstrong and would not be recommended as a family pet. Do not be persuaded by the breeder, the choice is yours and you will have to live with this dog for 10-15yrs.

Ask the breeder to remove the ones that you have decided are too pushy or too shy so that you are left with just a few to choose from

Now that you have reduced your choice down to two or three puppies you can pick the one that you like the look of

Never be tempted to take 2 puppies from the same litter home with you, as playmates or to keep each other company. This usually only leads to problems as the puppies grow up and to be honest, you and your family should be enough for your puppy.

saintlydamemrsturnip · 11/09/2010 22:31

thanks kid :)

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Vallhala · 11/09/2010 22:40

May I suggest that you post this on the Chat part of the DogPages forum? I say this as they have hundreds of members from all over the UK and members there will quite possibly be able to give a local recommendation. DogPages is less of a forum for just dog owners but is rescue-orientated so the members are very knowledgable and caring (not saying that plain dog owners aren't but that these members include many experts).

Likewise one of your local rescues might be able to recommend someone - even if they don't have anyone particular in mind their volunteers probably will. They won't bite you because you didn't choose a rescue dog and will be happy to help a lovely, responsible owner.

For all I'm of the "adopt, don't buy" mindset, I can see entirely why you made the choice you have (not that you need my flaming approval! :o ). I hope that it all goes wonderfully well and that your new family member is a joy and a great help to you all.

saintlydamemrsturnip · 11/09/2010 22:45

Thanks vallhala- I will do, although not tonight as I have to go to bed now - three households of kitties to feed in the morning (I'm a pet sitter but don't really offer a dog service as I don't have the time to give them what they need as I also work- all the doggy pet sitting experts I know are in the US, I need to hook up with some UK)!

I do think he'll fit in well. The younger 2 boys are very excited.

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