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Adolescence: The Netflix drama that will have every parent talking - Join our watch thread plus Q&A with producer and cast

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CeriMumsnet · 12/03/2025 13:58

Premieres 13th March 2025

Read Hannah and Christine's answers to your questions here.

If you’re after a gripping new series to get stuck into, Adolescence is set to be the show of the year - and it’s one that will chill parents to the core. This tense British crime drama begins with the shocking arrest of 13-year-old Jamie Miller for the murder of a classmate. But as the investigation unfolds, the series delves into the unsettling realities of modern masculinity, online radicalisation, and the pressures facing today’s teenagers.

Filmed in South Kirby with a raw, unflinching realism, Adolescence isn’t just another crime drama - it’s a conversation starter. If you were lucky enough to catch the Mumsnet exclusive preview, you’ll know just how haunting and thought-provoking it is, with themes that resonate long after you finish watching.

Watch the trailer here:

Q&A
Adolescence Executive Producer Hannah Walters and actress Christine Tremarco who plays Jamie’s Mum will be joining us for a Q&A in the next couple of weeks, so make sure to share your questions about the show for them below.

  • Hannah Walters is an actress, producer and co-founder of Matriarch Productions, an entertainment production company who aims to provide a much-needed platform for underrepresented voices and stories in the UK. Their credits include BOILING POINT (2021) and most recent TV series for the BBC. Hannah has two children with her husband Stephen Graham.
  • Christine Tremarco is a British actress who along with playing Jamie’s Mum in Adolescence can also currently be seen in Channel 4’s drama series, The Gathering and in the BBC’s Kidnapped: The Chloe Ayling Story, directed by Al Mackay. Other screen credits include the BBC’s Responder opposite Martin Freeman, a series regular in Sky’s Wolfe, and Shane Meadows’ BAFTA winning series The Virtues opposite Stephen Graham.

So, what do we think? Will you be watching? Does the premise resonate with you? Let’s chat below! 👇

Adolescence: The Netflix drama that will have every parent talking - Join our watch thread plus Q&A with producer and cast
Adolescence: The Netflix drama that will have every parent talking - Join our watch thread plus Q&A with producer and cast
Truetoself · 25/03/2025 09:54

Right - I might be being naive and stupid but I still don’t get it. Is everyone saying every young man can be influenced to be a killer? This is not true. The family example and perr group influence are protective factors which in this case they were not. Even then, I don’t think every teenager listening to Andrew Tate will want to kill women

verysmellyjelly · 25/03/2025 10:18

@CeriMumsnet When will the answers to the Q&A be posted? Just curious because I found a lot of the questions people posted very interesting and I’ve been looking forward to seeing the answers from those involved in the production. Thank you! Smile

Ferryweather · 25/03/2025 12:12

Truetoself · 25/03/2025 09:54

Right - I might be being naive and stupid but I still don’t get it. Is everyone saying every young man can be influenced to be a killer? This is not true. The family example and perr group influence are protective factors which in this case they were not. Even then, I don’t think every teenager listening to Andrew Tate will want to kill women

I dont think that is the view.

It’s more that if you create a cultural og misogyny, entitlement and violence towards women (which these online communities do) then a very small number of boys /men may behave in a way that they otherwise wouldn’t.

They are saying that it is not as big a leap as we may think from online abuse and violent porn to acting out in a violent way.

Of course not all boys but some will have this in them , and this type of environment normalises these thoughts and turns them into actions.

Truetoself · 25/03/2025 12:22

@Ferryweatherthanks for explaning. Maybe it takes a certain type of person to be drawn towards these communities. Especially if they are seeing examples of the same at home eg father having a temper and mother having to pacify him despite appearing like a normal loving family

RainbowZebraWarrior · 25/03/2025 12:37

Ferryweather · 25/03/2025 12:12

I dont think that is the view.

It’s more that if you create a cultural og misogyny, entitlement and violence towards women (which these online communities do) then a very small number of boys /men may behave in a way that they otherwise wouldn’t.

They are saying that it is not as big a leap as we may think from online abuse and violent porn to acting out in a violent way.

Of course not all boys but some will have this in them , and this type of environment normalises these thoughts and turns them into actions.

It's the same as the normalisation of choking and anal sex these days. It's quite widely 'expected' and women are mocked for being too vanilla otherwise. That was never the norm 20, 30+ years ago! I spent a couple of years online dating in my mid 40s. That truly opened my eyes to the levels of misogyny and entitlement there are now. It was so depressingly common. As an older woman, I was confident enough to block these types but teens and some younger women are having their boundaries totally eroded.

AdaStewart · 25/03/2025 16:09

First episode riveting, 2nd & 3rd a bit of a drag, 4th both disappointing, & sad seeing the dad cry as he blamed himself for how his son turned out. Overrated & could’ve been so much better. But in saying that Stephen Graham always plays a good part, & I’d be interested to see Owen Cooper again.

CeriMumsnet · 25/03/2025 17:18

Hi @verysmellyjelly, I hope to bring you the Q&A answers very soon - we're also really keen to see Hannah and Christine's answers!

In the meantime, off the back of the wider conversations that Adolescence has been sparking, we've started a poll about how much parents understand about the dangers of online radicalisation. Feel free to head there and share your thoughts.

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Ferryweather · 25/03/2025 17:33

RainbowZebraWarrior · 25/03/2025 12:37

It's the same as the normalisation of choking and anal sex these days. It's quite widely 'expected' and women are mocked for being too vanilla otherwise. That was never the norm 20, 30+ years ago! I spent a couple of years online dating in my mid 40s. That truly opened my eyes to the levels of misogyny and entitlement there are now. It was so depressingly common. As an older woman, I was confident enough to block these types but teens and some younger women are having their boundaries totally eroded.

That’s exactly it - like dick pics. These are now a thing that some men feel entitled to send women. Why is this and how has this been normalised. I know not one man who will admit to sending them but several women who have received them.

My DDs 14 year old friend had her skirt pulled up at a disco and a group of teen boys took pictures while their friend held it up and dd and her friends tried to stop / shield their friend. In all my years of teen discos this never once happened.

it’s depressing

verysmellyjelly · 25/03/2025 17:45

Thanks so much for the reply, @CeriMumsnetSmile I have loved reading all the threads about this show!

cadburyegg · 25/03/2025 22:47

Finished last night. It really stays with you doesn’t it. Exceptional imo.

i am reading a lot of things that say there’s no reprieve in it, no happy ending. Which is true of course, but I do feel we get a tiny bit of relief when Jamie calls to say he’s changing his plea. Like he’s accepted what he’s done at last. I know it’s awful to say but I did feel a bit for him, which I suppose was one of the aims of ep 1. I think he was in denial that he’d done it, his immaturity meant that he couldn’t admit to himself that’s what he’d done.

Just very interesting. The toxic masculinity at home, Jamie having an awful temper (inherited from his dad), chaotic school life, his emotional immaturity, vulnerability and low self esteem meant he was easily influenced, his computer/screen use being allowed to go unchecked and the online radicalisation. He didn’t have many positive role models/safe adults. Like another poster said, a perfect storm. Take one of those factors away, and maybe it wouldn’t have happened. The bit where his parents discussed how they thought he’d be safe in his bedroom - “what harm can he really do in there”… was very powerful and I think will resonate with a lot of parents.

They had so much material they could have worked with for a longer series, and could have referenced the impact on Katie’s family. But I wonder if the reason it was only 4 episodes is because they wanted it to make a point and be a wake up call to parents, and so decided to keep it shorter. Plenty of people don’t have time to watch 10 hours of a tv drama but 4 hours is more manageable.

lifeonmars100 · 25/03/2025 23:14

Fanacapan · 22/03/2025 17:30

I binged this last night and I’m undecided as to whether it is as fantastic as the critics think. I found myself focusing on entirely the wrong things, I must have watched too many true crime documentaries! How did they identify him so quickly? Why did they go in so heavy handed, given he was so young? Why did no one ask who he was supposed to have murdered? If I was the parent I’m sure that would have been the first thing I’d have asked. The production and acting was great but I was left feeling a bit meh. I didn’t think it addressed the issues very well either. My big takeaway was that I had no idea what all those emojis mean!

The killers of Brianna Ghey were arrested the day after her murder.
The killer of EIinanne Adman was arrested 90 minutes after her murder

cakeorwine · 26/03/2025 08:51

RainbowZebraWarrior · 24/03/2025 10:09

Just catching up with the thread and wanted to come back to this point.

This is the absolute crux of it.

However, it also reminds me of how my aunt and her daughter (both entirely tech savvy and intelligent) are minimising my uncles far right extreme views which are fuelled by him disappearing down YouTube rabbit warrens - and no doubt worse - and now meeting up with similarly minded thugs. Of course, back in the day he was 'just' your common or garden football hooligan. The Internet allows people to share their bile and fuel their hate 24/7. They don't need to wait to get to the pub on a match day any more.

Strangely enough, a little bit The Walk In which Stephen Graham also starred in back in 2022.

It's a cancer within our society, and there is no stopping it. The will has always been there.

I agree - it's the algorithms feeding people's views and reinforcing them.

I've been reading about "How to change people's minds" and it's fascinating about cults, beliefs and how people just get into that mindset and it's really hard to get people to see alternatives.

CeriMumsnet · 28/03/2025 16:49

Happy to share that Christine and Hannah will be answering some of your questions this afternoon! Stay tuned...

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AdolescenceChristine · 28/03/2025 16:51

TealPombear · 13/03/2025 14:20

Ohhhh I have a few questions for Christine. Was this your first single-take filming experience? How was it? You were AMAZING.

And was your role the most dark role you’ve had to play?

I just watched the first episode, and wow—it was honestly so intense!! Can’t wait to see the rest!

Hi @TealPombear Thank you so much. Yes this was my first single take experience. I loved working this way as it allows you so much freedom as an actor and the whole collaboration with cast and crew is a beautiful synchronicity.

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AdolescenceChristine · 28/03/2025 16:51

newdad2023 · 13/03/2025 14:49

Did it affect you at all to tackle such a dark subject matter? Also did the amount to times you had to film within one shot take its toll?

Hi @newdad2023 I enjoyed every time we went for a take - it is a wonderful way to work.

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AdolescenceChristine · 28/03/2025 16:52

CheekyDenimTiger · 14/03/2025 12:25

Binged it. Loved it. Honestly, the whole series made me think so much more deeply than I expected from a tv show. I have one DS who’s still in primary school. I’m aware of incels/Andrew Tate from the news but I’ve naively never really thought it affected me much / my son is young (which honestly is probably not great of me). But this show really felt like a wake up call that I need to start paying more attention now.

If I could ask Hannah Walters one thing, it would be: What made you want to bring this story to life? What was it that really spoke to you, and how did you make sure it hit all the right notes and didn’t miss the point?

And to Christine Tremarco: how did it affect you play Jamie’s mum? Because you played it so beautifully. I really felt like I was watching a mum just trying to keep her head above water, keeping your husband and daughter happy, trying to hold it all together

Hi @CheekyDenimTiger Thank you so much- It was a heartbreaking joy to play Jamie's mum and I feel like I learnt so much while playing Manda.

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AdolescenceChristine · 28/03/2025 16:53

TodayGoodDay · 14/03/2025 15:56

interesting story line
great acting by the youngster members of the cast
Erin Doherty was fantastic as the main character in episode 3.

interested to know about the r behind the scenes while the camera is rolling.

also how did they do the drone shot so seamlessly?

Edited

Hi @TodayGoodDay Thank you! The unity as a cast and crew was just beautiful.

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AdolescenceChristine · 28/03/2025 16:57

Charliechoco · 16/03/2025 23:26

SPOILER ALERT 🚨 I’ve already watched the entire series twice, and what an incredible show. On my second viewing, I picked up on a lot more, especially how toxic masculinity is often passed down through generations. It really highlighted the importance of breaking that cycle, which starts with the father.

Even in my own life, I’ve noticed this, my brother, for example, didn’t grow up with a male role model and has been influenced by figures like Andrew Tate, shaping his views on women through the lens of online misogyny. Having a positive male figure to look up to is crucial for a child’s development and ultimately impacts how they perceive women. With domestic abuse cases hitting record highs in the UK this year, the show does a great job of illustrating how easily boys can develop misdirected anger towards girls, which can become incredibly dangerous. Two moments that really stood out: 1) During the session with the counselor, he showed no remorse, admitted his actions were premeditated, and clearly understood the concept of death. 2) The homeware store assistant mentioning an online community that would support the father’s son after seeing “photos of the victim.”

The show also shed light on the dark reality of online bullying, which was deeply unsettling. With social media shaping how kids interact, it was shocking that neither the police, teachers, nor parents realized Jamie was being bullied. They didn’t understand the emojis, acronyms, or coded language, until a young person explained it to them. It’s frightening to think there’s an entire digital world where children are being targeted and abused, completely invisible to adults.

My question to all the actors in the Q&A is: How did you find the experience of working on and portraying such a sensitive topic? In your opinion, what is the biggest threat facing young children in today’s social landscape, and how can parents help protect them?

Hi @Charliechoco, the biggest threat I feel is the internet and social media and iPhones - children being online can be so dangerous - Parents can help protect their children by monitoring their online/phone activity or better still only allow devices when they are of an older age.

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AdolescenceChristine · 28/03/2025 20:15

newdad2023 · 13/03/2025 14:31

Just watched the first episode and I'm blown away. The acting is incredible and feels like you are watching a documentary at times as its so realistic. Master class from Stevie G!

Hi @newdad2023 . As executive producer on the show and more importantly being a mum of 2-the themes in the show did affect me quite profoundly. My own children are now young adults 18 and 20 but navigating the teenage years as a parent is a constant learning process, and with the added addition of social media increasingly saturating young people’s minds, in areas that we as adults aren’t aware of it is petrifying.

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AdolescenceHannah · 28/03/2025 20:20

Hi @sanpellegrinocinnamonbun Jo Johnson our incredible series producer and myself of course made sure that Owen and the other young adults had not only the pastoral care required with their parents/chaperones always onsite but a child Phycologist was bought on board in the very early stages, even at the very beginning the casting process, during rehearsals, throughout filming and post filming too.
Our incredible casting director Shaheen Baig did open castings from the Midlands to Leeds, we had over 500 tapes for the role of Jamie. We narrowed it down to the top 5, these 5 were then invited to come to some workshops and read with other actors. Owen had exactly what we were looking as the role of Jamie, and not only was he incredibly talented but he’s just such a lovely young man who we all connected with. The other 4 actors that didn’t get the role were then offered other parts in the show-this doesn’t happen usually so we felt really lucky to be able to give them an opportunity and help with their confidence and knowledge as performers., skills they could then go onto to use to enhance their careers.

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AdolescenceHannah · 28/03/2025 20:21

CheekyDenimTiger · 14/03/2025 12:25

Binged it. Loved it. Honestly, the whole series made me think so much more deeply than I expected from a tv show. I have one DS who’s still in primary school. I’m aware of incels/Andrew Tate from the news but I’ve naively never really thought it affected me much / my son is young (which honestly is probably not great of me). But this show really felt like a wake up call that I need to start paying more attention now.

If I could ask Hannah Walters one thing, it would be: What made you want to bring this story to life? What was it that really spoke to you, and how did you make sure it hit all the right notes and didn’t miss the point?

And to Christine Tremarco: how did it affect you play Jamie’s mum? Because you played it so beautifully. I really felt like I was watching a mum just trying to keep her head above water, keeping your husband and daughter happy, trying to hold it all together

Hi @CheekyDenimTiger Stephen & Jack wanted to put a microscope onto an issue that just seems to be reoccurring and escalating-that being, an increase in violence from young boys toward young girls, misogyny, social media influence, lack of communication between adults and young people and the fact that it can happen to what is perceived as an ordinary family. And how does one cope with that, the fallout of such devastation.

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AdolescenceHannah · 28/03/2025 20:22

NewMagicWand · 14/03/2025 15:41

Spoilers:

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My thought was that it took Jamie a long time to admit to himself in his head that it wasn't a mistake or an accident. I felt that was linked in to the family being normal - they were all swept up in an external force. It felt like society was much to blame for continually tripping them up.

Personally, I found it very hard to feel anything except sorry for Jamie. It was probably because he reminded me of my own younger DS - it's hard as a parent to watch a boy go through that without thinking of your own child. I didn't want to believe he had done it. I also desperately wanted the psychologist to say that she liked him.

I was interested in how many failed rushes there were before getting this perfect in one go, if anyone can answer that? The filming must have been absolutely hectic.

Hi @NewMagicWand Most of the takes got through the full hour, we had a few technical hitches that made some unusable although we still carried on till cut was called. A few false starts too and one day it was just too windy to get the drone up in the air for the end of Episode 2 so we literally were coming up with alternative endings for the story/camera whilst having breakfast!

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AdolescenceHannah · 28/03/2025 20:26

CatsLikeBoxes · 15/03/2025 21:48

I haven't read all the posts, so sorry if someone else has said this.

But think it is interesting how much the males were prioritised in the story telling - was that intentional as reflection of the underlying concept of patriarchy / incel culture.

The woman sergeant mentioned how she hated that everyone would remember Jamie's name rather than Katie. And in fact we learned very little about her. The policewoman barely contributed, the psychologist had to put up with the guy in the detention centre looming over her, Jamie only focused on his dad, we never knew what was happening to Jade...

Although I found it powerful, I would have liked to see it from other perspectives too.

Hi @CatsLikeBoxes The focus is on Jamie and his father as that's the story we wanted to tell - the relationship between fathers and sons.

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AdolescenceHannah · 28/03/2025 20:31

Charliechoco · 16/03/2025 23:26

SPOILER ALERT 🚨 I’ve already watched the entire series twice, and what an incredible show. On my second viewing, I picked up on a lot more, especially how toxic masculinity is often passed down through generations. It really highlighted the importance of breaking that cycle, which starts with the father.

Even in my own life, I’ve noticed this, my brother, for example, didn’t grow up with a male role model and has been influenced by figures like Andrew Tate, shaping his views on women through the lens of online misogyny. Having a positive male figure to look up to is crucial for a child’s development and ultimately impacts how they perceive women. With domestic abuse cases hitting record highs in the UK this year, the show does a great job of illustrating how easily boys can develop misdirected anger towards girls, which can become incredibly dangerous. Two moments that really stood out: 1) During the session with the counselor, he showed no remorse, admitted his actions were premeditated, and clearly understood the concept of death. 2) The homeware store assistant mentioning an online community that would support the father’s son after seeing “photos of the victim.”

The show also shed light on the dark reality of online bullying, which was deeply unsettling. With social media shaping how kids interact, it was shocking that neither the police, teachers, nor parents realized Jamie was being bullied. They didn’t understand the emojis, acronyms, or coded language, until a young person explained it to them. It’s frightening to think there’s an entire digital world where children are being targeted and abused, completely invisible to adults.

My question to all the actors in the Q&A is: How did you find the experience of working on and portraying such a sensitive topic? In your opinion, what is the biggest threat facing young children in today’s social landscape, and how can parents help protect them?

Hi @Charliechoco The biggest threat is outside, negative, and poisonous opinions being filtered through to our young people’s minds that we have no control over. Our children are being parented at times and guided by what they see on social media. We need to metaphorically and physically open the door to our child’s bedrooms, have conversations, connect and keep connecting, allow them to feel they have safe space to talk, however uncomfortable they may feel it will be.

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