Hi all, how is everyone?
Up and down here. Crating overnight is going mostly well, with the pup going down 11pm is, then up 1am and through to 7am ish. Am trying to gradually extend the time by bringing the 1am wee earlier and earlier. Sleep deprivation is kicking in..
I think as part of that it's getting a bit fraught between DH and me re the dog. I asked him to take over for a few hours this evening so I could get on with some stuff in the house, while DH was doing stuff in the garden. But because he had chemicals etc out he had to put the pup in his room while he worked... and then didn't take him out. So I came down to find puddles, great.
Then I took pup out into garden before/after dinner, and he was massively playing up - chewing or tugging the lead, or running away/ignoring me off the lead. Cue lots of tears from me - at feeling let down by DH, and chained to the dog's bladder timetable, which still seems pretty erratic!
Tell me it gets easier?! I went for a walk yesterday with the pup and he was bouncing over everyone he met, licking them and wagging his tail and generally looking utterly adorable if a bit over enthusiastic. I was enjoying myself until we met another pup just 2 weeks older than him - who was walking calmly on lead, and then his owners let him off in the park, and he trotted back quite happily when they called. I can no more imagine doing that with my dog right now than leaving a steak on the floor...
This evening DH said he didn't think it would be this hard. I understand that he hasn't ben out in the evenings much or had any lie ins since we got the dog either, and he does a bit in the evenings & mornings before/after work, but ultimately he does go to work every day, and this weekend he went to play sport for most of each day too, which leaves me on 24-7 dog watch. Which I expected, but I still find it a but much for him to be complaining. Am also quite scared about how I'm going to get back to getting any work done at home!
Sorry, this has turned into a bit of an essay! I think the reason it all feels so upsetting is because we were TTCing, and the unspoken issue between us is if we can't manage a dog without it completely turning our lives upside down, how on earth would we manage a baby?