I thought that was strange too ks - does that mean we can't praise a child for doing well in something even if they are naturally good at it?! So my ds1 is pretty good at swimming, he just is - do I just ignore it or am I allowed to say 'well done on getting your next badge'?!?!
Also, just done that test today where you put the cross (child) surrounded by concentric circles and get the child to put mummy, daddy, siblings on it. Apparently if they put you next to their cross they are close to you and the further away they put it the less close to you they are. Oh dear, me, dh, ds2, ds3, nanny and grandad were all outside the concentric circles! Hmmm, ds1 comes to me for hugs and kisses and tells me he loves me though!!
What a load of rubbish!!