David Baddiel i would
anyway back to the matter in hand
have not re read up on the Stamford test thing but basically it was referring to deferred gratification - not wanting to sound judgemental and pious but will do i think that in 2009 many of us are lacking in this attribute
I myself am guilty of it - could not wait any more for my kitchen so got a loan
I do - however- try and try to instill it in my teens
my eldest is fabulous and number 2 is getting there - the ability to withhold on the pleasure in favour of a greature pleasure later
stay in and revise vs nights out with lads
do coursework vs snuggle up with a movie
need to read around it more to see how it impacts on relationships etc - might look at it now
that is my over simplistic understanding
shame you can only do it on four year olds !