I agree. It’s so infuriating.
My DD has dyslexia. She had a private assessment, due to staff sickness/covid, etc she left high school and in our area, NHS don’t find dyslexia assessments post 16.
She has significant issues, but still manages to get distinctions in her college course (can’t pass her maths GCSE for love nor money though).
She has dyslexia, she’s not incapable of learning, she learns differently. Now those differences are known and supported, she’s doing brilliantly.
Im sure this shit is just jealousy. People see her getting something (reasonable adjustments, extra time) they’re not.
My DD also has Tourette’s and she had a scribe and extra time in her GCSEs and a so called friend kicked off and accused us of cheating.
DD is also in the middle of an ADHD assessment at the moment - at a private clinic (not one of the ones in the programme) having been referred there by CAMHS, because in our area all ADHD and ASD assessments are outsourced to them at present